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Is it possible to not be able to love?
Posted 2/1/10

Molly_Monroe wrote:


That's true..I guess it depends on what you mean by "unable."

Unable could mean that you just don't have the chance to love. But that doesn't mean you aren't able to FEEL love for anything, and that's what I meant.



oh okie that's true as well :/
Posted 2/1/10

mystic17 wrote:


Molly_Monroe wrote:


That's true..I guess it depends on what you mean by "unable."

Unable could mean that you just don't have the chance to love. But that doesn't mean you aren't able to FEEL love for anything, and that's what I meant.



oh okie that's true as well :/


Either way, it's a depressing thought, isn't it?? XD I like to believe everyone deserves to be able to feel it/experience it.

Posted 2/1/10
I do too everyone deserves happiness
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i love rice
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Posted 2/1/10
im 23 and never been in love with a chick, so there is your answer
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Posted 2/2/10
not possible? i mean you gotta love someone, even if it's a crush right?

...oh wait unless you're a narcist.
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Posted 2/2/10
lol im kinda in the same situation...but i guess im still young =)
prolly just haven't met my person yet.
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Posted 2/2/10
ive given up on the notion of finding love i that there have been lots of ppl who never loved in their lives outside family
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Posted 2/2/10
yes it is.......I locked away my heart and emotions(somewat) so that i can just be career-minded. So i dont have time for love and other tawdry things. I cant see myself falling in llove either. I just want something that is for myself and i dont want anything to ruin it
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Posted 2/16/10

Love is a slow poison !
Posted 5/15/10
I'm asexual.
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Posted 5/15/10
it's possible
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Posted 5/15/10
yes
Posted 5/15/10
For me it seems impossible because I've never felt like I really "loved" anyone, I probably just haven't met the right person yet though...
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there are different types of love
*there is what you call (like) - you like them because they are nice to you or they are good looking and have a good personality
*there is a what you call (friendship love) - you love them because they are your friend, sometimes you dont like the way they act or the way they treat you, but never the less you still love them.
*there is what you call ( romantic love) - its is also can be emotional love -you think you are in love with that person, you can't get that person out of your head, you fell like you are in cloud nine or very happy and excited when you see that person, you dont know what to do he/she is around. Just basically totally head over heels in love. But this one does goes away after a while it depends on the situation sometimes few days,weeks, months to about 1 year after that it starts to subside or level out and you are pulled back to reality. Depending to how much you really know the person after having a relationship with him/her. it is like a fix for drug addicts a high.
*there is what you call ( attraction/lustful love) you are attracted to the person because they are hot to your opinion the ideal physical beauty that you desire. or he/she just happens to have the very beautiful face and or body. You can also be sexually arouse when you see or feel things but it has nothing to do with any kind of love it is just a natural reaction of our body when stimulated that way. its a physical response and have nothing to do with what you think or feel about that person. (hormones in our body reacting)
* there is what you call (admiration) you admire most or some of their physical appearance. you can also admire the traits they posses like if they are kind, honest, caring, thoughtful or confident.
*there is what you call (family love) you love that person because you have the same blood flowing in you veins. Or you can also love some as you love you family member like you may feel like someone is like a mother, a sister, or a brother even though they are not related to you.
*there is what you call (true love ) which is a choice, you chose to love someone regardless of what happens even after romantic love goes away you still stick to be with that person. This love usually intertwine with other types of love. This is when you chose to be with that person for a lifetime. or least try with all of your power to be with that person for a lifetime. its when we love that person when we sometimes dont feel the love is there. Emotions comes and goes, but real/true love is a commitment.
*all of this kind of love sometimes intertwine and overlaps in some or most degree. Emotions can also be confusing. We can feel emotions of something whether we like it or not . it usually depends on what we feel sometimes we control how we feel sometimes the emotions controls us. but emotions varies and changes all the time depending on the situation.

these are from life experiences ( may be limited, but to my opinion is pretty good explanation of things) You will eventually figure it out usually after experiencing them first. So don't worry you will eventually know this when it happens to you. You gain experience through time and you can decide for yourself. So don't worry and enjoy life. Everyone experience things one way or another and we learn from our experiences. ( sorry its to long )
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