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why do girls love hurting boys physically?
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Posted 1/25/10

bleach7777777 wrote:

some do it cuz they like u but some times they want to prove that they are just as tough as guys (which the arent) but they just making them look stupid


dont underestimate girls....i mean i learn boxing, karate, and kendo for protection...XD and i play soccer(with my bro), and run 4 1 hour 3 times a week, i do 100 push ups, and sit ups b4 sleeping (it makes me sleep easier) =_= so my punches does hurt( did a check..got 8800/9999 points on a punching game (it made all the boys mouth open))...XD so most guys don't really want 2 annoy me ...since 1 guy did and i kick his fucking ass and made him bleed..+_+(felt guilty though) well...that was like 6th grade..LOL but some "new student " boys still annoy but i control my "hot headed personality" so i just tickle him back XD (good thing i did)
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Why should i hurt 'em?
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It's a power trip! Guys wont bite, punch, kick, or any of that physically abusive stuff back to them because it isn't socially acceptable. And women know, they KNOW they can get away with it. It's kinda like, women give their heart and soul so I suppose we need to compinsate by hitting someone bigger whom can't hit us back.

It's all psychological... and it's lovely
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I think that your frustration can be blamed on society ....... but not for the reason that you're thinking.

In a society where men and women are quote "equal" unquote, it doesn't seem fair that a woman can "hit" a man without worrying about being hit back. Yet even within that societal mindset it is still understood that to hit a woman (someone weaker than you) is bad.

Ever wonder why? Because men and women are not the same -- and you don't even have to take Anatomy 101 to know that. Our internal guidance systems are fundamentally different. In simpler terms a guy is a 60/40 split of mind/heart (respect/love) whereas a girl is a 60/40 split of heart/mind (love/repect). In an effort to create "equality" society tries to force men and women into a 50/50 mind/heart (respect/love) split which is not truly compatible to the fundamental essence of either gender.

If you're scratching your head at this point, what I'm trying to say is that we should recognize and respect each others differences. Understand that girls don't think like guys -- and never will. A girl may tend to be guided more by her heart, but that doesn't mean that she is an irrational being. In Girls physical violence is the outward expression of inward frustration.

Girls like to talk, right? Guys not so much, true? If a girl is talking with you and you say something rude or out of turn you better believe that you're going to get smacked -- that's obvious. A girl may resort to a pat on the back or a punch in the arm to congratulate you or just to play around. Now, If a girl is talking to you or trying to talk to you and you're not paying attention or getting what she's saying then she's going to get frustrated. The more she likes you the more she'll be frustrated.

Girls are natural communicators,and if they can't say something because they're too embarrassed this frustrates them. Should the frustration come to a point that she can no longer handle then she is going to lash out. Her mind may logically know that it's not her fault or your fault, but her heart can't handle this lack of communication. Perhaps by some instinct girls understand that a good guy won't hit back; therefore, it is safe to vent her frustration. By hitting you she is also trying to get across that there is a problem (in communication, in the relationship, etc.), and she wants you to be a man and fix it.

I'm not saying that we should go back to medieval times or anything like that, but if society would stop pushing this thing of treating men and women exactly the same then the world would be a better place.
Men work hard outside the home; they are providers; they are natural leaders; they are physical protectors. They should be honored and respected for what they do and for their differences from women.
Women are emotional protectors; they gently guide and affect changes internally; they care deeply for the well being of others; they are normally more home oriented. Women should be honored and respected for what they do and for their differences from men.

It is an insult to treat a woman like a man. She has different strengths and weaknesses and needs. This is why little old ladies should be helped across the street, why men should give up their seats on the bus for a woman, and why verbal abuse is particularly harmful to women.

It is also an insult to treat a man like a woman. A man's masculinity is wonderful to behold, but a man's ego is a fragile thing. This is why his feats of intelligence and strength in his everyday work should be praised by his partner, why women should understand that their love is best demonstrated to men through their actions and respect, and why girls and boys should keep their hands and other body parts to themselves.

In case any of you girls get mad at me, I'm a woman and this is my philosophical opinion based on study and experience.
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LOL
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Posted 1/25/10
this no true ,, this should be a sick girl or a nut 1 !! who told u this trash
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Posted 1/25/10
i rarely hit my guy friends. if i do, its a nudge or a slap on the back. all of it is to play around. ^__^.
other girls take too much advantage of the fact that guys cant him them back, & so they get agressive. =.=
& then there are other girls who will hit you because thats their way of showing affection. maybe its cuz
they can touch u this wayy? all up to u, d00ds. ; D
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24 / M / A rainy paradise...
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When a girl hits me, I assume that it's because she likes me.

If you don't like it, you can always tell them to stop. And if they don't, they're just asking to be 'punished'...and you can have a lot of fun with that.
Posted 1/25/10
cough, cough to the person above me

girls like hitting guys because they either like him or is just embarrassed by what the guy said to them..

also if a guy tells a girl to stop hitting them and that girls keeps hitting you it probably means that "im not scared of you" thing or "what are you going to do about it"...................
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Posted 1/25/10
Well, I hit those guyz ( well lightly, not rlly hard) with whom I'm rlly comfortable with. Lyk close guyfrens...
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21 / M / Osaka, Japan ★
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heheheh damn that gives me a strike! XXDD
ahhmm... bec. girls wants to close to guys... in a sense that we will hurt them and hhmm.. we do that just to express our fondness....... so to speak ehehehe...... when a girl does that it means to say she feels comfortable to be with the guy ^^
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Posted 1/25/10

meezermex wrote:

I think that your frustration can be blamed on society ....... but not for the reason that you're thinking.

In a society where men and women are quote "equal" unquote, it doesn't seem fair that a woman can "hit" a man without worrying about being hit back. Yet even within that societal mindset it is still understood that to hit a woman (someone weaker than you) is bad.
Good, no, make that excellent post.

I'd also like to point out that guys who care about a girl are often more than willing to listen to their venting of frustration IF they can let the guy know that they are just venting and not presenting a problem to the guy and asking them to fix it. Odds are what you get back from him is not sympathy or support but a logical analysis of the situation and what he figures (right or wrong) are ways to correct it. Which leads to girls accusing guys of being cold, uncaring and "not listening" and bafflement and frustration on the guys part when his "solutions" are rejected out of hand.

Every person is different and has differing levels of comfort about contact; some learned from the society they were raised in and some innate to the person. I personally am an extreme. I dislike anyone touching me casually and anyone who touches me aggressively risks a response back if I can't over ride my impulses. I'm sure the opposite is true and there are guys out there that LIKE to be pummeled and hit. But, girls who assume that she can strike any guys and get away with it simply for the fact of her gender... well, life is full of surprises isn't it.

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Posted 1/25/10
My friend at school always hit her guy friends because everyday I observed them, the guys always steal her lunch food.
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Posted 1/25/10 , edited 1/25/10
Good question. Ladies, explain yourselves.
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Posted 1/26/10
Nothing puts me in a better mood than giving a dude a nice smack in the face. Because he's like, probably not like, feminist anyway.

[Lol.]
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