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Looks do really change the way of life....???
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Posted 12/30/09
good looking guyz takes no effort to take a girl out in a date.............

but not good looking guyz makes full effort just to make the girl talk to him.....^^ haha,,,,,,,

im not saying ugly guyz....... but if u wer good looking guy and u are beside a better looking guy u will be ignored..^^ haha.....
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Posted 12/30/09 , edited 12/30/09
Good looks cannot make up for one's lack of ability. In the corporate world, it's true that the person who presents him/herself better may have better stake at promotions or similar opportunities, but ability dictates much of one's worth in society. It's somewhat utilitarian, but that's the way it goes - lest you wish to succumb to the status quo.
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Okay, think.

You and your friend (let's say you're both average in appearace) meet a very pretty girl and her slightly less pretty friend. Now, you four start to hang out and you learn the prettier of the two is very cynical, rude, arrogant and generally unpleasant, while her slightly less pretty friend is sweet, funny, and good company. Who do you want to spend the rest of your life with? The pretty girl with no personality or the less pretty one who's a ball to be around? Keep in mind that looks fade but personality never does. When she's 60, that pretty girl isn't going to be so pretty and you're going to be stuck with that same awful personality.

Sure, there's a few people who have both, and good for them. It's very true that physical appearance plays a part in meeting people, but in the long run, it's all about personality.
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Posted 12/30/09
I reckon it's all about charm tbh.
If you know how to woo a girl, you don't need to look like a stud. ^_______^

I know this guy a friend of my boyfriend's actually, when I met him I didn't think he was so great with the ladies because well... he wasn't ugly, just very average.
Turns out one night out clubbing he made out with 6 girls. Not all at the same time obv, but you get the idea... I'm told he just has a way with words.
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Posted 12/30/09 , edited 12/30/09
Looks can help, but they don't make up for a lack of personality or social skills.

I know plenty of erm.....not so attractive people who get all the guys/girls, as well as very attractive people who don't.

I think it has more to do with charm and confidence than anything.
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Yes. There are even statistics proving that prettier people live longer and are more happy. It sucks, yeah, and it's not fair, but it makes sense. The more attractive you are the more people want you to like them, they nicer they are, the more things go your way. People meet you want automatically want to be liked. Average looking people are fine, too, less attractive people have to work harder to get what beautiful people likely take for granted. Like someone else said, confidence also matters, and can make someone more attractive.
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Posted 12/30/09

ViralMarketing wrote:

Yes. There are even statistics proving that prettier people live longer and are more happy. It sucks, yeah, and it's not fair, but it makes sense. The more attractive you are the more people want you to like them, they nicer they are, the more things go your way. People meet you want automatically want to be liked. Average looking people are fine, too, less attractive people have to work harder to get what beautiful people likely take for granted. Like someone else said, confidence also matters, and can make someone more attractive.





yes that is the cruel reality of life but it is part of growing up......... facing every problem in front of you...^^ even if the problem is your face,,,,^^
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Posted 12/31/09
Good looking guys work less harder on dates?
LOL! Oh how wrong you are...
No matter what the person looks like, the date will suck at the end if the guy doesn't put any backbone into it and think up of things to say to the girl.
I could have the most handsome guy in-front of me and if he's not putting any effort into our date then it won't last long.
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Looks do help.There are people who judge others by their looks,and first impressions are really important.But ultimately,it's your personality that will shape your life.You can be the most beautiful person,but if you're incapable you won't survive.
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Yes, being beautiful/handsome does make it easier but there are times that a person is too beautiful that they are feared/avoided/envied. To people who are not so fortunate in looks, including me, should develop other qualities to be irresistible. Actually, love and romance can be had by just tricking the mind of your target. How to do it, is of course, a part of life.
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Posted 12/31/09
look has part, cuz butt ugly people get ignored but if your at least decent your personality plan a big part, have you ever seen those good lookin guys/girls goin out with an ugly partner....so yea, also people have different taste, and being good looking can have its up's and down's, good cuz everyone wants to get near you and your wont have to worry about never getting someone or getting married or prom and stuff, but then again you will have alot of haters and jealous people [kinda like bully]
Posted 12/31/09
The pretty-boys are always the assholes

Just show me a good time and I'm all yours

I like gamer guys...because some of them are SO damn hot and they don't even know it! Too busy playing games to care
Posted 12/31/09
Everyone likes to be with people who are physically attractive to them. Having the looks can definitely make it easier to get someones attention initially, but beyond that it's all personality. Even if your drop dead gorgeous, you won't keep somebody's interest for much time if your personality sucks.
Posted 12/31/09
How is this true? Having good lucks can help with first impressions. Your personality is what really counts in the end.
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Posted 12/31/09 , edited 12/31/09
i dont care how good looking he is if he makes no effort im gone

but i will admit that looks can be a catalyst to start a relationship but they dont keep it going so thats what the effort on both sides is 4
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