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What is the best compliment you can give a guy?
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Posted 9/6/10

mystic17 wrote:

"Wow, you're not as dumb as I thought you were."


This kind of compliment would cream my biscuit anytime
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hey, if you like a guy. let em know!

If you've made it obvious enough in the past, 9 - 10 times he'll be overcome with joy and probably feel the same way.

In my opinion, best compliment ever!
Posted 9/6/10

mystic17 wrote:

"Wow, you're not as dumb as I thought you were."


wow i even said that to a guy once but he wasnt flattered at all....o.O
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if you catch him doing something, say "wow, you're really good at that!" (Even if he's not, lol)
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Posted 9/6/10

mystic17 wrote:

"Wow, you're not as dumb as I thought you were."


"See, not just a pretty face"
Posted 9/7/10

Stef wrote:

This kind of compliment would cream my biscuit anytime


....Cream my biscuit?
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"No one can ever replace you."

Lots of guys feel they can easily be replaced.
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If in any doubt about any man, try to cater to our natural instinct to problem-solve.
Even if it is one you could solve without him/them, whenever a male is useful to a female it strokes their ego, that's how it works.
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Posted 9/7/10

synphia wrote:


mystic17 wrote:

"Wow, you're not as dumb as I thought you were."


wow i even said that to a guy once but he wasnt flattered at all....o.O


look at it in reverse so if a guy told you that ...how would you feel?

You basically are saying "i thought you were going to be stupid from that the start...your not"

Key is don't use compliments with negative terms in them

Something like this would achieve the same meaning but with a more positive effect "Have people told you that you are smarter then most guys? because i know you are"
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You are very cute!
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I'm well above average intelligence, if *anyone* compliments my intelligence I lose interest, I don't care about my intelligence it's a fact of life so complimenting me on it would be a illogical thing to do "duh, I know I'm intelligent...."

If a girl compliments a man's manhood with "gosh, it's larger than the others" it implies the girl is a bit of a slapper whose seen lots of genitalia, not exactly a major turn on for a guy to find out the girl who paid him a compliment has seen more penises than a surgeon specialising in circumcision now is it?

Only comment I've seen so far that works is "you smell nice", I've been complimented many times on different aspects of myself, from my looks to my personality, but the best compliment has always been "you smell nice". Of course, any compliment has to be sincere, if someone smells like they haven't taken a shower in a month and you say "you smell nice!" that'll pretty much come under sarcasm, if a dude looks like he fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down, don't say "hey, you're cute", he knows he's ugly, compliment his dress sense or his hair or anything that is sincere about that person.
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Lexxuk wrote:

I'm well above average intelligence, if *anyone* compliments my intelligence I lose interest, I don't care about my intelligence it's a fact of life so complimenting me on it would be a illogical thing to do "duh, I know I'm intelligent...."

If a girl compliments a man's manhood with "gosh, it's larger than the others" it implies the girl is a bit of a slapper whose seen lots of genitalia, not exactly a major turn on for a guy to find out the girl who paid him a compliment has seen more penises than a surgeon specialising in circumcision now is it?

Only comment I've seen so far that works is "you smell nice", I've been complimented many times on different aspects of myself, from my looks to my personality, but the best compliment has always been "you smell nice". Of course, any compliment has to be sincere, if someone smells like they haven't taken a shower in a month and you say "you smell nice!" that'll pretty much come under sarcasm, if a dude looks like he fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down, don't say "hey, you're cute", he knows he's ugly, compliment his dress sense or his hair or anything that is sincere about that person.


Wow you need to lighten up. We all know idiotic people and smart people, though we all don't know how big everyone's penis is.

Besides, a lot of compliments are incomplete versions of a thought. "Wow, you're smart!" in thought form is usually something like "Wow, I didn't know you were so smart!", so you're actually just being a total dick about it.

And considering there's no hard-defined sure-fire method to measure intelligence, then the level of intelligence is actually an opinion! So when someone tells you you're smart, it's because you're smart TO THEM.


So considering your level of intelligence and whether you smell nice or not are both opinions, you've led yourself to a double standard, which is NOT a smart thing to do.
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I personally prefer being complimented for something i have done for someone rather then looks or personality.

when i am helping someone out and i complimented on how helpful i am it makes me feel whole lot happier then being told i'm smart..
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Posted 9/7/10
Tell them that they're funny. That always works.

But if it someone special be honest and whatever comes to mind when you see them.
Posted 9/7/10
" Your Sexy "
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