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Posted 1/6/10

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When you had sex with someone, you open a new unexplored territory in yourself. Something that you've never felt before that's also a very important of life. It's all part of process of growing up. You don't lose yourself but rather add another part of you in your identity. Some deal with the change better than others.

Just embrace the change! You'll be more comfortable with it then :D


well said :)
yeah this guy i had sex with defiantly changed
hes such a douchebag now and he was such a sweet heart before. i feel bad knowing i may be the cuase to his douchebagness.
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haywee wrote:


saroin420 wrote:


haywee wrote:

I think many people find that it is the transition into adulthood, so that's why they change. The only thing I have found about it is that people become more immature and won't shut up about it.


i second that.
however im no virgin and i find that those who are virgins talk about it more than i do...
however lol that could just be me.
and yeah i hateed it when i was a vrigin and people rubbed that in my face.
however i do that to people now lol so i guess that makes me a hippacrate.

I find that too, but when I was in college and people were starting to have sex they just wouldn't shut up about it. They would tell me everything. One girl told me that it was like seeing the universe and everything just seemed different and right. Wtf.
No one ever said anything bad about me when I was a virgin (at 19) they respected that and congratulated me because they had all lost it in drunken one night stands!



well alot of people i know have lost it at a younge age.
so i lost mine at 17 and even that was old lol.
but im glad i did though. i made sure that id never looose it in a one night stand
beucase if i fucked drunk then i thought maybe id never want to fuck sober.
i dont really care if its the whole thing about "oh what if i fucked this person who wasnt special enough blabhalbhalh "
theres a borderline of just sex and something thats more than that.
and i understand that and i ussualy have just sex becuase a relationship for me right now is pointless.


I was really old lol People used to think that I must have the mind of an 5 year old or something and have no sexual desire at all because of that. I'm pretty shy and self conscious with things like this and I really don't think I could do it if I didn't have feeling for the person but fair enough if other people want to. I've been really hurt by a guy so I kind of hid away from things like that to protect myself. :S
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haywee wrote:


saroin420 wrote:


haywee wrote:


saroin420 wrote:


haywee wrote:

I think many people find that it is the transition into adulthood, so that's why they change. The only thing I have found about it is that people become more immature and won't shut up about it.


i second that.
however im no virgin and i find that those who are virgins talk about it more than i do...
however lol that could just be me.
and yeah i hateed it when i was a vrigin and people rubbed that in my face.
however i do that to people now lol so i guess that makes me a hippacrate.

I find that too, but when I was in college and people were starting to have sex they just wouldn't shut up about it. They would tell me everything. One girl told me that it was like seeing the universe and everything just seemed different and right. Wtf.
No one ever said anything bad about me when I was a virgin (at 19) they respected that and congratulated me because they had all lost it in drunken one night stands!



well alot of people i know have lost it at a younge age.
so i lost mine at 17 and even that was old lol.
but im glad i did though. i made sure that id never looose it in a one night stand
beucase if i fucked drunk then i thought maybe id never want to fuck sober.
i dont really care if its the whole thing about "oh what if i fucked this person who wasnt special enough blabhalbhalh "
theres a borderline of just sex and something thats more than that.
and i understand that and i ussualy have just sex becuase a relationship for me right now is pointless.


I was really old lol People used to think that I must have the mind of an 5 year old or something and have no sexual desire at all because of that. I'm pretty shy and self conscious with things like this and I really don't think I could do it if I didn't have feeling for the person but fair enough if other people want to. I've been really hurt by a guy so I kind of hid away from things like that to protect myself. :S


yeah i understand where your comming from,
however im a honry person myself and hoenstly when it comes to this, youve got nothing to loose
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We kinda have different ideals but everyone has a different view on such things. To me it's more about being close to the person that I love, and also; like by boyfriend says, an "element of fuck" lol
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haywee wrote:


We kinda have different ideals but everyone has a different view on such things. To me it's more about being close to the person that I love, and also; like by boyfriend says, an "element of fuck" lol


lol yeah forsure XD
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From a guy's point of view biology and media seems to tell us to spread our seed any chance we can get to continue own our genes. So to that end I know alot of guys that do just that. Play the boyfriend until they get what they want, if it's good they will stay or just long enough to find another girl. Its messed up but reality. I feel anxious sometimes about having sex and all the what-ifs about it, once you do it all that kinda goes away and the things you imagined it to be aren't relevant. Of course I am being a jerk.

On the opposite side guys are simple, we don't speak accurately on how we feel. We act out, for alot of us it is means to act out these feelings. The problem about that is misunderstanding and miscommunication about what sex actually means to both parties. As a guy its like a perpetual challenge to remind myself to talk about this exactly with your partner. Back to us being simple beings we view sex as pleasurable and being mutually beneficial when that always isn't the case. If we are satisfied we assume the one to bring that satisfaction to us is mirrored in our partner.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68j1sfsxJI4
THATS WHY
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smallbuda wrote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68j1sfsxJI4
THATS WHY


http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8439000.stm "The G-spot 'doesn't appear to exist', say researchers"
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NO, no,nono i was thinking that part what are women thinking doring sex....
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Well I think it's different for different people - not all guys are the 'same' as far as sex goes, same with gals I'm sure.

I kind of want to say if a person becomes a 'douche' after sex, that person was a 'douche' to begin with - just did not show that side.

There are also plenty of immature people out there - or people who have just not grown up yet.

From personal experience I can say that sex can be quite detached from actually being 'close' to someone. I've felt more intimate with my ex when I just slept with her (not sex) or we laid on the couch together, rather then when we had sex.

It's true that some people have bigger sexual urges then others, and that can play a part to their behavior, BUT, people are responsible for whatever decisions they make; Unlike most other animals - we are capable of rational thought - thus we are capable of CHOOSING what actions to take or not to take.
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Posted 1/6/10

DerfelCadarn wrote:

A few calories are burnt. Yep. The individual becomes 'X - 50 cal.'.


Good One. heh.
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Posted 1/6/10

Darkphoenix3450 wrote:

'Sex changes you?' I do not think so. Usually after sex, I have sex again.. 3 times a day at least...'

But I have always been truthful with my self and others. I say whats on my mind, and that will not change.


True, to some.
Posted 1/7/10
gee i think this subject had different opinions on why people have a change of heart after sex
Posted 1/7/10
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ME (before sex) : i will only give my virginity to the man who will marry me!
ME (after sex) : what the heck! you have nothin to loose! its not a big deal eniwei, you ain't gonna die! enjoy LIFE to teh fullest!
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