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still virgin
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Posted 1/11/10

Darkphoenix3450 wrote:

'Sex changes you?' I do not think so. Usually after sex, I have sex again.. 3 times a day at least...'

But I have always been truthful with my self and others. I say whats on my mind, and that will not change.


man you're a beast
Posted 1/11/10 , edited 1/11/10

saroin420 wrote:

well said :)
yeah this guy i had sex with defiantly changed
hes such a douchebag now and he was such a sweet heart before. i feel bad knowing i may be the cuase to his douchebagness.


One girl I had slept w/ totally changed too, she was a good girl and everything cute n' all... then after "us" she slept around, i mean everywhere, and did all sorts of drugs and yea, now shes dating a guy thats like.. 30 and shes 18 hah yeaaa....
With me, idk i feel it was an opposite effect maybe, because I use to be pretty cruel to girls, not anymore obviously... Whether it be just growing up and maturing, or if sex had anything to do w/ it, who knows.
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Posted 1/11/10
well its a pleasure in exchange for your own energy, sex wastes lots of your energy~~~~
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ruuuchi wrote:

well its a pleasure in exchange for your own energy, sex wastes lots of your energy~~~~


'Sex is good for you, it burns calories. helps release stress, and it releases chemicals that keeps body healthy. ' So a say again Sex is good for you.
Posted 1/11/10
After sex you've been in touch with your inner animal...
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Posted 1/11/10

chrishoody wrote:


Darkphoenix3450 wrote:

'Sex changes you?' I do not think so. Usually after sex, I have sex again.. 3 times a day at least...'

But I have always been truthful with my self and others. I say whats on my mind, and that will not change.


man you're a beast :D


Don't let him fool you, he's probably doing "sex" with his hand(right or left).
ahaha 3x a day, 365 days a year. Even if you were married that streak wont last long.

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Posted 1/11/10
I just got out of a 1 year relationship living with my gf who was 4 years older than me, back to the single life and a few days later slept with a girl I had a crush on for a year.

Anyways sex is just random for me, been with more than a few girls and at first I couldn't stop thinking about them after sex and become completely dumb chasing after sex, but after 11 relationships starting from when I was 16. I just get fb's now, and its a fun feeling. You flirt and flirt till either one of you can't take it anymore, have sex, then tease each other about it, and move on to the next one...

with the last 4 companies I've worked for, slept with a manager, a trainee, a coworker, a girl from another department, and my assistant. So usually getting the girl I want feels good afterwards, like I accomplished my goal, so nothing really changes. The bond between us gets closer and its still just as fun =)

Perhaps living in China is easier since people of the opposite sex are abundant and I like asian girls, so theres not alot of emotional attachment to it.
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Posted 1/11/10
this is very true and i really don't know why. i guess its cuz psychologically they feel more mature. but i've seen girls who like change facial features.. very odd... but yeah. for me, i just smoked tons of cigarettes haha
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Posted 1/11/10

48v2king wrote:

I just got out of a 1 year relationship living with my gf who was 4 years older than me, back to the single life and a few days later slept with a girl I had a crush on for a year.

Anyways sex is just random for me, been with more than a few girls and at first I couldn't stop thinking about them after sex and become completely dumb chasing after sex, but after 11 relationships starting from when I was 16. I just get fb's now, and its a fun feeling. You flirt and flirt till either one of you can't take it anymore, have sex, then tease each other about it, and move on to the next one...

with the last 4 companies I've worked for, slept with a manager, a trainee, a coworker, a girl from another department, and my assistant. So usually getting the girl I want feels good afterwards, like I accomplished my goal, so nothing really changes. The bond between us gets closer and its still just as fun =)

Perhaps living in China is easier since people of the opposite sex are abundant and I like asian girls, so theres not alot of emotional attachment to it.



personaly sex can mean two things to me.
either it means something more
or is just sex.
i ussualy have the mind set its just sex cuase most of the time the guy thinks its just sex too.
and im fine with that.
im a horny person so beeing "just sex" is fine with me.
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Posted 1/11/10
people change after sex?!?! since WHEN?! I've never heard of this!!!!
I like who I am now! never having sex. neverneverneverrrr

hahahahahahahhaha
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saroin420 wrote:

why is it that after sex people change ??

i think that sex clarifies who truly are.
there is not one person that doesnt change after sex


Could it not be that the said person finally got what they wanted (sex from the second party) and they no longer have to put up a facade? At least that's what I sense a lot from these all these girls that are jaded because guys they thought where sweet ended up being douches after they got laid.
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well for me personally after sex im tired and im sweaty so no offense but i don't feel like cuddling etc. least not until ive had a shower. As far as the relationship part goes if you are finding the guy is differrent after alot has to do with his age mentally speaking. Also from a guys point of view I dont think men were built emotionally to stay with one girl. Simply put when we get the prize after the challenge we are ready for the next challenge. The only thing that delays the inevitble breakup is how good and how often the sex is. This sort of behavior is repeated in guys until they grow up emotionally and unlike women for guys this happens at random if it happens. Typically it happens when the guy decides he just isnt as marketable to the ladies as he once was so we settle with what we have as in better to have someone then be alone. Women on the other hand have a very large emotional attachment and emotionally are much more developed then men. Because of this they end up pushing the less attached guy away. I believe alot of this has to deal with how guys and girls are raised. Parents typically attempt to shelter girls while guys are desensitized mentally through obsene humor between themselves and their fathers , competition, and ultimately the friends they have in society as well as being taught not to let their emotions get the better of them. The exception of this is obviously anger. I don't think this covers 100 percent of either sex but I do beleieve it encompasses the majority. The exception to this is single parenting a single father is more likely to raise his daughter like he would a son and vice versa with a single mother raising a boy. I'll prolly get flamed for this but thats how I see it anyway.
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Posted 1/11/10
it depends on each person how it affects them... but with the people I know... it seems like it is the girl who changes more than the guy after sex... mentally, that is.

But of course I really don't know how it affects others....


Posted 1/11/10
I can't really say, I'm still a virgin, and I don't know much about sex myself.
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