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Posted 1/11/10
This looks like it should be in Extended Discussion..
Anyway.. I was never treated like that :3.. But I feel bad
For the other people ):
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Wow Its soo nice to know I'm not the only one out there, I was in the same situation like you, but worse, n it wasnt just any guy to me, more like a family member, but I still dont feel comfertable saying who, I feel the same way you did about being insecure n stuff and depression
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essentric wrote:

I was never molested, but a relative of mine was. She was about the same age as you, but the guy who did it was her uncle(a grown ass man). I think she told her father, but he didn't believe her or didn't want to believe it. The only person that believed her was her step mom(my grandmother). My grandmother took my aunt when she was around 8 or 10 and raised her. Up to this day she still carries all the negative things that people have done to her inside her.She's very bitter and angry. My aunt is a decent person, but she tends to be miserable( Misery loves company). She say things to put people down,but what like about her is she don't cover her emotions all the time. If she's pissed or sad she will let you know........ sometimes.
You don't want to be 50 and miserable so I hope you let it go, forgive the bastard and live your life. Forgive him for you because I know for sure he's living his life, so enjoy yours.
Sometimes adults can be a bunch of douche bags, and you wonder why there's so much kids catching STDs and getting pregnant. Health Ed teachers and the people from the Dept. of Health need to be real with teens.



Its easy to say to forgive him, but it can be very very very very very very very hard
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when i hear the word rape i become very ANGRY its not that i go raped or molested or anything like that. I love crime shows like ncis....crime scene investigators........and every couple of episode there was always a crime of somebody getting raped and all.........it pierced into my mind ......now i hate rapers and molester even more than a normal person should.
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Thanks to everyone who's commented so far. I appreciate that no one's flaming =).
It was actually a cousin of mine. It was a long time ago and I'm as over it as I ever will be. What I'd LIKE to do is figure out a way to help those who AREN'T over it.
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It's really fucked up and disgusting. I hate it and I don't EVER want it to happen to anyone around me. Sadly....... it happens anywhere and everywhere you go, some people keep it to themselves all their lives....
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34 / M / Kuala Lumpur
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Posted 1/11/10
The best way to do is to report to the police about it
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freedom_x wrote:

The best way to do is to report to the police about it


Yes that's a good idea, but for me, there were reasons why I couldn't. For one, his mother (my aunt) and my mom were really close. Just the fact that I came out and told my mom really messed up the relationship between them. My aunts children were like my older siblings. I thought of each one of them in that way. I don't usually mention this when I tell the story because it makes it a bit more disturbing. He was my cousin, but he was moreso my brother, if that makes any sense to you. When I spilled the beans, everything really stopped. I lost more than just one sibling that day. They've sort of come back, but it won't ever be like it was. Pressing charges might have permanently removed them from my life. If someone accused YOUR brother of something like that, would you want to believe them? I had a lot of trouble from the family because my aunt and her family didn't want to take it seriously. It's understandable, but it made me very, very upset.
Reason number 2: I was twelve. I had no idea what to do lol.

I'm not saying that you're incorrect. Just in my particular case it would have made things harder for me emotionally. I just wanted to be done with it, you know? I didn't want to have to go tell a bunch of people in court about it. I just wanted the whole thing to be over.

Just an idea for your brain >.<
Again, you're not wrong.
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angelcls wrote:


essentric wrote:

I was never molested, but a relative of mine was. She was about the same age as you, but the guy who did it was her uncle(a grown ass man). I think she told her father, but he didn't believe her or didn't want to believe it. The only person that believed her was her step mom(my grandmother). My grandmother took my aunt when she was around 8 or 10 and raised her. Up to this day she still carries all the negative things that people have done to her inside her.She's very bitter and angry. My aunt is a decent person, but she tends to be miserable( Misery loves company). She say things to put people down,but what like about her is she don't cover her emotions all the time. If she's pissed or sad she will let you know........ sometimes.
You don't want to be 50 and miserable so I hope you let it go, forgive the bastard and live your life. Forgive him for you because I know for sure he's living his life, so enjoy yours.
Sometimes adults can be a bunch of douche bags, and you wonder why there's so much kids catching STDs and getting pregnant. Health Ed teachers and the people from the Dept. of Health need to be real with teens.



Its easy to say to forgive him, but it can be very very very very very very very hard


Of course it's going to be difficult to forgive a stranger, but to forgive someone who is suppose to have your back it's very hard. But for your sanity you have to forgive. I've seen how people look when they let negitivity eat them up inside and it's not a pretty sight. People literally getting sick because they couldn't let it go.


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a month ago my cousin was raped and murdered by six gang memebers *sigh.. so sad
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Search for programs that offer help to victims. You can have a myspace account to offer help to anyone that advice. It depends how far you want to take it. You can speak to people who have programs dealing with child abuse.
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37 / F / New York
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I'm sorry to hear that. I hope those bastards are in jail.
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That's a good idea =)
I think I could help people if they came to me with a problem like that.
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Let me know how it turns out.
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Posted 1/12/10
Keep it a secret won't do you any good. It just eat you more and the one molest you will keep on doing it
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