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24 / M / O.C. So.Cal
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Posted 1/12/10
they're young, and they just started puberty. That doesn't excuse them of course but they just need a punishment and someone to tell them what they're doing is wrong
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freedom_x wrote:

Keep it a secret won't do you any good. It just eat you more and the one molest you will keep on doing it


Yes, I completely agree. Which is why I didn't keep it a secret.
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The problem with just the punishment thing is that he already knew it was wrong or else he wouldn't have told me to keep it a secret. And also, if nobody knew, then how were they supposed to punish him? I think I see where you're coming from though. He was just a child, after all. But don't underestimate children. I know from experience. People don't hesitate to say rude things to a child who is.. I dunno, let's go with hyper. No one really seems to hesitate at all because they don't seem to think that children have the same kind of emotions that we do. BTW, I used hyper as an example because I was a very energetic child and often got yelled at for it by people who were older than me. Now I realize that everyone's different, but all it would have taken for me was a "Please be quieter" and I would have probably stayed silent til that person left, and maybe even after that, because I was so insecure about people liking me. People tend to think that children don't really have emotions such as hardcore depression, insecurity, lust, or anger. A child can wish to do evil things. The fact that he is a child has nothing to do with it. Let me rephrase something.. It may be that people don't think that children feel emotions as strong as theirs, but it's more likely that they just don't think ABOUT it. There. That makes more sense. Anyway, if I was misunderstood what you meant, by all means correct my thinking =)
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I agree on that. Adults never want to understand the children but they think they understand them.
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I remember a time when I was being sexually harassed by my friend's brother. He would continually bother me and would sometimes try to seclude me. I told right away, but my mother never believed me. My grandmother was the one that called the police and got him arrested, my friend was also mad that he went to jail, but who gives a shit? It turns out that I wasn't the only girl he was doing this to and if it went on any further, it could've been way worst.
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25 / F / In my own little...
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I've never been raped or molested (Thank GOD for that... it's one of my biggest fears, to be honest), but I know someone who was, when she was young.
I don't feel at liberty to tell who the person was or how I knew her because I was just barely told even. I don't even know all the details. But it was her step-dad that did it. To this day anybody who was involved is awkward around him, and my mom, when she found out, wouldn't leave me alone with him ever. I was honestly very surprised when I heard about all of it because I've known them most of my life and only found out about it last year.

But as for me, I know what you're saying, Meg-chan, about children having dark thoughts just as much as adults. When I was little, I was always paranoid about rape. I was never the one having the urges to do bad things, but I was always thinking about them happening to me, even at the age of 6. I was also a pretty insecure, but not unhappy, child. Actually, I was a VERY happy child. Always smiling and laughing and playing. It's a little odd, people say that happy children have no insecurities and that if a child is unhappy, they're going to be insecure. But I was happy. And I was insecure. The two aren't dependent on each other. Sure, being unhappy can have a big effect on a child's security, but they're not completely connected.

I was even so insecure that I never told my mom when there was a boy I liked at school, or when my period started even at first. Really not until High School did I become able to tell my mom things like that.

But, back to rape I guess. It IS a horrible thing, and it's one of the saddest things when a young person's (boy OR girl) life gets altered by it. Unwillingly having that done to someone (I imagine) has got to be one of the hardest things to get over. A person's body is a very... well, personal thing. No one ha the right to touch it if you don't want them to. Not counting mothers and fathers to their babies, it can't be helped there. But the moment that child can say "don't touch me" or feel uncomfortable about it, it's hands off until they give someone special to them permission...

I feel like I've ranted now =w=
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i was molested when i was in grade 1. i dont remember how long it lasted, it could have been for a couple months.
so i was six or seven at the time and the guy was ... i think 11 or 12...
and to make matters worse he was mentaly handicapped.
clearly.
anyways.
so id walk down the hall and hed always try and touch me in the hallway
and it wasnt some kind of joke either it was serious and embarasing.
i couldnt tell anyone becuase even bringing something like that up is exremly embarasing and as you said , intimidating even.
even now i cant say anything becasue its embarasing.
however at the time i didnt realize what was going on but later on in life i realized what actualy happened becuase i never talked to nayone about it and i didnt know what he was trying to do since i was so young thast why i realized it later.
i know its nothing i guess seroius since i didnt get raped or anyhting
i still think about it time to time and how terrible it is.

also this boy who did this to me was also doing this outside of school, at his sisters birthday party who was also the same age as me.
we went to chuckie cheeses and in the tunnels he tried touching me again it was so scary. also my mom forced me to go to that birthday party which i didnt want to go to becuase of him. but my mom forced me to go becuase his sister was handicapped and she foreced me to go becuase of that even though i didnt want to becuase of him and she didnt know that.

i never told anyone about it though except maybe a few people over the internet who i dont know and thats about it.
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http://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male/myths_about_male_rape.htm



this seems to be a good topic to put this link check this article if you feel like it .
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Posted 7/21/10 , edited 7/21/10
i find it very scary to be rapped i fell bad when it happens to people
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25 / M / Wilmington NC
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Posted 7/21/10
Well it sounds like you are doing alright and I am happy that you can address the matter so lightly. Anyways like I have said in many other posts I plan to join the FBI to catch serial killers. They perform much crueler acts like necrophilia and cannibalism. I think that rape, molestation, sexual abuse and murder are the worst crimes. I will bring as many people as I can that do these things to justice. After I get my masters though. I hope that you do not have to experience any thing like that agian and if you do please seek help right away. If it were up to me all the people that do rape, molestation, sexual abuse and murder should be killed, but that is not up to me and I follow the law.
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Posted 7/24/10
*sigh* i was molested by my 1 year younger stepbrother it was when i was 12 or something i feel so stupid about it
i havn't told anybody i feel very angry about it but yeah i survived .......
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Posted 7/24/10 , edited 7/24/10
well, guys at my school have touched my butt before. one even grabbed one of my boobs during a capture the flag game. it didnt make me emotionally hurt or watever but it did piss me off. i never told on them though because i always kicked them in their balls and face afterwards.

old asian ladies have patted my butt before too but i think its just an old asian lady thing. theyd be like "oh youre so cute!" and then pat my butt

oh and my little cousin grabbed my sisters vag when he was like 5 but thats because he didnt know better. he said "i grabbed your balls!" it was funny cuz he thought everybody had balls. he did that to my gramma too lol
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Posted 7/24/10
I was molested by multiple people in my life since I was young. I was almost raped once by a friend and other than that I can't remember being raped or even memories of being molested except a few...
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25 / M / Latvia
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saroin420 wrote:

i was molested when i was in grade 1. i dont remember how long it lasted, it could have been for a couple months.
so i was six or seven at the time and the guy was ... i think 11 or 12...
and to make matters worse he was mentaly handicapped.
clearly.
anyways.
so id walk down the hall and hed always try and touch me in the hallway
and it wasnt some kind of joke either it was serious and embarasing.
i couldnt tell anyone becuase even bringing something like that up is exremly embarasing and as you said , intimidating even.
even now i cant say anything becasue its embarasing.
however at the time i didnt realize what was going on but later on in life i realized what actualy happened becuase i never talked to nayone about it and i didnt know what he was trying to do since i was so young thast why i realized it later.
i know its nothing i guess seroius since i didnt get raped or anyhting
i still think about it time to time and how terrible it is.

also this boy who did this to me was also doing this outside of school, at his sisters birthday party who was also the same age as me.
we went to chuckie cheeses and in the tunnels he tried touching me again it was so scary. also my mom forced me to go to that birthday party which i didnt want to go to becuase of him. but my mom forced me to go becuase his sister was handicapped and she foreced me to go becuase of that even though i didnt want to becuase of him and she didnt know that.

i never told anyone about it though except maybe a few people over the internet who i dont know and thats about it.


I do feel very sorry for you
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