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What are some good excuses to put your hand on your crush, the guy you like?
Posted 1/18/10 , edited 1/18/10

Robo-Bot wrote:

"You got something on your .... shirt .."
Then try to touch them.

Works for both guys and girl crushes~


"that chair apparently had a little dirt.. on it.. want me to dust you off?.."

hmmm, or you could say theres something in their hair, and if you can get it out, or say you'll get it.
Then you brush your hand across their cheek then their hair bit more intimate i guess you could say...

but if its a girl, dont mess up their make-up, thats a no-no, so very lightly brush, and having sweaty palms brush your face isnt the best feeling either, even so id still suggest finger tips.... finger tips/nails are the best feeling
Posted 1/18/10 , edited 1/18/10
Robo-Bot
got it right first.

"Hey you got a little something on you (whatever)"
and brush them a bit.
Its weak as hell but it works
If you had a booger you'd want someone to say so right?
Well its the same thing.
Oh, btw you got a little fuzz ball i your hair.... lemme get that.

how about:
You got something in your eye
They fiddle around a bit
Then they look at you and say, did i get it
and you stare at them deeply

Then he's like., "what?"
and you're in. its about vulnerablity
get em to be conscious and you'll have their attention
Posted 1/19/10

sanitos wrote:

You shouldn't look at it as an excuse. It's quite common to use touch to emphasize your communication.

I'm naturally physical interacting with people. But here are some specific fun things that come to mind. Things I do to the women in my life...friend or lover. Try out the ones that you think can work for you:

- I open the door for them, as they're walking by, I'll smack their bum. Another alternative is I put my hand on their lower back and guide them through.

- If they're sitting and there is only one place to sit, I'll grab their hand and stand them up, twirl them, step around them, sit in their place and pull them on my lap. One motion.

- If we're walking and they're going the wrong direction, I'll come up from behind, put a hand on each of their shoulders and physical turn them in the right way and say, "This way, silly."

- A simple, "My shoulders are sore, give me a massage."

- High five or props when they do something cool or funny.

- As we're walking down the stairs, give them a light push and smile mischievously. It needs to be strong enough to have an effect, but light enough so that they don't fall down the stairs.

- When we're walking and I see an obstacle up ahead, I'll lean my shoulder up against theirs and guide them into the object. First start further away, then 2 times later, give them a quick nudge right in front of it. It's hilarious and they'll try to get you back. Make sure they don't actually walk into things.

- Take something of theirs that they need. When they ask for it, pretend to hand it to them. Pull away just before they grab it, then say, "Here, take it." Pretend to hand it to them again and pull away. This time, say "Don't you want it? Here, take it" and smile. Keep taunting them every time, "I thought you needed it, here.", "I'm going to keep it if you don't want it." They'll attack you if you taunt them enough and you'll get into play wrestling...which is fun...and that leads to other things a lot of the times.

*** When you're teasing them and taunting them...don't laugh, it breaks the tension. Look at them like they're stupid and then subtly smile mischievously. ***

- If we're walking down the street, there are some sketchy people and I see that the girl is uncomfortable. I will pull her to walk on the side that's farthest to them and put my arm around her until we walked past them. You shouldn't do this...but you can do the opposite, you can hold onto his arm as you're walking by.

- Girls tend to have poor circulation. Try something like, "My hands are cold, can you warm them up?" If you have cold hands, you can also attack him with them...put them on his neck or under his shirt on his bare sides.

- If you're going to get his attention, don't just call his name. You can put your hand on his arm and call his name at the same time. If you're talking, you can put your hand on his arm when you're making an important point. This also ensures that they're listening.

Here is a pretty good move that one of my females friends told me once:

- If he has a piece of jewelery, you can comment on it and feel him up in the process as well.

"Is that necklace new?" *Place your hand on his chest, then run your fingers across the chain/pendant.* "I like it/Don't like it"

You can also continue with:

"Would you mind if I tried this on?" "Here, let me take it off of you."


Why can't all guys be like you?
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Jadoku_x wrote:


sanitos wrote:

You shouldn't look at it as an excuse. It's quite common to use touch to emphasize your communication.

I'm naturally physical interacting with people. But here are some specific fun things that come to mind. Things I do to the women in my life...friend or lover. Try out the ones that you think can work for you:

- I open the door for them, as they're walking by, I'll smack their bum. Another alternative is I put my hand on their lower back and guide them through.

- If they're sitting and there is only one place to sit, I'll grab their hand and stand them up, twirl them, step around them, sit in their place and pull them on my lap. One motion.

- If we're walking and they're going the wrong direction, I'll come up from behind, put a hand on each of their shoulders and physical turn them in the right way and say, "This way, silly."

- A simple, "My shoulders are sore, give me a massage."

- High five or props when they do something cool or funny.

- As we're walking down the stairs, give them a light push and smile mischievously. It needs to be strong enough to have an effect, but light enough so that they don't fall down the stairs.

- When we're walking and I see an obstacle up ahead, I'll lean my shoulder up against theirs and guide them into the object. First start further away, then 2 times later, give them a quick nudge right in front of it. It's hilarious and they'll try to get you back. Make sure they don't actually walk into things.

- Take something of theirs that they need. When they ask for it, pretend to hand it to them. Pull away just before they grab it, then say, "Here, take it." Pretend to hand it to them again and pull away. This time, say "Don't you want it? Here, take it" and smile. Keep taunting them every time, "I thought you needed it, here.", "I'm going to keep it if you don't want it." They'll attack you if you taunt them enough and you'll get into play wrestling...which is fun...and that leads to other things a lot of the times.

*** When you're teasing them and taunting them...don't laugh, it breaks the tension. Look at them like they're stupid and then subtly smile mischievously. ***

- If we're walking down the street, there are some sketchy people and I see that the girl is uncomfortable. I will pull her to walk on the side that's farthest to them and put my arm around her until we walked past them. You shouldn't do this...but you can do the opposite, you can hold onto his arm as you're walking by.

- Girls tend to have poor circulation. Try something like, "My hands are cold, can you warm them up?" If you have cold hands, you can also attack him with them...put them on his neck or under his shirt on his bare sides.

- If you're going to get his attention, don't just call his name. You can put your hand on his arm and call his name at the same time. If you're talking, you can put your hand on his arm when you're making an important point. This also ensures that they're listening.

Here is a pretty good move that one of my females friends told me once:

- If he has a piece of jewelery, you can comment on it and feel him up in the process as well.

"Is that necklace new?" *Place your hand on his chest, then run your fingers across the chain/pendant.* "I like it/Don't like it"

You can also continue with:

"Would you mind if I tried this on?" "Here, let me take it off of you."


Why can't all guys be like you?


There wouldn't be enough playful and fun-loving girls to go around! Besides...you need a nice guy to buy you things, watch movies and cuddle with. I can only offer hours of passionate and exquisite pleasure. You need more than that ; - )
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nah...i dont have any excuse to touch my crush..i mean +___+ i just dont do it...it's like going off bound of the boy's privacy...
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Posted 1/19/10

sanitos wrote:


Jadoku_x wrote:


sanitos wrote:

You shouldn't look at it as an excuse. It's quite common to use touch to emphasize your communication.

I'm naturally physical interacting with people. But here are some specific fun things that come to mind. Things I do to the women in my life...friend or lover. Try out the ones that you think can work for you:

- I open the door for them, as they're walking by, I'll smack their bum. Another alternative is I put my hand on their lower back and guide them through.

- If they're sitting and there is only one place to sit, I'll grab their hand and stand them up, twirl them, step around them, sit in their place and pull them on my lap. One motion.

- If we're walking and they're going the wrong direction, I'll come up from behind, put a hand on each of their shoulders and physical turn them in the right way and say, "This way, silly."

- A simple, "My shoulders are sore, give me a massage."

- High five or props when they do something cool or funny.

- As we're walking down the stairs, give them a light push and smile mischievously. It needs to be strong enough to have an effect, but light enough so that they don't fall down the stairs.

- When we're walking and I see an obstacle up ahead, I'll lean my shoulder up against theirs and guide them into the object. First start further away, then 2 times later, give them a quick nudge right in front of it. It's hilarious and they'll try to get you back. Make sure they don't actually walk into things.

- Take something of theirs that they need. When they ask for it, pretend to hand it to them. Pull away just before they grab it, then say, "Here, take it." Pretend to hand it to them again and pull away. This time, say "Don't you want it? Here, take it" and smile. Keep taunting them every time, "I thought you needed it, here.", "I'm going to keep it if you don't want it." They'll attack you if you taunt them enough and you'll get into play wrestling...which is fun...and that leads to other things a lot of the times.

*** When you're teasing them and taunting them...don't laugh, it breaks the tension. Look at them like they're stupid and then subtly smile mischievously. ***

- If we're walking down the street, there are some sketchy people and I see that the girl is uncomfortable. I will pull her to walk on the side that's farthest to them and put my arm around her until we walked past them. You shouldn't do this...but you can do the opposite, you can hold onto his arm as you're walking by.

- Girls tend to have poor circulation. Try something like, "My hands are cold, can you warm them up?" If you have cold hands, you can also attack him with them...put them on his neck or under his shirt on his bare sides.

- If you're going to get his attention, don't just call his name. You can put your hand on his arm and call his name at the same time. If you're talking, you can put your hand on his arm when you're making an important point. This also ensures that they're listening.

Here is a pretty good move that one of my females friends told me once:

- If he has a piece of jewelery, you can comment on it and feel him up in the process as well.

"Is that necklace new?" *Place your hand on his chest, then run your fingers across the chain/pendant.* "I like it/Don't like it"

You can also continue with:

"Would you mind if I tried this on?" "Here, let me take it off of you."


Why can't all guys be like you?


There wouldn't be enough playful and fun-loving girls to go around! Besides...you need a nice guy to buy you things, watch movies and cuddle with. I can only offer hours of passionate and exquisite pleasure. You need more than that ; - )


Haha, I bet ur a fun one to be around. Insightful answers.
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Posted 1/20/10

kerrigan88 wrote:


sanitos wrote:


Jadoku_x wrote:


sanitos wrote:

You shouldn't look at it as an excuse. It's quite common to use touch to emphasize your communication.

I'm naturally physical interacting with people. But here are some specific fun things that come to mind. Things I do to the women in my life...friend or lover. Try out the ones that you think can work for you:

- I open the door for them, as they're walking by, I'll smack their bum. Another alternative is I put my hand on their lower back and guide them through.

- If they're sitting and there is only one place to sit, I'll grab their hand and stand them up, twirl them, step around them, sit in their place and pull them on my lap. One motion.

- If we're walking and they're going the wrong direction, I'll come up from behind, put a hand on each of their shoulders and physical turn them in the right way and say, "This way, silly."

- A simple, "My shoulders are sore, give me a massage."

- High five or props when they do something cool or funny.

- As we're walking down the stairs, give them a light push and smile mischievously. It needs to be strong enough to have an effect, but light enough so that they don't fall down the stairs.

- When we're walking and I see an obstacle up ahead, I'll lean my shoulder up against theirs and guide them into the object. First start further away, then 2 times later, give them a quick nudge right in front of it. It's hilarious and they'll try to get you back. Make sure they don't actually walk into things.

- Take something of theirs that they need. When they ask for it, pretend to hand it to them. Pull away just before they grab it, then say, "Here, take it." Pretend to hand it to them again and pull away. This time, say "Don't you want it? Here, take it" and smile. Keep taunting them every time, "I thought you needed it, here.", "I'm going to keep it if you don't want it." They'll attack you if you taunt them enough and you'll get into play wrestling...which is fun...and that leads to other things a lot of the times.

*** When you're teasing them and taunting them...don't laugh, it breaks the tension. Look at them like they're stupid and then subtly smile mischievously. ***

- If we're walking down the street, there are some sketchy people and I see that the girl is uncomfortable. I will pull her to walk on the side that's farthest to them and put my arm around her until we walked past them. You shouldn't do this...but you can do the opposite, you can hold onto his arm as you're walking by.

- Girls tend to have poor circulation. Try something like, "My hands are cold, can you warm them up?" If you have cold hands, you can also attack him with them...put them on his neck or under his shirt on his bare sides.

- If you're going to get his attention, don't just call his name. You can put your hand on his arm and call his name at the same time. If you're talking, you can put your hand on his arm when you're making an important point. This also ensures that they're listening.

Here is a pretty good move that one of my females friends told me once:

- If he has a piece of jewelery, you can comment on it and feel him up in the process as well.

"Is that necklace new?" *Place your hand on his chest, then run your fingers across the chain/pendant.* "I like it/Don't like it"

You can also continue with:

"Would you mind if I tried this on?" "Here, let me take it off of you."


Why can't all guys be like you?


There wouldn't be enough playful and fun-loving girls to go around! Besides...you need a nice guy to buy you things, watch movies and cuddle with. I can only offer hours of passionate and exquisite pleasure. You need more than that ; - )


Haha, I bet ur a fun one to be around. Insightful answers.


That really depends on the person I'm with. Sometimes, two people just don't have the right affinity for each other.
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it depends on how close u are.....if u r really close then touching them really isnt a big deal but if u rnt that close then.....".walk walk nd then BAM oops i m really sorry..r u hurt??"
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when you see a big huge bulge in his pants
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lol i got a think where i see something that bothers me i have to touch it to feel content kinda like a little kid wanting to play with all things


or that ep of Seinfeld where they touched fabric
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Hmmmm *smil3es thinking pose* Ah!

Girl: *glace, shy shy look* "Hey..."

Guy: *What-the-hell look* "What...?"

Girl: *Giggles* "Your hand looks itchy, let me scratch it for you." *Grabs he's hand*

Guy: *Awkward look* "Ehh..."


And yesh, I suck at flirting...
Posted 2/9/10
hmm........this one sucks but i bet people would use it:
- say they don't look well and place your hand on their head to 'check if they have a fever'.
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let me read you palm..and stroke their hands gently lol.
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well its almost valentines day sooo...lol, or his birthday?
maybe just flirt around, ask for a hug?
Posted 2/9/10

montana16 wrote:

when you see a big huge bulge in his pants


That seems like a different situation altogether o.O
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