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Loners in school
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Basically, I have seen some loners in my new school and although I am making friends, I feel a little sorry for them not because its a IN YOUR FACE thing but because they've been in the school longer than me and I'm able to talk while they are just left out but then again, half the popular people in my new school just piss me off.

I have managed to talk to one and she's normal like everyone else but I think she isn't making any friends because she expects us to talk to her.

What do you guys think?

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Yeah thats mostly the reason why.
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mostly thats is the reason why but it is also because loners don't have enough experience talking with strangers or people because they aren't use to it. Some tend to talk to themselves if it has gone on to long (like me). Best way to make friends with a loner is just walking up to them and talking out to them out of the blue.

You should never tell them they should talk to people more because trust me they heard it a bunch of times

Don't talk to them if they look busy. Like if they are doing their home work or reading. Best time is if they are staring off into space or doodling. It is most likely a loner has found ways to occupy their time.

I'm a loner myself and I cannot make friends that easy because one I don't have confidence with making friends and two I don't trust as easily.
Trust me on this a loner really wants to make friends they are just really shy.



Posted 2/2/10
I tend to keep out of the crowd and stick with a couple of close friends. I'm not really one for socialising with new people, but I wouldn't say I'm a loner. It's just hard for me to get a conversation with someone I've never met before, if you catch my drift. I get all nervous and make a bad impression, especially since I'm viewed as "different" from most of the popular kids. Most of them look and act like assholes anyway.
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musicalsmiley30 wrote:

Basically, I have seen some loners in my new school and although I am making friends, I feel a little sorry for them not because its a IN YOUR FACE thing but because they've been in the school longer than me and I'm able to talk while they are just left out but then again, half the popular people in my new school just piss me off.

I have managed to talk to one and she's normal like everyone else but I think she isn't making any friends because she expects us to talk to her.

What do you guys think?

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friends r so overated. who needs them? i sure dont and niether do u or ne one else. They r just trouble. All they do is do drugs, drink, and get pregnant. Not even worth socializing with. they do make good fighting partners though. And a quick one night stand...but thats about it.

That's why we r loners. We have no interest in your drugs, politics, and prostitution. We are alone by choice to distance ourselves from the majority and perfect our fighting skills... LONER POWER! peace over war
Posted 2/2/10
lol no-one is a loner you're never alone! If you scared of talking to people just try anyway! That's what I do and remember the popular kids are just a few kids who are just even more insecure than you are!
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Its nice to socialize, but im also content with being by myself here n' there.. making friends, isnt too big of a deal(have a handful of very good friends) but friends are very nice to have for numerous reasons(when they're caring for others though.) I mostly have quick short conversations with random ppl, then sometimes it can get really long and in-depth depending on the topic.



treegurl84 wrote:

mostly thats is the reason why but it is also because loners don't have enough experience talking with strangers or people because they aren't use to it. Some tend to talk to themselves if it has gone on to long (like me). Best way to make friends with a loner is just walking up to them and talking out to them out of the blue.

You should never tell them they should talk to people more because trust me they heard it a bunch of times

Don't talk to them if they look busy. Like if they are doing their home work or reading. Best time is if they are staring off into space or doodling. It is most likely a loner has found ways to occupy their time.

I'm a loner myself and I cannot make friends that easy because one I don't have confidence with making friends and two I don't trust as easily.
Trust me on this a loner really wants to make friends they are just really shy.



^ Hey... you should talk to more people.. lol i jokes..
and honestly, when im staring off by myself randomly, im in thought about something that i just might not want to be side-tracked from ;D



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friends r so overated. who needs them? i sure dont and niether do u or ne one else. They r just trouble. All they do is do drugs, drink, and get pregnant. Not even worth socializing with. they do make good fighting partners though. And a quick one night stand...but thats about it.

That's why we r loners. We have no interest in your drugs, politics, and prostitution. We are alone by choice to distance ourselves from the majority and perfect our fighting skills... LONER POWER! peace over war


well if it means drinking sociallable to help promote mental health, and eventually having kids for my happiness upon the times I will have to fight for my loved ones, the justified way of fighting, well... They're not so over-rated anymore.


Lastly...
It sounds like Both of you are afraid to live, while being more concerned with your own protection(mainly emotionally)... ;P
but thats just my observation
Posted 2/2/10
I was a loner for different reasons: I didn't relate to any of those kids or we don't share any similarities so I didn't hang out with them, i didn't want to be part of the popular clique, & i dislike school a lot. so I guess people are loners in school for reasons that are complex to others, but it's simple when you think about it.
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Many loners are lonely because they are ugly and people judge them based on that. So when all comes to all, it's hard to make friends like that.
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mystic17 wrote:

I was a loner for different reasons: I didn't relate to any of those kids or we don't share any similarities so I didn't hang out with them, i didn't want to be part of the popular clique, & i dislike school a lot. so I guess people are loners in school for reasons that are complex to others, but it's simple when you think about it.


I was the same way.
Posted 2/2/10
I was a loner myself back in highschool and I'm even a loner now in college. For some people like me, we are loners because it's all we know. I never approached people at first because I was afraid of rejection. But despite my lack of effort people still tried to befriend me. As I interacted with them I began to hate myself because I was being fake and polite just to make them happy. It tore up my emotions and eventually I would just terrorize them just to get them away from me so I could go back to being myself again. Why are they my friends if they dont make me happy or let me be myself? Then word would spread that I'm a mean and dark individual people shouldnt even try to befriend. It was a classic example of the kettle caling the pot black. So in my case I'm just better off being alone until the right person comes along. For others though they may be more sociable but just lack the skills necessary. Some even prefer to be alone because they f**king HATE people (excuse me for being blunt). Overall my opinion on loners is that you should just leave them the hell alone unless you're really f**king interested. And even then it's a longshot in the dark most of the time. If they really want to be your friend then they'll come to you eventually.
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Makes friends with loners....if they wanna be alone still talk to them once n a while...some of these loners(not all) maybe messed up and wanna attempt suicide or do other horrible things etc.
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This thread makes me feel sort of bad.
I should be nicer to loners. :/

In general I tend to ignore them if they ignore me... and they do often. haha.
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i kinda feel bad for them coz i dont even wanna stay alone for 1 class nd they r alone for whole school.....
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I should pay attention to them >.< but some are just plain rude in my opinion and I can never find any similarities with them but I should still give them a chance.
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