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Girls will you hate it if you see your guy hanging out with a girl that is hotter,cutter, and single than you?
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Posted 2/2/10 , edited 2/2/10
Your boyfriend is really close friend to this girl like bestfriends,but they don't feel that they should be together. Will you girls get mad if you see your man hanging out with another single girl?
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Drives me crazy >.<
Damn ex's do it just to piss me off, I think.

That's okay. I'll take my revenge soon.
Posted 2/2/10
if I was in a relationship, I don't think I'd be. as long as the girl won't try anything stupid like try to seduce him or make him break up with me. then we'll a problem.
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22 / F / Stalking Me Much?...
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yes, my goodness, i get soooo mad, its like their trying to provoke me~
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Posted 2/2/10
No. If they can do that, we can do the same with the opposite sex :3
Posted 2/2/10
I would get a little jealous, but nothing serious, I won't be mad or anything.
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^ What she said.
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ahaha same here.. why get mad.... i mean if she trys something.. like break us up then shes gunna get itt.. lollz
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Posted 2/2/10
Well maybe I would be a bit jealous but I don't think it's something to get mad over they're just hanging out.
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27 / M / A rainy paradise...
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Posted 2/2/10 , edited 2/2/10
I have a lot female friends that I hang out with. At first, my girl always got insecure...but eventually she learned to get over it. I think it's one of those things that you get over.

I had a similar experience seeing a girl with a bunch of great looking guy friends that are always teasing and flirting with her, I learned to get over that too.
Posted 2/2/10 , edited 2/2/10
I believe only insecure girls act that way. You see, jealousy comes from people feeling in-confident or inferior to others. Wanting what they have, ect. If we all had a little confidence in ourselves, then maybe this wouldn't be an issue.

To answer the question, as long as they're not too close, then it's fine.
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Posted 2/2/10
It's whatever! If they were already friends before you dated, so be it. Nothing will come of it.
Thing is, don't just let it be HIS friend, make her YOUR friend as well. But don't be fake about it, I mean why wouldn't you want to get to know each others friends if you're dating? (:

I'm just speaking from experience...Majority of my friends are males, and I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be insecure about me hanging out with them, so why not join?! The more the merrier!
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27 / M / A rainy paradise...
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Jealousy is not about lacking confidence or being insecure. It is a realization that we can no longer satisfy all of their intimate needs.

Take a husband and wife for example. In this case, their relationship began passionately...crazy about each other. As the years pass, things begin to slow down. Happily ever after is becoming less happy. Work has been getting busier and the husband just doesn't have the time and energy to shower her with his affection and attention like in the beginning.

One day, he notices that she's been awfully happy lately. In fact...thinking back...she hasn't been bugging him to spend more time with her lately! He came to the conclusion that she's seeing another man and confronts her.

"Of course not!" she laughed.

However, there is this new company in town. It offers virtual companionship. She's been going on dates and spending time with this virtual character...he's attractive, interesting, funny, charming, etc. She says that it's so much fun...not to worry, there is no one on the other side, it's simply a program.

Jealousy is not about being insecure about another person involved. Jealousy is the devastating realization that you no longer satisfy their intimate needs.

The insecurity I speak of stems from a possessiveness that every person has. I'm sure that most people have experienced a time where your best friend paid more attention to someone else in a group, and you wanted their attention. It elicits the same feeling.

It's not a confidence issue, it is merely a cute and harmless possessiveness that you get over once you become aware that you're doing it.
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i proooobably would get a bit jealous or something, but i wouldnt say it out loud because then id seem like one of those pathetic girlfriends who whines for everything, well to me anyways.
Posted 2/2/10
If she is a ex then no he can't hang with her and if she is a friend i will remind her i will f*** her up if she tries anything. Then he can hang with her depends on the type a person she is.
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