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15 Reasons Why Men Don’t Find Fat Women Attractive
Posted 2/18/10 , edited 2/19/10
Okay I was looking at the site of a local gym, and on the forum a presumably fat woman said she saw a vid and is now very confused. So I saw this vid, it's a recent video too, and it's a guy who gives 15 reasons why, speaking in general, men don't like fat women.

http://www.viddler.com/explore/themodernmancom/videos/1/

Okay, what do you think? I don't care if you're a nice nerd, knows/has somebody in the family/friends who's fat, or whatever. No external reasons. This is just about you. If you're your realistic ideal self, the best you, whatever that is that'll give you a killer confidence, would you be attracted or not attracted to a fat woman. Take a moment to think it through and poll. It's a YES and NO answer. There's no ifs or buts or wells, it's just a cut and dry question.

Like the guy said, this is not about being mean. It's about being honest in the best way possible - breaking it down to a list of logical reasons. Cus people are becoming fatter and fatter, it's not just an american thing anymore, it's a british thing too, and here and there all over the world.

It's my belief that all women can be at least a 6. So if this applies to you, man or woman, take it as a non-patronizing slap on the back to become a "better you." I've gained some weight that I'm not happy with late last year and I've started to trail run again. Gotta slim down then bulk up again, it's painful at the beginning but damn worth it. I love my muscular self and want to get back to that condition asap.

Would you? and give your opinion on this matter.

And if you're curious, I am attracted to women with meat on them bones. But I voted thin cus I think with everything considered I'd like that thick/chubby/voluptuous woman to lose weight and be the most healthy she can be.

Edit: From the video description:

Do men like fat women? Are men shallow because they are attracted to skinny women? In this video, Dan Bacon cuts to the truth of the matter and explains why men don’t find fat women attractive.

Here are the 15 reasons:

1. A fat woman isn’t the entire package that we’re looking for in a woman.
2. A fat woman looks like ‘used goods’.
3. A fat woman makes unattractive sounds during sex.
4. A fat woman lowers a man’s status.
5. A fat woman attracts less-favorable treatment in society.
6. A fat woman’s true physical appearance is hidden.
7. A fat woman is unhealthy.
8. A fat woman will likely pass on her bad habits to the children.
9. A fat woman is missing the most attractive element.
10. A fat woman is ‘heavy-lifting’ in the bedroom.
11. A fat woman requires more food.
12. A fat woman doesn’t have a natural, female form.
13. A fat woman is usually lazy.
14. A fat woman usually has psychological issues.
15. A fat woman looks older than she is.
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Posted 2/18/10
slightly chubby I can deal with. Flat out fat is out of the question
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fat women needs lovin to :/
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So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?
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LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


not all.. just the highly superficial ones.

Posted 2/18/10

manzi wrote:


LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


not all.. just the highly superficial ones.



You mean like the dude in the video? Because he seemed very superficial. I guess there was some truth to his claims, but most just sounded ridiculous.
Posted 2/18/10
well good thing that doesn't apply to every guy in the world
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Hey man if those people are happy that way let them be, let's mind our own business, and not all men stay away from hefty girls, some men would do anything for them.
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LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


ALL men and women think this way...relationships start off on a physical level. If you are not sexually attractive to the male, you wont consider him as a mate. Now you can still be friends of course. But you arnt going to date an ugly guy. Dont even kid yourself. And if he is ugly and u still date him, he's probably filthy rich, with like 100 million in the bank. Money does count for sex appeal. Its not about being superficial. When it comes to mates, its called comon sense. Now if u do it for friends, then its racism/sexisms/superficial.

But Mates are different, you will actually have to love them and be with them.You will be looking at thier face from intimate positions.


Now to be on topic.

As i was saying b4, if u find the fat person sexy, then you will date them. Fat doesnt nessesarily mean ugly. And it also depends on how fat. No one is going to marry a 900 pound guy who cant walk,but if u 400 pounds and has a sexy personality, it may compensate, as long as your good in bed. This works both ways-men and women.peace over war
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LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


Yes all men are pretty much pieces of shit
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The video is really judgmental and blindfolded. Not all men are like that and I'm sure that there are men out in this world who prefers their woman to be thick.

And I do know that everyone looks at physical appearances first thing.
But people who aren't closed minded would know and see that beauty is only skin deep.

I'm not at all worried about this. If a guy doesn't like me for who I am, then he's not worth my time.


Edit: Typos.
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Sesshomaru_Lover wrote:


LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


Yes all men are pretty much pieces of shit :(


...Well I'm sorry you feel that way.
But really?
Posted 2/18/10
Too much meat... but still too much could be good sometimes.
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JJT2 wrote:

ALL men and women think this way...relationships start off on a physical level. If you are not sexually attractive to the male, you wont consider him as a mate. Now you can still be friends of course. But you arnt going to date an ugly guy. Dont even kid yourself. And if he is ugly and u still date him, he's probably filthy rich, with like 100 million in the bank. Money does count for sex appeal. Its not about being superficial. When it comes to mates, its called comon sense. Now if u do it for friends, then its racism/sexisms/superficial.

But Mates are different, you will actually have to love them and be with them.You will be looking at thier face from intimate positions.


Now to be on topic.

As i was saying b4, if u find the fat person sexy, then you will date them. Fat doesnt nessesarily mean ugly. And it also depends on how fat. No one is going to marry a 900 pound guy who cant walk,but if u 400 pounds and has a sexy personality, it may compensate, as long as your good in bed. This works both ways-men and women.peace over war


Behold: The truth!

Posted 2/18/10

Sesshomaru_Lover wrote:


LosingOrbit wrote:

So you're telling me that I'm more likely to be judge by my physical features than anything else? Do all men really think this way?


Yes all men are pretty much pieces of shit :(


well most women also only looks at guys in a superficial manner,so are they woth of only being "shitty" too?
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