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15 Reasons Why Men Don’t Find Fat Women Attractive
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I think this makes sense. I mean a lot of what is said can definitely be considered as the "truth".
And it's an honest video about a point of view that many people share.

I don't agree with the last bit about plus size models though. And being reasonably overweight, meaning one doesn't have health issues because of it, should be okay, and isn't something someone should be judged for. And as far as I'm concerned, I like women who are slim or chubby. The problem lies in knowing where "chubby" ends and "fat" begins.

But honestly and with no intent to be mean. There lies a lot of truth in this.


But The opinions about sounds and impressions during sex and other intimate experiences can't be considered as "truth". It seems to me more like personal dislikes shared by the people he has discussed this with. And I'm sure there are those who agree on what he says.
But there'll also be a big group of people who oppose this. This dislike for fat peoples appearance is a preference for others and should not be referred to as "the truth".



Here are the 15 reasons:

1. A fat woman isn’t the entire package that we’re looking for in a woman.
2. A fat woman looks like ‘used goods’.
3. A fat woman makes unattractive sounds during sex.
4. A fat woman lowers a man’s status.
5. A fat woman attracts less-favorable treatment in society.
6. A fat woman’s true physical appearance is hidden.
7. A fat woman is unhealthy.
8. A fat woman will likely pass on her bad habits to the children.
9. A fat woman is missing the most attractive element.
10. A fat woman is ‘heavy-lifting’ in the bedroom.
11. A fat woman requires more food.
12. A fat woman doesn’t have a natural, female form.
13. A fat woman is usually lazy.
14. A fat woman usually has psychological issues.
15. A fat woman looks older than she is.


The ones that are underlined above are reasons I think can be discarded.
The "used goods" comment is the one I think sounds the most demeaning, even if that wasn't the intent.
The "unattractive sounds" may be a turn on for someone else.
And the "bad habits", are likely to be passed on yes, but it's a question of child upbringing more than a reason to stay away from someone overweight.
The "heavy lifting". Is yet again a question of sexual preference.

The other reasons is truth for me. But it's definitely not just the truth about women. It's the truth about people in general.

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But The opinions about sounds and impressions during sex and other intimate experiences can't be considered as "truth". It seems to me more like personal dislikes shared by the people he has discussed this with. And I'm sure there are those who agree on what he says.
But there'll also be a big group of people who oppose this. This dislike for fat peoples appearance is a preference for others and should not be referred to as "the truth".



I couldn't have said this any better. My last girlfriend was very chubby and I didn't find it a problem with me. It was more about her heart and her personality. Unfortunately, this is lost on many guys (and many girls) these days.

Not all fat women are lazy or bad people. Some females were born 'bigger'. And you have to be extremly shallow and closed minded to think there aren't chubby women out there who are just as beautiful, if not more beautiful, than the skinny girls.

I am instantly turned off by girls with the unheathly 'tree branch' look. Seeing your ribs doesn't make you hot, it makes you unhealthy and in need of hitting up a buffet.

There is a balance between skinny and fat. If you're very fat, then yes you need to lose alot of it. But if you are very skinny, then you need to gain some more weight.

Lean does not mean thin, and this has been taken the wrong way these days too.

As a single guy still looking for female, I don't go into it with this expexctation with a girl having to look 'hott' or whatever society tells her she has to be. She could be thin or chubby and have a personality that appeals to me, and I'll love her so much.

That's how I see it. And whatever this closed minded shallow moron believes in IS NOT WHAT ALL OF US GUYS THINK, NOR REPERSENTS WHAT WE BELIEVE WHEN LOOKING FOR A FEMALE
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its true for everyone isnt it??.........
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its true for everyone isnt it??.........



If you're talking about what the shallow moron thinks, then no. It's not true for me. Not all guys are like that. It's just that the media and the mainstream only holds up shallow closed minded morons who are fasly marketed as what the 'normal guy' is.
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squirrel3d wrote:


azn_kawaii wrote:

its true for everyone isnt it??.........



If you're talking about what the shallow moron thinks, then no. It's not true for me. Not all guys are like that. It's just that the media and the mainstream only holds up shallow closed minded morons who are fasly marketed as what the 'normal guy' is.


then u can have an award for not being "shallow moron"..YAYYYYY
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This is what society view about fat people in general. Deal with it. I'm 115 pounds and all of my family said I'm fat. Compare my body to other normal teenage girl, they would say i'm skinny. For me I think I reach my weight more than I should have.
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ewwww fat people!
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All I have to say is HAHAHAHA! omg... that was just really TOO funny..
I am a bigger girl and I'm sorry.. I've had no problem finding guys who are interested in me.. as well as those "15 reasons why" make me laugh even harder...
I'm not even going to watch the video because I'm sure it will only infuriate me.. because of these 15 reasons I can already tell what type of person he is..
I'm glad this was posted because I like to see an insight into how some people think and I think this guy has issues myself.. I mean please.. does he not have anything better to do than make up this list? why? that's what I want to know.. I mean did a big girl do something to him? I guess there are these types of people in the world.. I'm just glad I've never had the pleasure of running into them
ohh and sorry I did rant some while going over these "reasons" I just think a fat girl needs to speak up and say HEY! don't stereotype us..

1. A fat woman isn’t the entire package that we’re looking for in a woman. Wha? ugh okay if you say so..
2. A fat woman looks like ‘used goods’. ?? no I think that would be a ugh to be nice lets say a girl who has sex with anyone...
3. A fat woman makes unattractive sounds during sex. LMAO!!! I've been complemented on my voice but I guess it is possible
4. A fat woman lowers a man’s status. hmm yeah I guess this could be true, a "man" would have to have more self confidence to not care what people think..
5. A fat woman attracts less-favorable treatment in society. ugh.. maybe I live on another planet? I've always been treated fine actually when my true personality comes out I actually sometimes get ahead
6. A fat woman’s true physical appearance is hidden. yeah sure.. our "true" appearance.. am I some type of shape shifter?
7. A fat woman is unhealthy. okay I can see this one! but anyone who smokes,drinks,does drugs are no more less healthy than a big girl..
8. A fat woman will likely pass on her bad habits to the children. yes this too, but not always!
9. A fat woman is missing the most attractive element. and this is what? small waist? big boobs?
10. A fat woman is ‘heavy-lifting’ in the bedroom. lol okay sure but there are things a fat girl can do
11. A fat woman requires more food. lol okay.. this is SOO not true.. I've seen my good friends who are skin and bones inhale food quicker than I can..
12. A fat woman doesn’t have a natural, female form. hmm I'm confused a natural female form? In past times women were prized for their "size" hard to believe? yeah I know.. but it's true.. most women with money were "fat"
13. A fat woman is usually lazy. everyone can be lazy... I've worked harder than some of my "skinny" coworkers so I know this is false..
14. A fat woman usually has psychological issues. ugh.. I would think nowadays everyone has psychological issues.. and actually.. I would think people like the person who came up with list were the ones who caused the girls who were fat to have psychological issues...
15. A fat woman looks older than she is. not true at all, I am constantly having to correct people on my age.. it's always 5 years younger than what my age actually is.
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Looks aren't the best way to describe someone.....it's the personality.
Yes, they might not be all attractive to most guys, but hey they are still human too!
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The video is really judgmental and blindfolded. Not all men are like that and I'm sure that there are men out in this world who prefers their woman to be thick.

And I do know that everyone looks at physical appearances first thing.
But people who aren't closed minded would know and see that beauty is only skin deep.

I'm not at all worried about this. If a guy doesn't like me for who I am, then he's not worth my time.


Edit: Typos.


When I hear a woman say that If a guy doesn't like her for who she is, then he's not worth her time (in relation to her weight), I am instantly turned off. The question I want to ask is, who ARE you exactly? How do you think being overweight factors into WHO you are since being fat takes no effort so it's not like an achievement for which you can be proud? The simple fact of the matter is that physical appearance hints at who we are as a person and being fat hints at absolutely nothing good. It's not about being shallow, it's an entirely objective matter.

Besides, consider this, the phrase "who we are" includes both the good and the bad parts of ourselves, why should we get complacent and not strive to improve those bad parts? It's not just about attracting partners anyway, it's about doing something that takes effort that will give us true confidence in ourselves. The people who I consider truly shallow are those who act or even truly feel confident but were you to ask why, what did they do lately to warrant the confidence they remain silent.
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ALL men and women think this way...relationships start off on a physical level. If you are not sexually attractive to the male, you wont consider him as a mate. Now you can still be friends of course. But you arnt going to date an ugly guy. Dont even kid yourself. And if he is ugly and u still date him, he's probably filthy rich, with like 100 million in the bank. Money does count for sex appeal. Its not about being superficial. When it comes to mates, its called comon sense. Now if u do it for friends, then its racism/sexisms/superficial.


When you say all, are you speaking from your own perspective, or straight facts? If not, then it's just an opinion.

Did you know that in some parts of the world, fat represents wealth and beauty? The bigger the person, the more idolized they are by their community, pretty interesting, right? But here in America, fat is looked down upon and judged constantly. Everyday we're bombarded by images in the media of weight loss products; skinny people on magazines, hell, even our own families disown us if we become too big. In a society where beauty is only skin deep, how are we able to see others for who they truly are?

Yes, being too over-weight is unhealthy, but to judge someone for their appearance is not only being closed-minded, but indecorous.
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I still think this dude is just scum =o=
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there's only one reason---because they're fat
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i think it depends on the guy...and the factors. Like how fat is she? Is she actually attractive? Good personality? Her habits. Stuff like that from a first glance if she was really fat most guys wouldn't like her. But thats how people are. By a first glance we judge. Its human nature.
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When you say all, are you speaking from your own perspective, or straight facts? If not, then it's just an opinion.

Did you know that in some parts of the world, fat represents wealth and beauty? The bigger the person, the more idolized they are by their community, pretty interesting, right? But here in America, fat is looked down upon and judged constantly. Everyday we're bombarded by images in the media of weight loss products; skinny people on magazines, hell, even our own families disown us if we become too big. In a society where beauty is only skin deep, how are we able to see others for who they truly are?

Yes, being too over-weight is unhealthy, but to judge someone for their appearance is not only being closed-minded, but indecorous.


Finally, someone sees it the same way I do. Sadly, people ARE judging others for their apperances.
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