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15 Reasons Why Men Don’t Find Fat Women Attractive
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i have a fetish for fat people especially those cute one's with reddish cheeks and small eyes..haha..like my socio teacher....and oh like the kid from the disney movie UP------i want to have a lil brother like him..

Posted 2/19/10
When I see fat girls with thin women's skeletal structures, I am usually relatively pissed off on their behalf that they just can't go to the gym. When they have wide shoulders, and are heavy-set naturally, I tend to just feel sorry for them, because they will never be slender and attractive, they were born to be strong and like men and should take up judo.

What does really annoy me, and I bet it annoys other people, is when fat girls (who are just fat because they eat a lot of cheese and such) complain talk about things relating to their attractiveness. As far as I'm concerned, you give up all your physical self-respect if you eat burgers and cheese every day. And that goes hand-in-hand with your attractiveness, not just physically but also personality-wise.

And when they talk about all the exercise they do, it pisses me off too. Because I'm like, jesus why don't you fucking eat some salad and do that exercise then you'll be thin, you greedy guts.

I have some sympathy for fat girls, but that doesn't convert to attractiveness. The amount of fat girls and guys I have seen become thin and then attractive is relatively high in my group of contacts, so I simply don't accept that 95% of fatties can't get thin from spartan eating regimes and good exercise. I think that another problem is that often when girls express self-pity for their fatty situation, I give them pragmatic answers to solve it; when all they really want is a slice of sympathy cheesecake.
Posted 2/19/10

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LosingOrbit
When you say all, are you speaking from your own perspective, or straight facts? If not, then it's just an opinion.

Did you know that in some parts of the world, fat represents wealth and beauty? The bigger the person, the more idolized they are by their community, pretty interesting, right? But here in America, fat is looked down upon and judged constantly. Everyday we're bombarded by images in the media of weight loss products; skinny people on magazines, hell, even our own families disown us if we become too big. In a society where beauty is only skin deep, how are we able to see others for who they truly are?

Yes, being too over-weight is unhealthy, but to judge someone for their appearance is not only being closed-minded, but indecorous.


Finally, someone sees it the same way I do. Sadly, people ARE judging others for their apperances.


I could never stand small-minded people, for I was raised to treat others not as worthless, but human. For at the end of the day this is what we are, born in all types of shapes, sizes, colors, and of course flaws. I believe what most people lack in this society now a days is compassion, people need to show it more. There's no such thing as the perfect size and there never will be.

Besides, I bet most of the people who comment rudely about others probably don't have much going for them.
Posted 2/19/10
I'm a bit sad to admit it, but when I think about it I realize that I generally presume fat people are lazy, unmotivated, and unhealthy (in the lifestyle sense). I think there is a strong correlation between being healthy and being smart, tasteful, and ambitious. It's not coincidence that amongst students at top universities, obesity is virtually non-existent.

On another level, when I see an obese girl I immediately know that it is highly unlikely we will have very much in common or agree on many things. Appearance is a proxy for other characteristics…for example skinnier people (on average) enjoy the outdoors more, like fast food less, enjoy sports more (as fans and players)…these are all qualities that I find attractive.
Posted 2/19/10

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But The opinions about sounds and impressions during sex and other intimate experiences can't be considered as "truth". It seems to me more like personal dislikes shared by the people he has discussed this with. And I'm sure there are those who agree on what he says.
But there'll also be a big group of people who oppose this. This dislike for fat peoples appearance is a preference for others and should not be referred to as "the truth".



I couldn't have said this any better. My last girlfriend was very chubby and I didn't find it a problem with me. It was more about her heart and her personality. Unfortunately, this is lost on many guys (and many girls) these days.

Not all fat women are lazy or bad people. Some females were born 'bigger'. And you have to be extremly shallow and closed minded to think there aren't chubby women out there who are just as beautiful, if not more beautiful, than the skinny girls.

I am instantly turned off by girls with the unheathly 'tree branch' look. Seeing your ribs doesn't make you hot, it makes you unhealthy and in need of hitting up a buffet.

There is a balance between skinny and fat. If you're very fat, then yes you need to lose alot of it. But if you are very skinny, then you need to gain some more weight.

Lean does not mean thin, and this has been taken the wrong way these days too.

As a single guy still looking for female, I don't go into it with this expexctation with a girl having to look 'hott' or whatever society tells her she has to be. She could be thin or chubby and have a personality that appeals to me, and I'll love her so much.

That's how I see it. And whatever this closed minded shallow moron believes in IS NOT WHAT ALL OF US GUYS THINK, NOR REPERSENTS WHAT WE BELIEVE WHEN LOOKING FOR A FEMALE


Have you seen the reaction difference most girls have when they see a 6 pack compared to a belly? It's hilarious how shallow we humans can be, get over it. The weight men look for is anything from unhealthy to healthy. The lower end of healthy, and upper end of unhealthy is probably the most attractive to most guys. Who the fuck is attracted to stick-thin supermodels? They have so little fat in their body their breasts look like deflated balloons, yuck. But how can someone with like, two rolls of fat on their stomach when they sit down TRULY say they are healthy?!

This guy apologized several times that he is giving the cold, hard truth. Sorry, but what he says is basically correct, even if it is insensitive.

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its all just annoying really! dont make excuses for having a preference, because that means your having to explain yourself!
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This conversation on this type of topic reminds me of...."Shallow Hal" a lot. In my opinion, I find all women to be beautiful no matter what. What I find beautiful is who they really are from the inside, it doesn't matter how big or skinny a person is just as long as there hearts shine through.
Some people might find this really stupid of what I wrote but truth be told, who wants to marry a women or man who are hot but when you really get to know them you find that their personality isn't beautiful as their outer appearance.
People should stop looking at their outer appearence and actually pay attention is which what the other person can bring happiness into one's heart, if your happy with the person....that's all it matter's. Ignore the sterotypes, ignorant, rude, mean and disrespectful people who go against it.
Just as long as one feels great in their own skin, that is all that matter's.
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fat women needs lovin to :/


but they gotta pay giggty giggty goo :3
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This conversation on this type of topic reminds me of...."Shallow Hal" a lot. In my opinion, I find all women to be beautiful no matter what. What I find beautiful is who they really are from the inside, it doesn't matter how big or skinny a person is just as long as there hearts shine through.
Some people might find this really stupid of what I wrote but truth be told, who wants to marry a women or man who are hot but when you really get to know them you find that their personality isn't beautiful as their outer appearance.
People should stop looking at their outer appearence and actually pay attention is which what the other person can bring happiness into one's heart, if your happy with the person....that's all it matter's. Ignore the sterotypes, ignorant, rude, mean and disrespectful people who go against it.
Just as long as one feels great in their own skin, that is all that matter's.


It's not that they're saying people are marrying just for looks, it's that they're saying ppl aren't marrying b/c of looks-- or more precisely, most wouldn't stick with someone just b/c they were hot but they would if they had a good emotional connection AFTER getting with them, and that part in the relationship's timeline usually only exists b/c they see someone attractive-- else they may not have even started flirting with them in the first place--

or is it odd to not flirt with everybody you see?

and could you also say that you'd get with a guy who's a greasy fatass, as long as he's nice? if so then I commend you for being able to look past all the shallow things that most humans are stuck with, even though a lot of us won't admit it (yes we're all shallow to some extent)

I won't disagree with your statement about one's personal feelings about how they look-- just saying it doesn't help that often in the eyes of others, unfortunately.
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Well, actually women are tend to carry more fat than men, because their body is design to give birth, so they need the fat to protect the baby. I find 9-15 to be untrue. I think all sizes of women have their own beauty. Although I gain a few pounds, I wan to lose it, because it is not my body's natural weight. Some people are born to be more curvy and they do not over eat and they do exercise regularly. My nutrition teacher told my classmates and me that certain curvy body people live longer than skinnier people. A person being slim does not mean that they are healthy and some of them might not be happy because they are restricting what they eat and worry a lot on how they look, but also they tend to be scare of eating. One of the Hong Kong actress has full body figure and she is known to be one of the happiest joyful person. I don't think curvy women looks older, if some one has full face, then their face is plump, and their winkles are less visible. People who have wrinkles are losing collagen and fat around the area.

9. A fat woman is missing the most attractive element.
10. A fat woman is ‘heavy-lifting’ in the bedroom.
11. A fat woman requires more food.
12. A fat woman doesn’t have a natural, female form.
13. A fat woman is usually lazy.
14. A fat woman usually has psychological issues.
15. A fat woman looks older than she is.
Posted 2/19/10


does anyone find that attractive?
about the BMI charts http://www.laparoscopy.com/pleatman/am-i-morbidly-obese.htm
5'6 women at 185 is slightly overweight you need to get ~250 for morbid obesity level
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LosingOrbit
When you say all, are you speaking from your own perspective, or straight facts? If not, then it's just an opinion.

Did you know that in some parts of the world, fat represents wealth and beauty? The bigger the person, the more idolized they are by their community, pretty interesting, right? But here in America, fat is looked down upon and judged constantly. Everyday we're bombarded by images in the media of weight loss products; skinny people on magazines, hell, even our own families disown us if we become too big. In a society where beauty is only skin deep, how are we able to see others for who they truly are?

Yes, being too over-weight is unhealthy, but to judge someone for their appearance is not only being closed-minded, but indecorous.


Finally, someone sees it the same way I do. Sadly, people ARE judging others for their apperances.


yeah I was watching Oprah, the topic was about what does it mean to be beautiful. I forgot which place is this, but in this area women must be fat to get marry. Women there would have to eat a lot even if they throw up. Most of them are at least probably size 12. In Brazil is best known to want to be skinny.
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this is sad....i dont think you should say anything about this...... it hurts them.
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Have you seen the reaction difference most girls have when they see a 6 pack compared to a belly? It's hilarious how shallow we humans can be, get over it. The weight men look for is anything from unhealthy to healthy. The lower end of healthy, and upper end of unhealthy is probably the most attractive to most guys. Who the fuck is attracted to stick-thin supermodels? They have so little fat in their body their breasts look like deflated balloons, yuck. But how can someone with like, two rolls of fat on their stomach when they sit down TRULY say they are healthy?!

This guy apologized several times that he is giving the cold, hard truth. Sorry, but what he says is basically correct, even if it is insensitive.




I knew you'd miss my point...alot of you did. I guess you also didn't bother to read this part....


There is a balance between skinny and fat. If you're very fat, then yes you need to lose alot of it. But if you are very skinny, then you need to gain some more weight.


What the guy says is not correct most of the time and I'm not gonna be repersented by the likes of him or you if you agree with him.
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The video is really judgmental and blindfolded. Not all men are like that and I'm sure that there are men out in this world who prefers their woman to be thick.

And I do know that everyone looks at physical appearances first thing.
But people who aren't closed minded would know and see that beauty is only skin deep.

I'm not at all worried about this. If a guy doesn't like me for who I am, then he's not worth my time.


Edit: Typos.


Love this post. It's really cool that you're so comfortable in your own skin. <3

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Also, yeah, right. That's like... High school mentality. Seriously. If you believe that, you're probably either still in high school or severely immature. It's not about your body. It's who you are, how you act, how you treat yourself, if you're a good person, if you respect yourself. That's all that's ever going to really matter.

And I'm not talking about preferences. I mean, it's totally okay to prefer one kind of body to another. Go for it. But to think that all men think exactly like this, to discriminate against other body types and to believe those reasons? Grow up, sweetheart. c:

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