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Did it ever happen to you
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Did it ever happened to you:

When you like someone he/she doesn't like you back and when someone likes you, you don't like her/him back?

Your too nice to someone and then that person thinks that you like them and then when you try to be friends they get freaked out and starts to ignore you?

Have you ever felt alone/empty inside even though you had friends and family? Like something like just doesn't connect inside you that its like you want something that you can't have but its just in front of you?

Have you ever had someone who you really loved but that someone just keeps calling you a friend and tells you that person is not interested in any relationship whatsoever at the moment, and then after a few years of waiting that person already has someone in his/her life?
Then this same kind event happens again and you think you should still ask that person out so that it won't be too late, but there's a CON that if you try to confess your feelings and failed you might never see that person again?

I'm just confused Z_Z... dunno wut to do. I don't want to think its love but it feels like it and I don't wannaaaaa Or maybe its just another obsession. Its just that whenever I see her I feel happy and satisfied, and whenever I talk to her it feels like I'm full inside. Then whenever I don't see/talk with her for a long time I lose my mind, constantly thinking of her everytime. I'm a kind of guy who can forget anyone whenever I want.. Just like a cold-hearted person, but for some f-ckin reason I can't do it to her. <_<

oh well.. I just wanna say what's in my head on CR so I can sleep sigh.. sorry.

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LOL..thats a lot of question...

1st..yes..i experience it before...i like HIM but he doesnt like me back...it hurtS SO MUCH like i dont want to like anymore.....and, then it happens too...a guy like mee but HE'S SO not my type and so i dont like him....and keep rejecting him...

2nd,..it never happened to me before...im not really that nice to guys..lolxx..~ so...they never think im creepy or anything coz im not even trying to be friendly...

3rd..yess..ive felt empty...alonee..and lonely..even though i have friends and family...i guess...its just like that....~


the other question.....i dont have those things..coz im just 14....LOL..? hahah~^^

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First three...yes unfortunately :(

I was told by the person i like that he wasn't interested in a relationship at that time so we were just friends...so i waited...and found out he liked someone else...which really peeved me off because I could've tried to get over him instead of waiting for him... But anyway...at first i thought it may have been "love" (if you can actually define love) because it was like for me what you said... but i got over it eventually...it took a full year and then some...but i did get over him... so its ok...you'll survive... Gambatte!
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Did it ever happened to you:

When you like someone he/she doesn't like you back and when someone likes you, you don't like her/him back?

Nope, never happened to me, I'm pretty likable.


Your too nice to someone and then that person thinks that you like them and then when you try to be friends they get freaked out and starts to ignore you?

Hard to say there

Have you ever felt alone/empty inside even though you had friends and family? Like something like just doesn't connect inside you that its like you want something that you can't have but its just in front of you?

It's there, and she exists and certain we'll see each other again, just a permanent level.


Have you ever had someone who you really loved but that someone just keeps calling you a friend and tells you that person is not interested in any relationship whatsoever at the moment, and then after a few years of waiting that person already has someone in his/her life?

Story of my life..always wanting to love and be loved


Then this same kind event happens again and you think you should still ask that person out so that it won't be too late, but there's a CON that if you try to confess your feelings and failed you might never see that person again?

That's why I write letters

I'm just confused Z_Z... dunno wut to do. I don't want to think its love but it feels like it and I don't wannaaaaa Or maybe its just another obsession. Its just that whenever I see her I feel happy and satisfied, and whenever I talk to her it feels like I'm full inside. Then whenever I don't see/talk with her for a long time I lose my mind, constantly thinking of her everytime. I'm a kind of guy who can forget anyone whenever I want.. Just like a cold-hearted person, but for some f-ckin reason I can't do it to her. <_<

Alright, what you need to do is try to explain how you feel to this person, if you can't say it, express it in a letter but it is better to let her know now than wait until later and sulk later down the years. It's better to know now than later, don't you think? Just know this about love, if it is love, take your time with it, you're young and still have the rest of your life to deal with until you're ready to go to that next level.

oh well.. I just wanna say what's in my head on CR so I can sleep sigh.. sorry.

Don't be, it's all good

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Posted 3/15/10
The 3rd one did but other things happen to me is

I like someone,then I don't like him,I don't know it just go away naturally

and now ;

I like someone.and I know he likes me back like he's trying to get my attention.but we didn't admit our feeling since we never tell anyone about our problem and our character is kinda like-----cold,stay cool 8D
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the 1st and 2nd one >_> gah i hate those.
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When you like someone he/she doesn't like you back and when someone likes you, you don't like her/him back?
>it did happen to me but i haven't told i like him ..

Your too nice to someone and then that person thinks that you like them and then when you try to be friends they get freaked out and starts to ignore you?
>unfortunately yes... ..i thought we could be good friends but i was wrong...
but i no longer care....

Have you ever felt alone/empty inside even though you had friends and family? Like something like just doesn't connect inside you that its like you want something that you can't have but its just in front of you?
>always...i dont know..may be because i'm... i dont know

the last two questions...never happened to me...
Posted 3/15/10
F-cking true for the first question.

Second question.. not really true for me, but someone IS nice to me to the extent that I think he likes me but well.. he doesn't.

Third.. some sort true.

Forth.. not really, I am still young.
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When you like someone he/she doesn't like you back and when someone likes you, you don't like her/him back?
Ummm actually my best friend likes me and he knows that i have a gf but he wont back off

Your too nice to someone and then that person thinks that you like them and then when you try to be friends they get freaked out and starts to ignore you?
Yeah...I ended up hurting this person so she would know that i dont like her as a lover

Have you ever felt alone/empty inside even though you had friends and family? Like something like just doesn't connect inside you that its like you want something that you can't have but its just in front of you?
Yesssssssssssss!!! especially with friends since all they think about is having a parrty in houses fucking a girl they just met getting drunk untill ther pass out,well you can call the...mates >.>

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I never fell head over heels for someone who I know I wouldn't have a chance with.
Didn't stop me having a little crush But nothing to get too emotional over.

Was this one time though I had a crush on a guy called Iain. He was in my PE class, and yeah I said nothing to nobody until some girl overheard me confiding in a friend. She didn't catch a name, but she badgered me until I blabbed.
Then she actually, there and then, right in front of me walked over to him and told.
To this day I want to punch that girl right between the eyes. Bear in mind, she just overheard. I never talked to her before that.
Bitch.

And well, I think there was someone who liked me, a friend of mine kept passing a message on in English like "will you go out with me"?
Hahaha, there's no more definite sign! He asked twice, but I was nice and let him down gently... it'd be kinda weird dating someone I could only think of as a friend.


As for the empty feeling... I get that.
When I haven't seen my bf in weeks it's all I can really focus on...
Oh well. 2 weeks now until I see him. ^^

Never happened that I was too nice to someone for my own good. Well I have a feeling it happened... but I don't remember the circumstances...
Posted 3/15/10 , edited 3/15/10
The first question, I think it happened to everybody...
It's okay if that person doesn't like us back.
We can't do anything...
We will be hurt when liking someone... well sometimes..
but It's okay right? because there is someone better perhaps?
It just takes time =] `` I hope you feel better though.
Posted 3/15/10
Yes to all questions. nothing more .__.
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yes sure i have crushes, but i haven't been really serious to anyone...
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When you like someone he/she doesn't like you back and when someone likes you, you don't like her/him back?
I never liked anyone, and I highly doubt anyone liked me, I mean in a romantic sense of course

Your too nice to someone and then that person thinks that you like them and then when you try to be friends they get freaked out and starts to ignore you?
Never happened, I'm equally nice with everyone -guys and girls- so no misunderstandings have come up (so far).

Have you ever felt alone/empty inside even though you had friends and family? Like something like just doesn't connect inside you that its like you want something that you can't have but its just in front of you?

Not really, close relationships are overrated. They make me feel claustrophobic, hanging out with only one person all the time.

Have you ever had someone who you really loved but that someone just keeps calling you a friend and tells you that person is not interested in any relationship whatsoever at the moment, and then after a few years of waiting that person already has someone in his/her life?

Never fallen in love yet, so no.

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it happened to me...


first and third....


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