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Love being single?
Posted 3/15/10
I always get pestered by my friends to 'date'.

All.

The.

Time.

I mean, it's all they talk about. Boyfriends, dating, romance...I'm completely different from most because I like being single. I'm 17, never dated, never had a boyfriend and I'm not interested.

Sure, I've had crushes, but nothing more than that. It pisses me off when most people seem to think that just because you're a teen, or in High School you must have a boyfriend/girlfriend or else you're socially unacceptable or some nonsense like that.

I don't get all the craze! In my opinion, there's so much time for other things like that. I mean, if you want to date, go ahead, but...Just because you don't doesn't make you a loser or anything. I'd rather focus on other things in my life. And so far, I love being single.

Is anyone else out there like this?
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Posted 3/15/10
COMRADE~~

same here im decied to never date or get a boyfriend they are just waaaaaaay too much hassle i just cant handle it i enjoy my freedom and like to keep it that way ^_^

alone and rich is the way too go XD w00t~

(plus men take up too much anime and video game time and i have my priorities after all XD LOL)
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Posted 3/15/10
Well... from experience, and no offence here to anyone, but I've only met two types of people who declare they're proud to be single, and really mean it.

1. People who'd rather enjoy the opposite sex on a more causal basis... an excuse for hooking up at clubs... ehhh. :S

2. People who haven't had a significant other they clicked with, so they don't know what it's like anyway.

This is just from what I've seen in the real world. My friends all bitch about being lonely and needing male attention, apart from two who'd rather sleep around, and one who up until recently had been too shy to date.
I don't know what I'd be like and I can't say this applies to everyone, so don't hate. This is just what I've seen.


You do feel kind of weird though, having never had a bf when you feel that everyone around you has.
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Posted 3/15/10
Meh, I'm single because I never met an interesting chick so far. Plus relationships look like too much hard work. Criminal waste of time, money, energy and peace of mind
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Posted 3/15/10
I'm 17 too, never had any relationships, never been kissed and I'm not interested either.

I've heard way too many stories about girls who had been dating for years and changing boyfriends every week or two, always saying they got dumped and they cry etc.

I'm afraid that if I've ever come to love one person and something happens, I would end up worse than I am. I already suffer from a major depression so that would definitely make me go insane.
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Posted 3/15/10
Maybe the date they were referring to was a day on the calender, but they misread the definition of date.
Posted 3/15/10
I enjoy being single. that's just how I feel. I don't think I'll find that special guy I can relate to anyway.
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Posted 3/15/10
hell no.
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Posted 3/15/10

mystic17 wrote:

I enjoy being single. that's just how I feel. I don't think I'll find that special guy I can relate to anyway.


Wait, try the girls.
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Posted 3/15/10
im 17 and ive never had a gf T_T mind u i am trying and so far ITS SO MUCH FUCKING HASSLE >_<
Posted 3/15/10

RaikuRoak wrote:


Wait, try the girls.


No thanks. not into girls.
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Posted 3/15/10

mystic17 wrote:


RaikuRoak wrote:


Wait, try the girls.


No thanks. not into girls.


So I'm assuming the transvestites.
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Posted 3/15/10 , edited 3/15/10
Just go with the flow. Women are often the ones being pursued. If someone sparks the interest of your affection, maybe you will reevaluate your perspective.

I mean right now, I enjoy school, spending time with family, hanging out with friends, video games, watching anime in the comfort of my own home. I am fairly content single myself. But if I ever want to find that someone, I have to be the one wanting to pursue because I feel they would not come to me.
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Posted 3/15/10
i think being single is better...
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Posted 3/15/10
Well being a teen mom I don't really date that much ( I mean come on what guy wants to date a girl with a kid thats still in high school when their not even the father lol). But I do have a boyfriend now and he really loves my daughter, Halle, and I know I'm only 14 and he just recently turned 16 but I think if we last all the way threw high school (which I hope) then he could be my daughters father. But if I had a choice... like if I didn't have a child then yeah... I'd love being single haha.
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