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silent breakups or breakups with words??
Posted 4/8/10
I know right away when I don't feel the same about a person anymore, instead of being an utter coward I will tell them straight. Then the silence happens, its better to distance yourself afterwards rather than before to help get over them.
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Posted 4/8/10
It's always better to yell, scream, curse, and say things you wouldn't normally say. It's feels better, it's makes for fun conversation later, and it provides the best kind of finality.
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Posted 4/8/10
I hate silent break up and break up with one word, they say sorry and just walk away, if that ever happens to me ill throw a shoe at him
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Posted 4/8/10
my last breakup was a 'two word' dump. It was a stab in the heart I'll never do that to anyone
Posted 4/8/10
w. words =D
cuz if u all of a sudden ignores them that's just mean n inconsiderate
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Posted 4/9/10
non-silent
but its rly awkward.. i just do it online or via-text now..
i think im a rly bad person =/
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Posted 8/7/10
I can't understand the aspect of "silent breakups," relationships should be maintained professionally all the way to the end, otherwise the person should not even be in a relationship.
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Posted 8/7/10
Wow. people who don't even confront the problem is so stupid. I want it straight up no bullshit.
Posted 8/7/10
I rather have a direct break-up cuz i would want 2 know wat i did wrong... if i have a silent break-up how the hell do i know wat i did wrong n how i can i better myself for future relationship lol
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Posted 8/8/10
my first bf did that silent breakup thing to me, just cut off all contact one day, sad thing is I was actually concerned about his safety(I'm a little paranoid so if someone just "disappears" my mind goes to the worst)

so I definitely prefer the with words kind
Posted 8/8/10
definately a verbal break up cos then it isnt so misleading, and u can still be freinds XD
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Posted 8/8/10
Verbal breakup is better. Though it's extremely awkward
Posted 8/8/10
I prefer verbal break ups.
I've been dumped over texts.
One of my ex's actually told one of my friends to tell me that it was over.
Grow some balls and say it to my face.
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Posted 8/9/10
silent breakups maybe.. if i'd talk to them i'd just get irritated and lose my control, slash him in the chest, pour lemon juice and sprinkle salt on it, get the lemon's seed and force it inside the cut, skin him alive, take out his heart and rip it to shreds.

just kidding. break ups with words are better
Posted 8/9/10
The silent one is for pansies.

Get some nuts and tell the person or you're a chicken shit.
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