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silent breakups or breakups with words??
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21 / M / California
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Posted 8/9/10
Silent ones are stupid. It always has to be verbal. If I ever get broken up with silently, you can be sure I won't be silent.
Posted 8/9/10
In-between. I hate those idiots who yell at each other "Oh good, you are dead in bed anyway!". Why did you date at all then?
I think you have just to tell this person that you don't love them anymore and point out why. Scandals are for hysterical types and make you look like a jerk.
Posted 8/9/10
I think I prefer words, unless I'm the one that has to do the breaking up -- I always use words anyway.
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Posted 8/9/10
Words. People can't read minds, and mis-communication can make something hard even harder
Posted 8/9/10
The second way, use your words to break up with someone. Be as clear as possible so you don't give the other party false hope.

The first method is too immature.
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23 / F / Wales, UK
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Posted 8/9/10
words i'd rather he tell me directly
not mess me around
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24 / M / O.C. So.Cal
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Posted 8/9/10
lol mine just...broke apart...no words no trouble nothin...its not like we had good times together ne way lul
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Posted 8/9/10
haven't been in a relationship (my expectations are too high maybe hahaha) but it happens i would chose break up in silent b/c i don't want to hear those words...n then i don't want to see him anymore again. no even as friends. like a goodbye in your face forever.
in my case, i have a tendency to remember things if it hurts me if it has been said to me or put into words...so yea it may seem i'm running away from reality...at least it'll make me forget about the case and move on more happily~
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22 / F / Bay Area
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Posted 8/9/10
Huhh.. Directly of course !
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33 / M / So Cali, OC
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Posted 8/9/10
Grow up and be a Adult, tell the person face to face. Only kids and people don't never cared about you to began with will break up with someone over the phone, text, aim ect. If you have any respect for your loved ones you will at least do it face to face no matter how difficult it is.
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Posted 8/9/10 , edited 8/9/10
How about a break up with fists and muscle?
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20 / F / Pluto
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Posted 8/9/10
definitely prefer straightforward =P
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24 / F / Tampa, FL
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Posted 8/9/10
Breakups with words are preferable. Then you can just end the damn thing for good. Silent breakups leave a ton of unanswered questions and are confusing.
Posted 8/9/10
Usually when people get silent in a relationship it's over, that's when you have to talk to them about it so that it can be official.
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27 / F / the corners of my...
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Posted 8/9/10
how can a break up b silent??? U will talk about it, its inevitable. U have 2 say n 1 way or another that its over and b clear about it.
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