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Is it wrong to have crushes when you're dating someone?
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Posted 3/19/10
yea so i wanna see people's views on this. People talkabout how they're in a relationship but they have crushes on other people... do you thihnk this is right?

as for me, i thihnk its okay. i mean as long as you dont start to go after them its alright. i'm in a great relationship, and they know i have crushes on some othere poeple, i've told them.... and they're alright w/ it....
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Posted 3/19/10
Last time I checked there is no such thing as a thought crime. So you should be fine as long as you don't act on it I guess.
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Hell - we're all guilty of thinking about possibilties with other people, we've all done it.

Trust me though, talking from experience, betraying the trust of your partner by acting upon it just wreaks havoc in the long-run.

But yeah, nothing wrong with thoughts, we all do it. We can all see that someone is absolutely stunning - only an idiot would think their girlfriend/boyfriend was the only good looking person on the planet. There are plenty of gorgeous people out there, and whats wrong with noticing that?
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nahhh i dnt think so ...we're human it just what we do lol..just as long as you dnt go for them when you still n a relationship ayyz
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Posted 3/19/10
somethings you have no control over
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Posted 3/19/10
i think that if it's ok for you to see ur bf/gf has crushs on other prople .. u won't get jealous then .. it's ok for u 2 ..

i mean just to think that it's ok to have feelings .. someday it might come ture and ruin the relationship u r in ..

Posted 3/19/10
lol I'm guilty of that atm =] but I don't know what to say about it.
as long as you don't go overboard with it I guess...
Posted 3/19/10
I think it's ok... as long as your sure of your feelings for the person your dating.
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Posted 3/19/10
i think it's perfectly fine. altho, i wudn't like to hear it from my bf. && if u don't cheat on ur bf with that person, then it's alrite.
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Posted 3/19/10
I dont really know how ppl interpret a crush, but I think just thinking someone is hott isnt bad
Posted 3/19/10
hahhehehe no idea ^^
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Posted 3/20/10

Lukeaxx wrote:

Hell - we're all guilty of thinking about possibilties with other people, we've all done it.

Trust me though, talking from experience, betraying the trust of your partner by acting upon it just wreaks havoc in the long-run.

But yeah, nothing wrong with thoughts, we all do it. We can all see that someone is absolutely stunning - only an idiot would think their girlfriend/boyfriend was the only good looking person on the planet. There are plenty of gorgeous people out there, and whats wrong with noticing that?


Well, everything would go wrong if your girlfriend find out about that from her friends. I suppose that it is all right if she doesn't know, but if she does, you've got some explanation to do--or worse, if her friends find out and tell her, man, that's "all hell breaks loose," lol.

Not to be a sexist, but sometimes, girls' mouth could be quite poisonous
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24 / M / Australia Yeahyah
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Posted 3/20/10
Nah it's human intuition.
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22 / M / Around the corner =D
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Posted 3/20/10

Lukeaxx wrote:

Hell - we're all guilty of thinking about possibilties with other people, we've all done it.

Trust me though, talking from experience, betraying the trust of your partner by acting upon it just wreaks havoc in the long-run.

But yeah, nothing wrong with thoughts, we all do it. We can all see that someone is absolutely stunning - only an idiot would think their girlfriend/boyfriend was the only good looking person on the planet. There are plenty of gorgeous people out there, and whats wrong with noticing that?


She didn't mention anything about noticing attractive people. But maybe that's what she meant, because isn't a crush when you think about someone all the time? If your thinking about someone else all the time in a relationship that's not good. But crushes come and go so ehh.

For me i think this shouldn't even happen, but i guess it does..
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Posted 3/20/10
I definately wouldn't want to know about it
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