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Is it wrong to have crushes when you're dating someone?
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21 / F / Malaysia
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Posted 3/20/10
its not wrong
but there is no such thing as liking/loving 2 people at one time
so if u have a crush on somebody else,dont date ur boyfriend/girlfriend,,it'll break somebody's heart sooner or later
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F / Youtube!
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Posted 3/20/10
Like everyone else here, I think it's okay.
Hell, me and my boyfriend talk about our crushes sometimes.
I tease him for fancying this girl at his school who wants to be either a nun or a midwife (i think it was that anyway)
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21 / F / dubai
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Posted 3/20/10
uh..crush is okay..cheating is bad... i dont know actually..~
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19 / F / lalaland
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Posted 3/20/10
i think its okay, i wouldnt mind if my bf had a crush on someone else as long as he still loves me,
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Posted 3/20/10
Who knows?

Kind of a stupid question but anyway. To each his own, I suppose.

Some take it the wrong way, others not.. so no definite answer.
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Posted 3/20/10
no.. even if you are in a relationship its not wrong..
AS LONG AS [you dont have a relationship with that crush of yours] AND [dont date your crush if you are still dating another guy..choose only 1]
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24 / F / Germany.
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Posted 3/20/10
It's not really thaaaat bad, but also not thaaaaat good.
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Posted 3/20/10
is it wrong to be checking other people out when your dating someone and saying things like "id hit that" even though you cant. people just cant help but to look so why not just look with them lets share the sight of that chick with a huge butt and comment to each other about it
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20 / F / Somewhere in Sing...
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yeah just as long crushes stay as crushes.
Posted 3/20/10
as long as it stays just a crush and you don't try to develop it into anything more it's fine
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27 / M / Puerto Rico
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Posted 3/20/10 , edited 3/20/10
If it really is a crush then I'd say is wrong. But if you are refering to, for example:

Me: "I think Maria is really hot"
You: "Yeah, she definitely is!"
Me: "Though I wouldn't change my girlfriend for anyone in the world"
You: ":-)"

Then I believe it's ok, lol. Otherwise, crushes are in other words, taking a liking to someone and having some kind of affection, which I believe it's wrong "morally" for people who believe in "morality".

^^That's just my opinion
Posted 3/20/10
It's okay as long as it stays at that level. Just don't do anything that doesn't benefit your relationship.
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25 / M / probably the party _
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Posted 4/18/10
yes as long as they don't go to the same school or college.and as long as ur g-friend is fine w/ it.
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F / Canada
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Posted 4/18/10
If it's a celebrity, fictional character then it's okay.

Anyone else besides that (like the guy who lives three doors from you) is wrong.
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29 / F / In 東京, spending s...
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Posted 4/18/10
I think it's perfectly fine as all as the boundaries are established and the couple trust each other. If the person is just a crush, then it's just that. It's only going to be a problem if you act on it and if more complicated situation arises like your crush might actually have a crush on you back. It's not a problem just as long as you know who you love more.
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