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Boys or men/girls or women?
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Do you prefer older men instead of guys your own age? Or do you like boys your own age much better?
I think it's a very interesting question and a lot of people have different thoughts about this.
Since it's well known that girls mostly like older men because they aren't acting like kids.
So what do you people think about this?
Posted 4/6/10
Personally I like mine a little older but I'm dating someone younger right now. But I do like my guys to be mature and not cry babies. My last boyfriend cried about everything!!! He was 23 years old crying because he thought I was breaking up with him when I told him I was moving back to Japan >.>. I can't stand it when grown men whine like little children.
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I'm gonna go ahead and add an option for us guys too discuss as well ;)


If you want to ignore slang and just say 'girls' are younger, less mature women, then of course as a 22 year old I'm going to go for women. I don't see why I'd show interest in some naive teenager who's younger than 18. Most people are probably gonna pick which of the two fits their age group.

I guess another question would be, at what point does a girl become a woman, hmmm? Does it depend on age, their maturity and life experiances, or a combination of all?
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Age is just a number. I don't think it really matters.
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lastdance009 wrote:

Personally I like mine a little older but I'm dating someone younger right now. But I do like my guys to be mature and not cry babies. My last boyfriend cried about everything!!! He was 23 years old crying because he thought I was breaking up with him when I told him I was moving back to Japan >.>. I can't stand it when grown men whine like little children.


Yeah, same here,I love real men I feel sorry for you to having to deal with that guy though
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touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Age is just a number. I don't think it really matters.


Beyond a certain point, yes. You have a point. Still, before a certain point it matters for a bunch of reasons.
Posted 4/6/10

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lastdance009 wrote:

Personally I like mine a little older but I'm dating someone younger right now. But I do like my guys to be mature and not cry babies. My last boyfriend cried about everything!!! He was 23 years old crying because he thought I was breaking up with him when I told him I was moving back to Japan >.>. I can't stand it when grown men whine like little children.


Yeah, same here,I love real men I feel sorry for you to having to deal with that guy though


Thanks lol. Yeah he was a pain. He acted like he was 3 or something >.>
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Zeronite wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Age is just a number. I don't think it really matters.


Beyond a certain point, yes. You have a point. Still, before a certain point it matters for a bunch of reasons.


Well of course I'm not justifying pedophilia or women marrying dudes old enough to be their grandpa but a few years here and there...who cares lol
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Zeronite wrote:

I'm gonna go ahead and add an option for us guys too discuss as well ;)


If you want to ignore slang and just say 'girls' are younger, less mature women, then of course as a 22 year old I'm going to go for women. I don't see why I'd show interest in some naive teenager who's younger than 18. Most people are probably gonna pick which of the two fits their age group.

I guess another question would be, at what point does a girl become a woman, hmmm? Does it depend on age, their maturity and life experiances, or a combination of all?


mmm Your last questions are very good ones and are difficult to answer. I do think that a girl becomes a woman trough a combination of all.
One time I met someone who was 25 and acted like a kid. Later I met a girl who was 15 and had very adult conversations, not kid-like at all But I still call the 15 year old a girl and not a woman.
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touchzanaflexpens wrote:


Zeronite wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Age is just a number. I don't think it really matters.


Beyond a certain point, yes. You have a point. Still, before a certain point it matters for a bunch of reasons.


Well of course I'm not justifying pedophilia or women marrying dudes old enough to be their grandpa but a few years here and there...who cares lol


Indeed I'm sure you wasn't, but there's a certain age group who tend to be just too immature and naive for me, even when I was young enough for it to be only a few years apart. It's in this age group that you'd find what I consider girls, rather than women.
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Posted 4/6/10

Zeronite wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:


Zeronite wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Age is just a number. I don't think it really matters.


Beyond a certain point, yes. You have a point. Still, before a certain point it matters for a bunch of reasons.


Well of course I'm not justifying pedophilia or women marrying dudes old enough to be their grandpa but a few years here and there...who cares lol


Indeed I'm sure you wasn't, but there's a certain age group who tend to be just too immature and naive for me, even when I was young enough for it to be only a few years apart. It's in this age group that you'd find what I consider girls, rather than women.


Lol that's true. To each his own
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Posted 4/6/10

lastdance009 wrote:


anouckjeh wrote:


lastdance009 wrote:

Personally I like mine a little older but I'm dating someone younger right now. But I do like my guys to be mature and not cry babies. My last boyfriend cried about everything!!! He was 23 years old crying because he thought I was breaking up with him when I told him I was moving back to Japan >.>. I can't stand it when grown men whine like little children.


Yeah, same here,I love real men I feel sorry for you to having to deal with that guy though


Thanks lol. Yeah he was a pain. He acted like he was 3 or something >.>


That's so immature! Maybe he just wanted to play at the playground ^^" I hope you next(or current) boyfriend is more mature than your ex.
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Posted 4/6/10
Um. Sure I like older men. But only a couple years older than me. My limit is 4 years apart. (:
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dumblewhore wrote:

Um. Sure I like older men. But only a couple years older than me. My limit is 4 years apart. (:


At that age they could still very much be 'boys' rather than men.
Posted 4/6/10
'Boys' is just slang for me. I say 'Guys' most of the time.

Men also like to say "woman!" at the end of a sentience if you annoy them
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