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trust in your love one. :D
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Posted 4/15/10
hm, just curious lol. :D

well, for example.. when your bf/gf kept on lying on you on some matters, of course your trust for him will diminish right? so.. will you break up with him because you lost your trust for him? or continue the relationship because of your love for him?

lol. well, i'd rather choose to break up with him lol. cause trust is one of the foundation of love right? lolx. :D

what's your opinion? lol.



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Posted 4/23/10
Well, I'd obviously ask him why he was lying to me in the first place.
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Posted 4/25/10
Depends why he lied. If it was to cover up something he'd done which he knew would upset me, he'd have a lot of explaining to do...
But if it was something I didn't even need to know, that would have made me do something stupid had I known. I could live with that cause he was only watching out for me.
If it was things like who he was hanging out with... that might make me paranoid enough to end it. :/
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Posted 4/25/10 , edited 4/25/10

coffeeprincess03 wrote:

hm, just curious lol. :D

well, for example.. when your bf/gf kept on lying on you on some matters, of course your trust for him will diminish right? so.. will you break up with him because you lost your trust for him? or continue the relationship because of your love for him?

lol. well, i'd rather choose to break up with him lol. cause trust is one of the foundation of love right? lolx. :D

what's your opinion? lol.



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depends on the how big is the lie, like u spend 3 years with some one then found out that she/he lied about her/his name


and depend on the reason, but yeah trust is a foundation in love,


and you are a bit weird

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Posted 4/25/10
well it depends but... trust and love are the foundation of relationships, they should always go together. so you know...
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Posted 4/25/10
Depends on what they're lying about. If they're lying about cheating on me, then of course i'll end it; but if they're lying about something they're ashamed of like a medical disorder or something, then no.
Posted 4/25/10
Depends on what they lied about. Something he's insecure about or ashamed about & etc. that's not a problem.
Lying about where you went & etc. can deplete my trust in you.
Lying about cheating & doing very inappropriate things with another female is a definite break up.
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Posted 4/25/10 , edited 4/25/10
First of all, I'd ask him what's wrong. (my intuition is pretty sharp)
If he doesn't tell me then I'd break up with him.
I don't like guys who cause drama and I don't like being involved in it.
So I'd probably just leave. =\
Posted 4/25/10
well, if he's cheating or being unfaithful to you, then dump him.
However, there are times a person have to keep a secret/lie and unable to share it to anyone.
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Posted 4/25/10
Depends on what the person lies about. Sometimes they lie for your own good, even if it doesn't look that way at the start
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Posted 4/26/10
Yep. What the others said. Depends really.
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Posted 4/30/10

kmkq8 wrote:


coffeeprincess03 wrote:

hm, just curious lol. :D

well, for example.. when your bf/gf kept on lying on you on some matters, of course your trust for him will diminish right? so.. will you break up with him because you lost your trust for him? or continue the relationship because of your love for him?

lol. well, i'd rather choose to break up with him lol. cause trust is one of the foundation of love right? lolx. :D

what's your opinion? lol.



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depends on the how big is the lie, like u spend 3 years with some one then found out that she/he lied about her/his name


and depend on the reason, but yeah trust is a foundation in love,


and you are a bit weird



woops. lol. :p it just popped while i'm surfing the net and answering forum lol. :))
Posted 6/25/10
Example situation :

You love this person deeply. But the person lied to you. However you still choose to trust the person. Once again , you got hurt. You feel that your trust for that person had been completely destroyed , and you left the person , leaving deep scars that will never recover and from that moment onwards , you do not trust anyone anymore.

Note:
Because of that someone , you choose not to believe in anyone else. There are still many fishes in the pond , many trees in the forest. Learn
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Well, I have a little theory on that. I find boys, sorry but I do not stereotype here, to be really reserve on their personal stuffs. And I guess, one thing that made me feel most frustrated is when they lie just because "it is for your own safety" stuff. I guess NO guy, and even a girl, who truly loves would ever lie to anyone with of bad intentions.

If he loves you, have faith on his little lies. Unless of course if the lies lead to cheating already, or being unfaithful to your relationship. It is still good to discuss the matter together than letting yourself make up your own conclusions on why he is acting this way without even consulting him.
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Posted 6/25/10
My boyfriends lied to me, and its caused us a lot of problems, but he's made up for it.
The only way I'd leave him is if he'd cheat on me, then I would definitely break the relationship.
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