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Do you ever struggle to keep your friends?
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Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?
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struggle? not at all.
we're just keeping it cool
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Your question is pretty vague imo. You can have a thousand friends on facebook or crunchyroll but in real life u might only talk or hang out with probably less than a tenth of those friends. Usually it takes an effort to maintain really good friend relationships with others. There are times that it takes a while for you to build a strong friendship with someone u haven`t talked much before highschool. Basically you need to do the work to get the results.
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well maybe yes coz sometimes there comes a time that distance, being busy at school or going on separate ways is maybe a reason that they couldn't stay there always .sometimes you have to make a move in order for them to remember you or communicate with you its really hard(i know that feeling) ..sometimes you will get tired of this and just let them be or let them do whatever they want..
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sort of i guess. over time i see some of my friends getting more and more irritating then i lean towards another group of friends, but i wouldn't really call it a struggle.
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alice_metharlace wrote:

struggle? not at all.
we're just keeping it cool


but don't you ever feel like you might hurt them accidently, or annoy them accidently etc? I mean friendship isn't happy EVERY time right? there are always ups and downs rite? how do you deal with it?
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well maybe yes coz sometimes there comes a time that distance, being busy at school or going on separate ways is maybe a reason that they couldn't stay there always .sometimes you have to make a move in order for them to remember you or communicate with you its really hard(i know that feeling) ..sometimes you will get tired of this and just let them be or let them do whatever they want..


This happens a lot after highschool especially with no cellphone.
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Virtuous1 wrote:

sort of i guess. over time i see some of my friends getting more and more irritating then i lean towards another group of friends, but i wouldn't really call it a struggle.


i think i call it a struggle because... when i get friends i usually put my all into that relationship... i tell them all my thoughts, emotions, secrets, and i always stand up for them and do things to make them happy.... when it falls apart, i struggle to try to put it together until i can't anymore and that's what i mean by a struggle..
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nope...never struggled to keep my friends
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erjeel wrote:

well maybe yes coz sometimes there comes a time that distance, being busy at school or going on separate ways is maybe a reason that they couldn't stay there always .sometimes you have to make a move in order for them to remember you or communicate with you its really hard(i know that feeling) ..sometimes you will get tired of this and just let them be or let them do whatever they want..


omg im just like that too... my parents are missionaries so i NEVER stay put... i just made best friends in this school called Singapore American School... like i was actually getting popular and there was this one group who i was really really close with and i did everything with and talked about everything with... then my parents made me move... and because of that one of my friends decided to backstab me... the others just ignored me and now that i have left only 2 of them really talk to me through messenger a lot but that is still... really sad.


and that isn't the only school that's been like that... to be exact, i've been in 10 schools my whole life... and im 15 right now.
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i think i call it a struggle because... when i get friends i usually put my all into that relationship... i tell them all my thoughts, emotions, secrets, and i always stand up for them and do things to make them happy.... when it falls apart, i struggle to try to put it together until i can't anymore and that's what i mean by a struggle..


yup me too...but a sad reality is that some memorieswith ur friends or things that u are trying to bring back may not be same as before. it is because some people change as time passes by....


This happens a lot after highschool especially with no cellphone.


yup its true haha
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Candy_boy wrote:


alice_metharlace wrote:

struggle? not at all.
we're just keeping it cool


but don't you ever feel like you might hurt them accidently, or annoy them accidently etc? I mean friendship isn't happy EVERY time right? there are always ups and downs rite? how do you deal with it?


yes we do have fights..the worst happened for around 3 months.(i mean, we did not care for each other for approximately 3 months).
and to think that we're classmates ^^
nevertheless, after a while,(maybe because we got bored from being separated) we reconcile by bumping at each other..like nothing had happened :)
i think we just happen to know each other well that we understand when to be together and when to leave each other at peace for a while..mmm something like that..(sorry can't explain it very well)
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omg im just like that too... my parents are missionaries so i NEVER stay put... i just made best friends in this school called Singapore American School... like i was actually getting popular and there was this one group who i was really really close with and i did everything with and talked about everything with... then my parents made me move... and because of that one of my friends decided to backstab me... the others just ignored me and now that i have left only 2 of them really talk to me through messenger a lot but that is still... really sad.


and that isn't the only school that's been like that... to be exact, i've been in 10 schools my whole life... and im 15 right now [


thats hard...well ive been in 5 schools even though its diff from ur situation i still know the feeling..but don't lose hope maybe one day you could find a friend that will bethere for you anywhere u are..sometimes they come unexpectedly..or sometimes u could find a true friend here in cr or fb
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no we are all laid back
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If I have to work to keep my friends, they're not really friends.
It should take no effort to keep friends.
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