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Do you ever struggle to keep your friends?
Posted 4/16/10

erjeel wrote:


omg im just like that too... my parents are missionaries so i NEVER stay put... i just made best friends in this school called Singapore American School... like i was actually getting popular and there was this one group who i was really really close with and i did everything with and talked about everything with... then my parents made me move... and because of that one of my friends decided to backstab me... the others just ignored me and now that i have left only 2 of them really talk to me through messenger a lot but that is still... really sad.


and that isn't the only school that's been like that... to be exact, i've been in 10 schools my whole life... and im 15 right now [


thats hard...well ive been in 5 schools even though its diff from ur situation i still know the feeling..but don't lose hope maybe one day you could find a friend that will bethere for you anywhere u are..sometimes they come unexpectedly..or sometimes u could find a true friend here in cr or fb


yea, don`t expect to find friends online cause they might stalk u and could even be a jackass in rl. Try to make new friends and keep in touch. Geez, there`s too many of these girl threads on crunchyroll. We might see trolls appearing. Just go out there and do something about it. If u act all emotional for the people you miss, stop getting depressed and talk to those people again or make new friends.
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yea, don`t expect to find friends online cause they might stalk u and could even be a jackass in rl. Try to make new friends and keep in touch. Geez, there`s too many of these girl threads on crunchyroll. We might see trolls appearing.


yup that true..but its ur choice on who will be your friends online...
Posted 4/16/10
I do struggle keeping my friends! my bestfriends & my enimies i always try to keep them close but everything is just falling apart for me in school!!! Sometimes i feel like dying already and not see anyone. I was doing good with my friends last year but this year people change this year!!! MIDDLE SCHOOL IS TOUGH but HIGH SCHOOL might be BETTER or Worse?!!! I just want my friends how they were last year!!!!
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I don't struggle to keep my friends. If they're really your friends, no effort should have to be made. The friendship will just maintain itself naturally.
Posted 4/16/10

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Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?


do not be annoying
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Posted 4/16/10

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I do struggle keeping my friends! my bestfriends & my enimies i always try to keep them close but everything is just falling apart for me in school!!! Sometimes i feel like dying already and not see anyone. I was doing good with my friends last year but this year people change this year!!! MIDDLE SCHOOL IS TOUGH but HIGH SCHOOL might be BETTER or Worse?!!! I just want my friends how they were last year!!!!


It's okay! just try to act natural and don't be scared... if you seem natural and happy and fine with everything there'll be a greater chance of you being someone who people can be happy around and you'll be able to keep it probably (:

Let's keep trying~ x3
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Posted 4/16/10

erjeel wrote:


omg im just like that too... my parents are missionaries so i NEVER stay put... i just made best friends in this school called Singapore American School... like i was actually getting popular and there was this one group who i was really really close with and i did everything with and talked about everything with... then my parents made me move... and because of that one of my friends decided to backstab me... the others just ignored me and now that i have left only 2 of them really talk to me through messenger a lot but that is still... really sad.


and that isn't the only school that's been like that... to be exact, i've been in 10 schools my whole life... and im 15 right now [


thats hard...well ive been in 5 schools even though its diff from ur situation i still know the feeling..but don't lose hope maybe one day you could find a friend that will bethere for you anywhere u are..sometimes they come unexpectedly..or sometimes u could find a true friend here in cr or fb


yeaa i noe ^___^ my friendship is right now somewhat stable. (: so wish me luck~ and i will u too :DD
Posted 4/16/10

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MysticAngel1 wrote:

I do struggle keeping my friends! my bestfriends & my enimies i always try to keep them close but everything is just falling apart for me in school!!! Sometimes i feel like dying already and not see anyone. I was doing good with my friends last year but this year people change this year!!! MIDDLE SCHOOL IS TOUGH but HIGH SCHOOL might be BETTER or Worse?!!! I just want my friends how they were last year!!!!


Thanks i will take those words and remind myself of that & hopefully the struggle with friends wont be so hard. Thanks i will keep trying!!

It's okay! just try to act natural and don't be scared... if you seem natural and happy and fine with everything there'll be a greater chance of you being someone who people can be happy around and you'll be able to keep it probably (:

Let's keep trying~ x3


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Posted 4/16/10

Candy_boy wrote:

Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?


~Keeping friends shouldn't be hard at all. If they're your real friends, then you guys should understand each other. I'm talking about the friends u had since your childhood, but if you're talking about friends that u only met last year or recently, just show them that you just wanna chill out. If your friend gets annoyed at u, the simple thing that u have to do is talk to him/her and ask her why she's annoyed at you. You won't know what he/she thinks of u unless u talk to that person. If that person doesn't like u, don't sweat it, there's a lot of people out there u that I'm sure is friendly.
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Posted 4/16/10

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Candy_boy wrote:

Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?


~Keeping friends shouldn't be hard at all. If they're your real friends, then you guys should understand each other. I'm talking about the friends u had since your childhood, but if you're talking about friends that u only met last year or recently, just show them that you just wanna chill out. If your friend gets annoyed at u, the simple thing that u have to do is talk to him/her and ask her why she's annoyed at you. You won't know what he/she thinks of u unless u talk to that person. If that person doesn't like u, don't sweat it, there's a lot of people out there u that I'm sure is friendly.


thx i think that really kinda helped (:
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Posted 4/16/10

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_DaboinextdoorSed wrote:


Candy_boy wrote:

Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?


~Keeping friends shouldn't be hard at all. If they're your real friends, then you guys should understand each other. I'm talking about the friends u had since your childhood, but if you're talking about friends that u only met last year or recently, just show them that you just wanna chill out. If your friend gets annoyed at u, the simple thing that u have to do is talk to him/her and ask her why she's annoyed at you. You won't know what he/she thinks of u unless u talk to that person. If that person doesn't like u, don't sweat it, there's a lot of people out there u that I'm sure is friendly.


thx i think that really kinda helped (:


~Your welcome! Wait... how come u asked that kind of question? Sounds weird coming from a 24-year old.
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Posted 4/16/10

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Candy_boy wrote:


_DaboinextdoorSed wrote:


Candy_boy wrote:

Okay right now, im talking about friends that you have in real life, because i honestly think maintain a real relationship uses a larger amount of effort.

So you know people sometimes get annoyed easily, even if the might understand you... Friends may get annoyed eventually too. What do you do to prevent from losing that friend? Do you ever struggle hard?


~Keeping friends shouldn't be hard at all. If they're your real friends, then you guys should understand each other. I'm talking about the friends u had since your childhood, but if you're talking about friends that u only met last year or recently, just show them that you just wanna chill out. If your friend gets annoyed at u, the simple thing that u have to do is talk to him/her and ask her why she's annoyed at you. You won't know what he/she thinks of u unless u talk to that person. If that person doesn't like u, don't sweat it, there's a lot of people out there u that I'm sure is friendly.


thx i think that really kinda helped (:


~Your welcome! Wait... how come u asked that kind of question? Sounds weird coming from a 24-year old.


huh? oh lol im only 15 x] and well it wasn't TOTALLY cuz i needed help... cuz my social life is pretty nice right now... it was just cuz i face these problems so much... cuz my parents move like every other year or something... and also cuz im curious if anyone has any unique ideas (:
Posted 4/16/10
Yeah, sometimes I wish I had more energy/interest to keep in contact with some people. On the other hand, it's pretty much second nature for me to keep in touch with 3 people from middle school. I also keep in contact with most everyone I lived with during college.

I suppose my advice is as long as you're not a dick, worry less. People who find you annoying are generally not worth the effort. This is especially the case as you get older and have more responsibilities. Not saying that they are terrible people, all relationships take some sort of investment, but it gets pretty easy to be passing acquaintances. I wouldn't worry about being out of contact with very close friends because the next time will be great regardless.
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Yeah, I struggle.
I like having friends, but sometimes I get emotionally detached and distant.
My friends then feel like I'm ignoring them, and then I try to put it back together. =/

Poor me.
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no, fuck em'
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