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Do you ever struggle to keep your friends?
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Posted 4/25/10

yea i agree with u alot actually..
there is a time when u dompletly find yourself busy all of a sudden.. school, work, or even doing something on your own y'know.
it is hard keeping making friendshop last.. i wont say it isn't. but at the same time, when u have that friend that is totally close to you.. it doesn;'t seem that hard y 'know.

i've had my fair share of losing friends who i thought were close to me.. some were my fault i'll admit to that, but some.. well lets jus say ppl change!


yup i know that feeling...its really hard when u thought a friend who is really close to u changes or disappear..even if u try many things to bring it back and still didnt come all we can do is just hope
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I have a bad habit of often wanting to seclude myself and do more things on my own. I find that it's an okay thing to do every now and then, but that not hanging out with friends is an easy way to lose them. Sometimes, if I've been alone for a while, I worry that I'm starting to withdraw myself from people again so I try to hang out or at least talk to them a ton on Facebook and the phone. Yes, I do have fun with them and it's not like I'm driving myself crazy but back in high school, I spent so much time alone that it became a habit.
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Posted 5/25/11
what friends? LOL >.>
Posted 5/25/11
After leaving high school it was kind of hard to keep in touch and stuff when we all split and went to University but you just have to make an effort If they don't make an effort to contact you, then they're not true friends.
Posted 5/25/11
Not really. Even if we don't meet a lot I make sure we maintain a decent communication with each other.
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Hardly have any. Most people give up before they even become anything whatsoever in my life, since I'm rather selfish and hardly contact others unless there's benefit for me.

And I sorta agree with Chained_Angel. I don't think I'll ever become anyone's true friend. Not like I'm putting any effort anyway.
Posted 5/25/11
Sometimes. I'm very close with some of my friends and I feel like I'm the one that has to contact them first I'm leaving high school soon and I have a feeling no one is going to contact me when I leave. If they don't then I'm going to find some new friends. It's really hard to try to talk to them all the time......it fustrates me. I'm getting tired of staying home during the weekends now. Everyone is busy with their own lives but I really want to stay in contact with them.
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Posted 5/25/11
nevah we always cool
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Posted 5/25/11
I know a lot of people but only consider a few of them to be my true friends and to those I will always find the time to spend with them.

Despite working at different places, we keep in touch via mobile phone or social networking sites and if we have the same days off then we often get to hang out. We always arrange nights out together too at least once a month plus I'm on the verge of passing my driving test too so this will make it easier to keep in touch.

It takes a lot of hard work but despite the lack of communication or hanging out at times, true friends will always be there and won't question the reasons for your absence.
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Posted 5/25/11
I don't try to stop them. If they don't want to be my friend, they don't have to be my friend.
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Posted 5/25/11
I have one or two really close friends. We've talked about how there are a lot of people who are 'best friends forever' one day and hating each other the next. I don't see how you can be annoyed with your best friend. Then again, people throw around these titles without any loyalty.

I don't try hard to make or keep friends. I don't feel the need to surround myself with people and I don't feel like everyone has to particularly like me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a bad guy or anything. I can mend my relationships with people well enough by talking to them. However, if they reject my first advance, I'm not going to go out of my way to make sure we're okay.
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Posted 5/25/11
Cant say i never did. Maybe once It happened. When we had a fight, but things worked out fine... after all we're friends xD
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Posted 5/25/11

Kuhle wrote:

I don't try to stop them. If they don't want to be my friend, they don't have to be my friend.


But what if... they're really close friends. U dont mind losing them? doesnt... losing someone hurts?
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Posted 5/25/11

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Kuhle wrote:

I don't try to stop them. If they don't want to be my friend, they don't have to be my friend.


But what if... they're really close friends. U dont mind losing them? doesnt... losing someone hurts?


It does, but if they really don't want to be my friend I'm not going to try to stop them. Maybe we just need a break, and eventually we'll talk again. That's happened with some of my friends before. If they want to leave for good, I don't want to irritate them even more by forcing them to stay friends with me.
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Posted 5/25/11

Kuhle wrote:


Cookies-Monster wrote:


Kuhle wrote:

I don't try to stop them. If they don't want to be my friend, they don't have to be my friend.


But what if... they're really close friends. U dont mind losing them? doesnt... losing someone hurts?


It does, but if they really don't want to be my friend I'm not going to try to stop them. Maybe we just need a break, and eventually we'll talk again. That's happened with some of my friends before. If they want to leave for good, I don't want to irritate them even more by forcing them to stay friends with me.


then... what about ur feelings? what if u;re the one wanting to be friends with them again? doesnt ur feelings matter to? and i dont believe if u want to be friends with someone again... is forcing them too. Y-yeah!
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