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So, this is the second take at this ^^, i hope that our advice will help ^^.


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Posted 5/29/10
Theres this guy who i liekd for 3 years. I finally worked up the courage to tell him i like him. i confessed to him about 3 months ago and after i did, he rejected me and started to ignore me... Afterwards he kept looking at me on the bus and wherever we both go. He talks to me sumtimes but still ignores me...Whenever this girl (a girl who always sits next to him on the bus) isnt here he starts to talk to me and mess with me like old times. But when shes here he stops talking to me like im invisible. and even during those times he keeps looking at me. Whats the meaning of this? Please help...

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Theres this guy who i liekd for 3 years. I finally worked up the courage to tell him i like him. i confessed to him about 3 months ago and after i did, he rejected me and started to ignore me... Afterwards he kept looking at me on the bus and wherever we both go. He talks to me sumtimes but still ignores me...Whenever this girl (a girl who always sits next to him on the bus) isnt here he starts to talk to me and mess with me like old times. But when shes here he stops talking to me like im invisible. and even during those times he keeps looking at me. Whats the meaning of this? Please help...



It sounds likes he's sorta confused on how to act around you and after you confessed to him. Since he rejected you, i'm assuming that he felt awkward talking to you in the beginning, and then he sorta got over the awkwardness and tried to patch things up with you, somewhat that is. From what your telling me, i think that the guy likes the girl, but maybe he's feeling a little guilty about rejecting you since he keeps stealing glances at you while he's talking to the girl. It would explain the part when she's not there and then he talks to you. Maybe he just doesn't want the girl to get the wrong idea since he likes her?

Those are the only reasons i could really think of......either 1) he feels guilty because he rejected you and ignored you and is talking to another girl or 2) he's falling in love with you even though he's going at with the girl.(if he's going out with her, and if he isn't, maybe he's liking you both?) ......i'm leaning towards the first reason, but, then again, this is just a feeling i get from reading what you said >< sorry, i'm not very good with this stuff x.x
Posted 5/29/10


The girl that keeps sitting next to him just sits next to him even when he doesnt want her to. Me and him used to sit next to each other alot and love to play around. After i confessed he stopped it...

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Posted 5/29/10

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oh... Then i'd say that he's still awkward about the whole confessing thing, since i'd feel awkward too, like you know, if you had a really good friend and then you found out they were crushing on you, and you rejected them and hurt them, wouldn't you feel a little awkward talking to them? Maybe you should try asking him what he really feels? Since you gathered up the courage to confess. I mean if you have liked the guy for 3 years, are you really willing to give up your love just because he rejected you? Or are you going to try to get him to like you back? It really depends on you and what your going to do next, since some people will just let it go just like that and let everything end like that. And since you just told me that, i'd say that maybe he wants to patch things up with you. He might be ignoring you when she's here because he might be protecting you? Like, is the girl that keeps sitting with him popular?
Posted 5/29/10

oh... Then i'd say that he's still awkward about the whole confessing thing, since i'd feel awkward too, like you know, if you had a really good friend and then you found out they were crushing on you, and you rejected them and hurt them, wouldn't you feel a little awkward talking to them? Maybe you should try asking him what he really feels? Since you gathered up the courage to confess. I mean if you have liked the guy for 3 years, are you really willing to give up your love just because he rejected you? Or are you going to try to get him to like you back? It really depends on you and what your going to do next, since some people will just let it go just like that and let everything end like that. And since you just told me that, i'd say that maybe he wants to patch things up with you. He might be ignoring you when she's here because he might be protecting you? Like, is the girl that keeps sitting with him popular?

now that i thought about it...She is popular in her grade level and some of the upper ones. And she doesnt like me. soo yea...And whenever i try to talk to him she gets in the way and tries to talk to him. then i just say see ya. And no i havent given up yet. I just want what we had along time ago back.
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well, then that would make sense right? Since he probably knows that she doesn't like you either, it might be that he's trying to not make people go against you, since it's hard to go through a group of people bullying you. She probably doesn't like the fact that your so close to the guy. She might feel that you are trying to get him and probably doesn't know that he's rejected you. She probably likes him too right? So it would make sense that she doesn't like you since she has 'claimed him' so she doesn't want people hitting on him. And the fact that your close to him makes it 'easy' for you to like get him or tell him stuff about her, which may be why she doesn't like you.

So why don't you try talking to him and clearing everything up? Like telling him that you don't mind that he doesn't like you and that he rejected you, and that you just want to be friends again if that's possible. Like ask him if there's anyway that you guys can put it behind and move on and become friends and talk normally. Even though that's almost impossible to forget he rejected you, it will still be an opportunity for you guys to become friends again. OR you could take the approach that you talk to him and say that you still like him, and want to be friends, and ask him if he had ever thought about you two going out, or ask him to give you and him a chance, and if it doesn't work, then try being friends again...
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well, then that would make sense right? Since he probably knows that she doesn't like you either, it might be that he's trying to not make people go against you, since it's hard to go through a group of people bullying you. She probably doesn't like the fact that your so close to the guy. She might feel that you are trying to get him and probably doesn't know that he's rejected you. She probably likes him too right? So it would make sense that she doesn't like you since she has 'claimed him' so she doesn't want people hitting on him. And the fact that your close to him makes it 'easy' for you to like get him or tell him stuff about her, which may be why she doesn't like you.

So why don't you try talking to him and clearing everything up? Like telling him that you don't mind that he doesn't like you and that he rejected you, and that you just want to be friends again if that's possible. Like ask him if there's anyway that you guys can put it behind and move on and become friends and talk normally. Even though that's almost impossible to forget he rejected you, it will still be an opportunity for you guys to become friends again. OR you could take the approach that you talk to him and say that you still like him, and want to be friends, and ask him if he had ever thought about you two going out, or ask him to give you and him a chance, and if it doesn't work, then try being friends again...

o-o ^^ thnx! im going to try. but sumthing im rlly worried about. What if we dont be friends again and soemthing goes wrong
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Posted 5/29/10

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XDD lol, np ^^. well, there's always something that might go wrong, you can only hope for the best and give it your all. If he doesn't want to be friends, .....try to ask in a pleading way. If he needs time, then give him time because only time and the right thinking will get you guys through this obstacle and become friends again. Of course, we're hoping for the best. If he doesn't want to be your friend, the least you can ask for is an explanation right?
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XDD lol, np ^^. well, there's always something that might go wrong, you can only hope for the best and give it your all. If he doesn't want to be friends, .....try to ask in a pleading way. If he needs time, then give him time because only time and the right thinking will get you guys through this obstacle and become friends again. Of course, we're hoping for the best. If he doesn't want to be your friend, the least you can ask for is an explanation right?

Yea! ^^ Im going to try to ask him tomorrow since we always see each other at the park o-o
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Posted 5/29/10

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Yea! ^^ Im going to try to ask him tomorrow since we always see each other at the park o-o


^^ good luck! and XDD see, that may be a good sign that he's trying to patch things up?
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XD maybe~ i always want to see him since he always brightens my day
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XD maybe~ i always want to see him since he always brightens my day

:3 good luck!~ ^^ and lol, love always does that xD
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