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What do you think about your parents? Do they love your siblings more than they love you?
Posted 5/29/07

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vajmichael wrote:

I'm the oldest son and sort of the shining example. I tend to tag along with either my mother or father and whenever they go somewhere, they tend to prefer having me tagged along.

But you know, sometimes I think I'm just their obedient dog or something.


heel dogie... heel dogie.


Yes Mashtah. Woof...pant...pant...Woof
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If you are the oldest child or the youngest child in the family you will have a chance being the centre of attention, the worst is that you are in between, it' s very rare that parents love their child in between. unfortunately, I am the one in between. However, I am not jealous at all, as long as I am not being treat like a dog or like I am a adopted child. Life have to go on, so look for the bright side is more ideal. To be honest, my parents doesn, treat me so bad, it's just that they love the other more.
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well...i feel often left out..and often i feel UNWANTED by my siblings...im in the MIDDLE and its quite hard no matter how i adjust to it..it's just hard..*starts to cry*[yeah..im really emotional...]my older sister's the first born girl and my younger brother's the first born son...sometimes...i feel like my relatives likes my brother and sister more...often i am left at home...while my brother and sister is with my mom and dad..sometimes it feels unfair.*stays strong*..but i think life is just like that...sometimes people look for my brother and sister more...they often compare me with my sister...they say that my sister looks younger than me...they say i look older...what hurts most is that me and my sister have a 5 year age gap....but still i look older than her...sometimes people would tell my mom "Oh..I didn't know you had another daughter...." everytime i hear it i feel like im being stabbed...i don't know...maybe im just too paranoid..maybe people didn't mean it...but i set aside my negative thoughts and always think that my parents love me equally just like my brother and sister...
Posted 5/29/07
sweetshamah, I hope you aren't depressed or anything. Most people are sincere or try to be at least so.

At times, I do feel that my own parents are loving me incorrectly because they treat me like a caged bird. But being as I am also, there is a tremendous amount of pressure that constantly against me. Because of who I am and what I am capable of, they have decided what is best for me. Personally, those are paths that I did not want to follow because of my own personal preferences. Due to that, I felt as if more pressure has been put upon me.

At times it feels as if it is no longer unconditional love but more conditional love.
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Well, lets all face it. You're doing worse than your sibling. Therefore, your parents like your sibling more.

So please, don't blame your parents. Blame yourself.
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in my family the one that does the most hard stuff for the family has the highest or my parents depend on the person. It used to be my brother and then me, my sis is the spoilt of the family so they didn't care as much.(I know they seem to care for her but i knew that my bro and i were the fav of the family)
Posted 5/29/07
either way, it doesnt matter to me. if they love you less, more time for you to learn on your own to take care of yourself and less attention on you when you make a mistake... its how ive been living
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I think so. I am the eldest, and my little sister is the baby, so she is dads fav. My brother, is obviously my mums fav. And then there is lonely me, the girl (or also known as the housemaid) loved my no-one
Posted 5/29/07

akali83 wrote:

I think so. I am the eldest, and my little sister is the baby, so she is dads fav. My brother, is obviously my mums fav. And then there is lonely me, the girl (or also known as the housemaid) loved my no-one


you could do something rebelious for their attention
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It doesn't even matter.
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I think I am the favored child!
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Posted 8/10/07
treated equally =D although i am the oldest haha
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i feel that my parents like my elder sis more. because her studies are so much better than mine. and im always the one getting scolded if we get into a fight or something
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Yes they love my sis more but its alrite. ~
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