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what will you do if ur bestfriend likes the same guy as u?
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Posted 2/13/11
That happened to me once, but we only laughed it off in the end coz we found out that he already had a girl friend.
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24 / F / an ethereal reality
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Posted 2/13/11
I had a dream once that my BFF liked the same guy I did. In the dream I cried. When I woke up the next day I told my BFF that I liked him and asked her if she liked him too, after explaining my dream. She laughed and reassured me she didn't. It was a little awkward but I'm glad I talked to her about it.
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26 / F / Evergreen, Colora...
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Posted 2/13/11 , edited 2/13/11
This is probably why I don't have friends.

Here are my thoughts...
If you and your friend like the same guy... does he like both of you?
If not, and he likes neither of you... no problem. You both quit going after him.
If he like one of you, the other gives up and lets you go for it /date him.
If he likes both of you, you both date him. Jk jk... I would say it wouldn't be cool for either of you to date him in this situation. Maybe you could both refrain from telling him that both of you like him, so he doesn't feel pressured. Give him some time. Whoever he asks out is who he probably thinks he likes more or would be better with.

Regardless of what happens, no need to compete. You just express your feelings to him, express your feelings to her, and see what happens, and regardless of who gets the guy, you're happy for one another and not jealous, angry, or bitter.

This has happened to me. My friend and I liked the same guy. I DID NOT KNOW SHE LIKED HIM. He liked me in a romantic/sexual way, but only liked her as a friend. I think they may have kissed, though, but we were all about free love hippie shit at the time , some sort of love rebellion... , so I don't really count that. He found her obnoxious and immature (no offense to her, but no fucking surprise there). She basically wanted me to dump him on the spot. WTF? I liked him, he liked me, he didn't like her, and I didn't know until after we started dating that she had liked him... *sigh* She eventually got over it and started dating other people. I thought the whole situation was ridiculous.

I suppose it would be different if one person was in love. <3
Posted 2/14/11
=P let her have dibs on him first, its the kindest thing to do
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Posted 2/14/11
ugh.. that happens all the time. this one time in high school, three of us liked the same guy. that bastard lol. then it happened again several more times in college. whatever.
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Posted 2/14/11
that will not happens to me.......i will make sure all the''Wolfs",will keeps away...
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25 / F / England
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Posted 2/14/11
how much of a crush are we talking about?

if its cant eat, sleep or live without him i'd give it my best shot and explain 2 my friend my feelings and let him choose

if its like wow what a cute guy wouldnt mind a date sort of attitude i had, id back off but first make a deal with her if it happens again its my turn to get the guy
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22 / F / England
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Posted 2/14/11
IF my bestfriend likes the same guy i like, then i would just battle it out!!!
the kind of guy im lookin for is 1 in a billion lol
no way is she gna get her hands on him!!
i know im bein mean
Posted 2/14/11 , edited 2/14/11
This is happening to me right now lol. I dont think he likes me, so if he doesnt, then i dont really care if my friend starts going out w/ him.
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36 / M / Las Noches
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Posted 2/14/11
Well i have alot of friends that is like that , some of them compete with each other like who is the best and stuff , others just make it as a joke and others dont even care lol they just kept on going as friends
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Posted 2/14/11
I don't have friends. ._.
Posted 2/14/11
I had two instances such as this,

They didn't compete we just continued being friends, eventually one of them confessed, and then I disappeared for a year, came back and luckily one of them had a boyfriend so I chose Katie,

If the guy is aware of it, it's best not too compete, emotions over rule most things, even if they don't compete, emotions with clobber the friendship for a few weeks, I agree going away for a while is a bit extreme but it worked, but for their sake I wouldn't chose either, wouldn't be right.
Posted 2/14/11
i will tell her and declare war lol.
i guess you can say thats happened before, i was going out with this guy, but my friend also liked him. Of course she didnt tell me, i actually feel bad because she like him for 3 years i think and i only just met him. In the end we broke up and she went out with him so its ok i guess.
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Posted 2/17/11
Act badass and avoid a scene.
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19 / F / 13° 00 N, 122° 00 E
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Posted 2/17/11

Rina-San wrote:

Don't compete with her, or you'll ruin your friendship.

If the guy makes a move on me and not her, then I'd talk to her first before deciding.


That's right.
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