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What makes a perfect bf?
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Clearly it does not. Money only comes first if you put your monetary desires first over sustained happiness.
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25 / M / kuwait
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okay, different points of views

don't get mad
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Posted 4/26/10
money?
if only money could make people happy but it doesnt. So money is not important in my opinion. As a matter of fact, I paid for somes of the expenses whenever i went out on dates with my ex. Even though he usually fought with me about it, I told him that we should share expenses. ;)

When it comes to a boyfriend for me its trust. Someone i know i can always trust.
Then i like it when the guy manages to inspire some respect or admiration from me. (it could be anything like he is really knowledgeable about something or passionate about something etc... you get it)
Also comfort - Can i just be myself around him. Does he like me for me kind of feeling i guess.
And for me the most important physical attribute is probably the smile. I like guys that smile earnestly.
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To me, if a girl's dating a guy because he's got money, she's a fake. And he's gonna be one unhappy trooper later down the road.

But a nice BF would be someone with a nice, mature personality, a nice body, and drug-free.
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Posted 4/26/10
4 me...

persanality
looks
style(no style peace out)
attitude
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OK i'm a guy talking from my experience.

Pretty much my GF was PRO!

At the time we met I didn't have money and she said she fell in love with my personality and appearance, as I am a pretty calm, open guy.
However she out smarted my ass when she realised I was clever, so lured me into going to uni to study accounting.

NOW she spends my money. But tbh I dont care. Without money you can do the fun things in life.. like travel the world and I wouldn't be where I am today.

(Personally though, so no haters, in my opinion Asian girls and I mean true asian born in their country not in America or England or whatever. True Asians look for a guy with money, Its their way of security and living that comfortable life. Now im not saying all but a good 70+% look for money..) Thats talking from experience...
Posted 4/26/10
I'd like a courteous, generous, intelligent, funny sweet guy. As for money issues, I'd be happy if he's making his own money just like me so we won't hassle over that dilemma. Or ask for my money constantly as well.
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To be honest, money is important because no one wants a broke ass boyfriend with no job or type of income. Both partners should have jobs, no one partner should have to take care of the other's financial burdens. If you don't have a job, not currently searching for one, and the only thing I see you doing on a daily basis is sleep on the damn couch then I want nothing to do with you. For a women to say she doesn't care about a man's money will regret it in the long run. Like it or not, cash controls (mostly) everything around you.

When you're the one paying for the bill on every date then it's a problem.

When you're paying for his car note then it's a problem.

When you're giving him money so he can go out and spend it on god knows what then it's a problem.

Passion alone doesn't pay the bills, just saying.

Other than having a job, what else makes a perfect bf for me? His personality and the way he handles himself in public.
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money...a truck load of patience, and not one of them ford trucks either i talking about like a dump truck actually more like one of them army cargo planes that transports tanks... and finally you need to apologize even when you are totally right....
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A nice ass!
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24 / M / VA 757
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clean, dress fresh, cool, no acne etc

btw im a boy
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24 / F / Tampa, FL
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- Attractive
- Funny
- Intelligent
- Interesting
- Honest
- Knows the right balance...not too clingy, not too distant
- Has money
- Good in the sack
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26 / F / Canada
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Since I disagree with premarital relationships, I'll just provide an *outline* for what makes a proper suitor in my opinion =P

-Knows who he is and what he wants (or is trying hard to figure both out) i.e. has a purpose in life
-Believes in God and wants to please Him
-Has good character
-Is caring, gives you your share of quality time, and is supportive
-Cares not only about himself or you but also about others
-Reminds you of his love regularly
-Seeks knowledge and self-improvement
-Motivates you to become a better person
-Thinks of having a future with you and does whatever is appropriate and possible for him to realize that
-Does things in the proper manner, even if it is painful or difficult to do (e.g. if he thinks it's not working out anymore)
-Physically attractive to you in a way that is satisfies you (i.e. however you define 'attractive')

If he lacks a good chunk of the above, forget him. -_-
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22 / M / Around the corner =D
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Posted 4/26/10

kmkq8 wrote:

sorry i am not a girl, but i will give you the secret of how a guy can be perfect in the eyes of the girls......okay?


here it go.......ready?














Money





any other answer is bullshit and a lie


This is quite true. I mean in life we all look for a good job/career, something to make a living off of. We need atleast decent money to go on by, but it doesn't mean we have to be rich.
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Posted 4/26/10
the answers to all love related questions can be found in the Ugly Truth
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