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what would u do if u have a crush on ur best friend and ur best had another gf/bf and is asking advise from u?
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Posted 4/27/10

joreen95 wrote:

i'll give him advice and probably like him secretly because i dont want to ruin our friendship..it would be awkward if i told him that i like him and..besides he had gf..so, i dont want to steal him away from the girl. .thats bad.lol~^^^ i would just lyke other guy~


^^ I'd do the same but everything vise versa so it'd be straight for me xD

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Posted 4/28/10

Sunnyxx wrote:

What would you do if a guy you were friends with was just dumped by his girlfriend, for another girl who is also his ex?

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waahhhh... that's odd..
well i'd better be with him and tell him that "maybe it meant to end that way"....
and ask him (as what he see's) if he deserve that...
and make him laugh....
and make him realize that there could be a moment that life sucks... and people you're around with.....
Posted 4/28/10
Im in that situation sort of but i think of her alot but she's taken tho so i have a few bad days and got over it well to answer the q i would just help i wud rather let a freind be happy. why try to ask him or her out if she likes a diff person its useless just move on and help them (your friend) and thats all
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I`d tell him to ditch that girl and go out with me.


Lulz, I like your post. >:D

Wish could do same as above quoted but I have a big, fat ego so I could only ignore infatuation with said best friend and tell girlfriend that you have no decent advice to give her. And forget infatuation by trying to amuse self or get another person to like.

Trust me, if you confess you'll have to explain shitload things and have awkward moments with him -- especially if said best friend rejects you. So do the most honorable, unselfish and least ego-bashing option, let girlfriend have the person in question. ;o
Posted 4/28/10
AW,TOO BAD. LOL.its just a crush. you should rephrase the question into much more deeper. Like What if youre in love.

Give up the love.lol. Its easy to give up.the hardest thing is to move on.
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-nobu wrote:

AW,TOO BAD. LOL.its just a crush. you should rephrase the question into much more deeper. Like What if youre in love.

Give up the love.lol. Its easy to give up.the hardest thing is to move on.



that's one worse situation...
to be inlove with your bezfwend...
if its the situation then i would rather tell the guy that i have to be away from him for a while... if he ask why then i will tell him honestly that im inlove with him and i'am hurting too much to be near him as a bezfwend...

and if he insist to be still with me while knowing that im inlove with him
ill ask why?

and if im really bezfwend for him....
ill ask him to juz let me move on by being away from him...
if he's truly my bezfwend.. he wont let me be hurt especially by him....
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Posted 4/28/10
i'll help them out and wish them the best although this is kinda hard gor me to say cuz i really have a crush on someone
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Posted 4/28/10
ask the person that will post beneath me ;3
Posted 4/28/10

serenity_princess wrote:


pixieknotts wrote:

I`d tell him to ditch that girl and go out with me.


Lulz, I like your post. >:D

Wish could do same as above quoted but I have a big, fat ego so I could only ignore infatuation with said best friend and tell girlfriend that you have no decent advice to give her. And forget infatuation by trying to amuse self or get another person to like.

Trust me, if you confess you'll have to explain shitload things and have awkward moments with him -- especially if said best friend rejects you. So do the most honorable, unselfish and least ego-bashing option, let girlfriend have the person in question. ;o


Vielen dank dafür, meinen posten, Sha zu mögen. ROFLMAOOOOO. xDD
Iono if it`s correct.

ANDDDD wuts with these raburabu topics? P_P
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Posted 4/28/10
i guess i'm not going 2 turn him down and try 2 give him anything 2 hear
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Posted 4/28/10
joke around to create a non-awkward tension before addressing the topic, it will not only make ME feel better but so that I won't slip XD
but yeah i'll help him as much as i could, although it will probably pain me ... but that's what you do when you like/love someone dont you? put their happiness first (not to mention he/she is your best friend as well)
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Posted 4/28/10
Follow the golden rule. "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you."

Go the dark path and try not to help your best friend might come back to bite you when you're in a similar situation in the future. Plus, if you were really a friend, and your best friend's bf/gf is actually a good person, you already know what you have to do, support them.
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This has happened to me in the past, and I gave her the best advice that I could think of. The only other option was to be a manipulative little cockroach.

However, I should mention that she was already aware of how I felt about her because I'm open about that sort of thing in general. It's important to be honest about how you feel about a person. The trick is to do so respectfully.
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Posted 4/28/10
There's a stickied thread for personal advice at the top, try looking there:

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/personal-advice

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