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Post Reply Can Bestfriends really fall IN LOVE with each other?
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Yes! it happens to bestfriends all the time.
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It happens a lot. But there's also something that stops both of them from being together.
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Totally! I fell in love with my best girl friend! But, only she didn't fall in love with me because she's not gay.
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Of course.
I've fallen in love with my best friend.
Also, my significant others eventually become one of my best friends as well.
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Yep.
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It only happened to me once.

I never told her. And to this day I'm pretty proud of the self-restraint I had.

I wasn't attracted to her when we first met, but it's hard to explain. As time went on she just became more and more beautiful to me.
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Winterfells wrote:

It only happened to me once.

I never told her. And to this day I'm pretty proud of the self-restraint I had.

I wasn't attracted to her when we first met, but it's hard to explain. As time went on she just became more and more beautiful to me.


That's inner beauty, my friend.
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justinitsu wrote:

That's inner beauty, my friend.


Yeah, it was just like beauty permeated out of her, the beauty on the inside and on the outside just intermingled and augmented one another.

I swear, at times it was almost like she was surrounded by an aura, like an angel.

I think I only felt that way about someone twice in my life.
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Never understood why people are so hell-bent on seperating the two.. Nothing is more solid than an relationship based on friendship.

Every single long-term relationship that I know of (talking lifetime-long here) are people who were close friends before deciding to make an life together.. I don't know a single couple that didn't know eachother well before "finding" eachother..

Not all friendships lead to love, but they're not mutually exclusive.. People are way to focused on seperating the two and end up not taking a chance because they're "risking" their friendship.. It's too bad, especially considering that the main reason for it going wrong tends to be all in their head, mainly the seperation of love and friendship.

Simply put: One does not deny the other, it's all in your head.

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my dad once told me to marry a girl that if she was a man, she would be my best friend.
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ispy12 wrote:

my dad once told me to marry a girl that if she was a man, she would be my best friend.


And those are really some wise words son
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I have an interesting perspective, maybe not so unique, on friendship and love.
And that is I love all my friends. There is no such thing as "friendzone" and the concept of "feelings for" a specific friend also does not exist.

Friends are special and should be cherished. If one of your friend happens to become someone you consider a lover, it's because the circumstances worked out right that you became romantic partners. It's not that I love that person any more than any other friend, it's that I find an intimate, physical relationship exclusively with a chosen friend resulted from a natural course of events. But at the same time I would protect and solidify that relationship as if my other friends were "just friends."
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Yes it happens allot
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It happens everyday.
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Totally! I fell in love with my best girl friend! But, only she didn't fall in love with me because she's not gay.



Oh ouch. That sucks.
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