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Posted 9/20/12
of course they can.. coz i have been experienced that... and even though we're not together anymore, we're still bestfriend
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Posted 9/20/12
High chance, yes.
It is highly possible.

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It's entirely possible to fall in love with your best friend. The problem comes when cowardice and bad decisions come in the way, which is just as common as the act itself.

It always blown my mind when I see two friends that would make one helluva go at a relationship, and they don't because one or the other doesn't want to risk losing the friendship. So, you WON'T go out with someone whom you already know and already know you like, but you'll take a chance on a relative unknown? Then go to that person whom you won't give a chance to and unload your baggage about how horrible the relationship blew up? Give me a break.

All that said, it is NOT in fact better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Been there, done that. While the emotional maturing can and usually is a good thing, more often than not, the pain involved is so often a crippling factor.

In the end, there's nothing inherently wrong with falling for your friend, it IS more common than most people know, but unfortunately, it will almost never end up as it does in Hollywood. Check J-Dramas for something more closely resembling a realistic scenario, but still realize that real life is not going to be nearly as impressive, interesting, or likely as what you see on screen.
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Posted 9/20/12
Relationships with friends are probably the most awkward thing to experience. Like if you've grown up with them it seems strange to know them in any other light. Personally I wouldn't fall for a close friend, I'd see them more as a sister at most because that person would know you inside-out.
Posted 9/22/12
I fell in love with my best friend back in high school we were best friends for 3 years and he said he felt the same way. Turned out he was gay. True Story.Sigh....So I guess it can happen.
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Posted 9/22/12
it happens. it happened. i hope it is still happening. lol what i mean is i have experienced that kind of thing. he fell for me first and the teasing starts in class. i was too stubborn then to believe. so i didn't. after awhile, i fall for him. well, you know what happens next.
Posted 9/22/12
:O ehhh
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I've always preferred to date people I already know as friends rather than just meeting somewhere and asking on a date.
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Posted 9/22/12
Its a tough choice... You could end up really liking them a lot of my friends have had that happen... but the ties of the friend zone are not easily broken... and it can cause your friendship to cease... which most guys find annoying.. because even if they said no.. You can most likely rekindle your friendship
Posted 9/22/12
umm.... Yes...
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Posted 11/12/12
It happened to me ~ I think the best relationships when someone is friends/bestfriends BEFORE they get together because then you know the person is trustworthy, and you can feel comfortable with him/her. I was bestfriends with my boyfriend around 1-2 years until we ended up together. And now we have been together for almost 3 years, and more to come <3
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Posted 11/12/12

Man and Woman can't be best friends]

Unless they are already married etc....Most those 'Best friends' that I saw in real life ended up being together etc.
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Posted 11/12/12
yup! happend to me
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17 / M / Tórshavn
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Posted 11/12/12
yeah sure, why not -.-? You get to know so much about each other and when you don't dislike it you begin to like them more and more I guess (over the line of being just friends)
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Posted 11/12/12
Love know's no bounds.
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