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what do you think about dating sites
Posted 5/13/10
I'm single now and i am a pretty shy in front of women. so i decided i will try a dating site what do you think good or bad idea and if it is a bad idea any alternatives


ps.. im not bad looking or anything aight
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Posted 5/13/10
useless site
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Posted 5/13/10
I think it should only be used if you're really desperate, like if you're 45 and still not married..
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Posted 5/13/10
I have used dating sites before. The women on them are so picky. They are only looking for Mr. Right come across their paths. Their ideals for a perfect man blind themselves that they are actually talking to a real person with feelings. I have had women talk to me then out of the blue they stopped talking to me. They would give me their number and after a call or something. They give the lest be friends and then wipe you off the face of the earth. I stopped trying about a year ago and just left my account up there. I had a women message me and we have been talking. She seems really cool. Anyways, I don't know how things will go. I did get to meet a person off a dating site and we became good friends so I guess keep trying and you are bound to find something. You got to remember though the women on those sites are very picky.
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Posted 5/13/10
Good luck, Anewlight.

Man I wish I had the nerve to join a dating site...

Absolutely no self confidence, here. oh well, at least I'll be able to find a loving wife when I join the army.
Sigh... I had a girlfriend back in secondary school... and in that I mean we walked home together a few times... her parents owned a bar in town but I moved to like, a different county and I never saw her again.
ah she took my arm to her chest as we walked.. the memories. >.<

Now it seems girls don't like nice people...


Posted 5/13/10
i have to be honest never had a real girl friend so all in all i am really desperate and my friends say i should of had tons by now which i dont get at all so thats why i thought dating site would be a good place to start
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Posted 5/13/10 , edited 5/13/10

emperorsm11 wrote:

i have to be honest never had a real girl friend so all in all i am really desperate and my friends say i should of had tons by now which i dont get at all so thats why i thought dating site would be a good place to start


Go to parties, clubs, weddings. What ever to meet girls, don't do online. What's wrong with you? =___=;
If you meet someone on a site by accident and hit it off, cool.
But if you're specifically joining date sites to get dates...no. Just no. I refuse to let you go on with it. You have buddies, yes? Make them hook you up with their girlfriend's friends or something. Go out in a group. Just don't join online dating. PLEASE! It's as low as you can go.
Posted 5/13/10

emperorsm11 wrote:

I'm single now and i am a pretty shy in front of women. so i decided i will try a dating site what do you think good or bad idea and if it is a bad idea any alternatives

ps.. im not bad looking or anything aight



Bad idea. For me anyway. Try the library. Or the coffee shop. Oh, and read this book:

http://www.amazon.com/How-Start-Conversation-Make-Friends/dp/0684868016/ref=sr_1_1/192-2123368-0795667?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1273775782&sr=1-1

I was shy in front of women as well. The book cracked me open a bit.


Posted 5/13/10
Never has the saying "Get out more" been more true -___-

Socializing in person develops you as a person, boost confidence, brings out your true colours....just get in your car and GO!

There's a world out there beyond your laptop screens to discover.
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Posted 5/13/10
I see you now have your picture up. You didn't when I first read over this thread..

And sure dating websites can work, but when you throw a load of people specifically looking for relationships together some of them will make mistakes.
I find the old fashioned way far more effective, despite that I met my current boyfriend online. Not a dating site though, a random forum.
Posted 5/13/10

Sunnyxx wrote:

I see you now have your picture up. You didn't when I first read over this thread..

And sure dating websites can work, but when you throw a load of people specifically looking for relationships together some of them will make mistakes.
I find the old fashioned way far more effective, despite that I met my current boyfriend online. Not a dating site though, a random forum.


lol yea thats awesome that you could find somebody online see its kinda hard since i have no experience and like im just reallly really shy in person and the internet i can get the message across and i feel like the askin part is the only thing i cant do so if anybody can solve that prob then plz tell me
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Posted 5/13/10
its a waste of time honestly
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Posted 5/13/10
Dude, it's your life. If you want to join a dating site, go join a dating site.
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Posted 5/13/10
First of all, I'm don't even consider myself old enough to be dating. And I don't really have anything against dating sites. But I think the best way to hook up with someone is when you actually talk to them face to face.
Posted 5/13/10
its hard for ppl who have been brought up a certain way and like women to me r like a shining light thats too bright too look at but something you want to come closer to lol sry for the poetry but its just face to face is really really hard lol its like 20 % luck 50% skill% 30 % concentrated power of will you know ?
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