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What Makes Us Change?
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24 / F / in yur dark heart
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Posted 6/14/10
everything around us from time, to personal experiences, people
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24 / M / fading in the dar...
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Posted 6/17/10
i think only Jesus Christ can make us change
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20 / F / Philippines
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Posted 6/26/10
awareness and acceptance
Posted 6/26/10 , edited 6/26/10
It's yourself. It's your desicon on changing. It doesn't mean that your family, friends, lovers, or God to make a descion for you to change. Something that is someone else is not you. No matter how close you are. I guess it takes a lot of courage to change and to grow and develop to a person YOU want to be.
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27 / M / A rainy paradise...
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Posted 6/26/10
I can only speak from personal experience, the 3 things that makes me grow and change are:

- Internal motivation
- Environment (people mainly)
- Hitting rock bottom

Only these 3 things produce consistency for lasting change.
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Posted 6/26/10
Other people xD
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22 / F / Under your bed
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Posted 7/3/10
Judgments of other people or for some, when they like someone, they try changing just for them. As far as I know...
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M / Europe
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Posted 7/3/10

Russhian wrote:

i think only Jesus Christ can make us change


Really? Where's Jesus influence?
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Posted 7/3/10
For me it's been the following:

>Learning Languages since a very young age
>Recovering from a disease (not too serious but it was hard for me)
>Being in contact with Korean culture.

People also change for other people(especially for lovers) but I try not to do that, I can't say I have never done that though.

Hitting rock bottom is other very good reaso to change.
Posted 7/3/10

EclipseKhaos wrote:



and puberty =P


LMFAO
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Posted 7/3/10
we change base on our happiness

happiness is the triger to change a person's personality cause if a person is not happy on his/her status in life he/she will change for the better>.<


very bad explanation
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24 / M / fading in the dar...
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Posted 7/5/10
what do you mean? the fact that people are living is a testament to his influence things would be a whole lot worse without his influence there would be ore murder more rape more hatred
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31 / M / Closer, U
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Posted 7/5/10
Well, when I was younger (8-12) there was a real me. No peer influences, not mainstream ideas, I was pure. I liked what I liked, and knew what I didn't, as I got older and farther in school my peers didn't understand where I was coming from, so I changed. I am just now breaking out of that shell. I say look within maybe change is on the inside.
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25 / M / Wilmington NC
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Posted 7/5/10
I have read many books on psychology and in the books it lists many things that make people change. I shall list some for everyone.

1) Enviorment
2) Experiences
3) Love
4) Brain Damage
5) Life
6) Death
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M / California
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Posted 7/5/10
Environment seems to be the best answer. It includes experiences relative to us which provokes change. People are in our past present and will be in our future, so we hope. They also play a significant roll in the environment we live in.
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