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If a guy likes a girl, does he stalk her casually?
Posted 6/16/10 , edited 6/16/10
Well, I only had it happen to me once. Probably because they're shy. It wasn't creepy, but annoying.
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Posted 6/16/10
Casually stalking? Stalking is creepy no matter how you put it. Observing would be a more "polite" term.

And yes, guys observe girls when they don't know how to approach the situation.
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Posted 6/17/10
for me i only 'observing' person that i like...but not often like 24/7 to know his daily life...
just do it brilliantly; do not let them know it...
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Posted 6/17/10
I have been stalked a few times, Even though I told them don't call me anymore or text me, I end up with 20 I love ya's and ya.
I have know guys who will call girls a hundred times and just show up at there house and not know that there stalking them,
until you tell them to stop acting like a girl. After tell my friends their acting like little preteen girls they stop their stalking behavior.
Posted 6/17/10
only weaklings stalk
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Posted 6/17/10

mrmasterchi wrote:
I have know guys who will call girls a hundred times and just show up at there house and not know that there stalking them

Dude, your friends are sickos
Posted 6/17/10
This guy liked me from the age of 6 and did not stop obsessing over me until my final year of school, by which time I was 18.

he even came to see me in hospital once. Word must've gotten round and he showed up I was just like "............ ???? "

I didn't get a moment to myself to study, he would always come up to me in the library and sit right there. I couldn't contain my rage one day and ended up shouting at him infront of everyone in the library. -___- I had an exam in 2 hours and needed to cram!!

Yes its cute and whatever, but there's a bloody limit!!
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Posted 6/17/10
Neither I nor my friends "stalk casually" lol ..but I guess it does occur.
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Posted 6/17/10 , edited 6/17/10
I'm more into the Tsundere type. I don't think there will ever be a need for me to stalk someone. If I'm chatting with you at the bar or online, and we hook up, it will most likely be 60% you and 40% me and even after that, if it works out to an LTR it will most likely be every once in a while hooking up. Stalkers usually are TOO into the people they like and want to be around them 24/7!!! Stalkers have severe personality problems most of the time, which really creeps me the f&ck out! Its really hard for me to do the online dating thing because of stalking issues with one woman I met online in the past -.-

My Point:
Casual or otherwise, stalking is a character flaw that will most likely make you single for a very very long time anywhere but in Japanese anime...

PS: If the person you like thinks that you stalk them for any reason, even if you just "googled them" or "facebooked them" or "whatever" once; then its time to find a new person to like. Its bad enough starting a relationship off on the wrong foot but that takes the cake. You'd never get past that one issue and it will be like a constant "stalker check" even if you do. My suggestion is to move on, there are millions of beautiful people with better personalities out there.

Had this happen to me once where I emailed a girl a little past her bedtime (Shes 23 btw -.-) after getting home late at night just because she was the LAST thing on my mind. Come to find out she thought I was TOO into her because she thought I was thinking about her all DAY!? Thats not stalking m'dear thats CONCEITED!!!!! lol
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Posted 6/17/10
Well thinking of someone 40% of the time is still too much. for me it would be 20% of the time. Of course I wouldn't follow them around like a lost puppy, but I will be google eye them when I do get a glimpse of them. And of course I want to see them everyday is normal right ? When I say see I mean talk to or a glimpse..

Now the thing with face book and google someone is normal. I mean serious you have to do your research these days I mean what if he/she is married or psycho path?

Now if you are following people around and peeping in their window then thats a stalker
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Posted 6/17/10
Well i used to take a quick peak everytime she looked away, dunno if thats considered stalking tough :D.
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Posted 6/17/10
hm possibly. i watch this guy i think looks kinda cool when i see him.
i think he's on to me though
Posted 6/17/10
@ CABarrett just had to say...linebarrels of iron ftw.....

and stalking is pointless and annoying....if u realli like the girl...consider her feelings and realise ur creeping them out
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Posted 6/19/10
idk..
it's scary... I cant even handle guy's flirting w/ me...how much more the stalkers
though, i online-stalk my celebrity crushes...
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Posted 6/19/10
its very annoying for them..maybe?
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