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Does the age really matter?
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Posted 6/19/10
I don't think it matters
I'm 16 and my boyfriend turns 21 pon June 24
He's five years older than me
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Posted 6/19/10
I think it only matters to an extent. Me? Im talking to this guy, and he's 28 turning 29 this year. And I'm 20, turning 21 this year. I didn't even think about it twice about his age. Cause you know, if you really like someone and want to be with someone, that sort of thing shouldn't matter, and if it did, then you obviously do not like them enough to look past through their age.
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Posted 6/19/10
im going to agree with all the people who said the older you get the less it matters, sorry if i offend you kids (im really actually not i could care less if you're offended) but at 15 or 16 you have no real idea what love is younger than that and it's just kinda wrong but when you actually get older and meet some one who you realize, "you know i could wake up beside this person every day for the rest of my life" at that point age doesn't matter but kids you're not there yet
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Posted 6/19/10
It depends on the actually ages...if you are 18 and she is ten...well then yes I would say it matters. If you are 32 she is 40, then no. But even with 30 and 22 I would be careful.
Posted 6/19/10
Depends on age of couple but such a big differnce causes problems. max i think should be is between 4-6 years presuming gir is 21 and same for guy as both prob ifnshed uni and similar goals
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Posted 6/20/10
nope, if you really like someone, you wouldnt care about the age
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Posted 6/21/10
Age does matter. Even if there is only a five years difference between a 19 year-old and 14 year-old, that 14 year-old is not only underaged, but is completely naive to the 19 year-old's intentions, which is most likely aimed at taking advantage of the younger partner.
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Posted 6/21/10
It doesn't matter to you at the moment, but it will have its effect.

Say I'm in love and marry a girl 8 years older than me. Her age will begin to show when I am still young and fresh. Will I be able to love her then?
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Posted 6/21/10
hell yeah it matters what a dumb question
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Posted 6/21/10 , edited 6/21/10
In some cases, yes, but in other cases of course it doesn't!! But if the difference is like, 17 or 20 years then yes, yes it does.
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Posted 6/21/10
My boyfriend is seven years older than me. However, we're both on age so I think is Ok. Besides, I don't think we have a generational gap, I mean, we do have things to talk about. We have fun together and...we love each other! ;)

The problem is when one of you is underage, or when you feel a little too old/young around that person hahaha. I mean, I wouldn't date someone who makes me feel as if I were a kid...Generational Gap between couples make them feel awkward.
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Posted 6/21/10 , edited 6/21/10
It depends... I can easily date person who's about 10 years older than me, but I wont do that with person who's younger than me. Even 2 years is too much for me. When I was 19, I had a relationship with guy who was 33.^^ I like older guys.. dunno why.
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Posted 6/21/10
Well 8 years isnt that big of a difference.

As many have said before this, if you're truely in love with someone and they love you back, I dont think it matters.
Nothing at all, for that matter, should come between you two if you're serious.
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Posted 6/21/10 , edited 6/21/10
age is just a number
how someone acts/looks is what is attractive to them
maturity (as in mindset) usually gained over time
a person's views/goals change over time
time passing= aging

therefore as long as the two people are at the same level mental maturity

age does not matter
but there is a correlation

in cases like a 12 year old dating a 20 year old
the main problem is how people will see the couple

then there are those LG Hunters
who will find a girl that they can legally f**k
in those cases to the LG Hunter age does not matter
just the body/expierence

figured i might as well edit this in:
there are also gold diggers/sugar daddies
to them age is no matter
just the MONEY in the bank



coming from a person who dated girls up to 3 years younger and 10 years older
Posted 6/21/10
In Korea...age doesn't matter. The plastic surgeries work wonders. Not even God will know how old you REALLY are.
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