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Who is a virgin and proud of it?
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The thing I've found about pre-marital sex that nobody told me about is that sombody usually gets hurt when things go wrong. Hurt more than if no sex was involved. I think all the younger people who are saving themselves for marrige are doing a noble thing. I don't believe there is such a thing as truly casual sex. Feelings always seem to get mixed up in the act.
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I couldn't agree more, it will be worth the wait to lose it with your wife.
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I saved myself until I thought I found the right person. I waited the longest time. I do not regret it one bit. I was 18 when I finally made the decision. I really really advise to others to wait until they are out of highschool and in a real relationship. Let yourself get to know the other person awhile, have a friendship built up not just growing lust in between you. Learn the difference between lust, like and love. Better yet, get to know yourself before you make that decision. Know who you are and what you want, where your going, what you like and dislike in someone else, who you are in a relationship and out of a relationship because once you cross that line you cannot go back. Sex is designed to be fun and healthy, its a way to emotionally and physically connect with your partner. Nothing taboo about it but I find it's an experience that affects the heart and can be really damaging if you don't have the right person. Either way, it's up to you. When you decide it's the right time for you make sure its a decision not made out of pressure of someone else, use a condom, and ask yourself are you going to regret this in the morning? If you have guilt, probably not the best decision and maybe you should hold off on the next time until your truely ready (it's nothing to be ashamed of if your uncomfortable with having sex and do not feel ready). Sex is not everything in a relationship and if your partner seems to only be interested in sexual stuff, maybe they aren't the right person for you. As well, sex does not mean love. If your making your decision based on that your partner says they love you and wants sex because you "love each other" that's what you would call a red flag, a warning sign that this may be going down a unhappy path. My last thought, there is no such thing as casual sex (don't be fooled--feelings will always end up hurt in that situation) and why would you want there to be. Sex is so much more enjoyable when you have someone you care for and treasure so dearly. Be smart and be 100% on your decision and don't be afraid to tell your partner what you like and dislike, do not fake any experience. Sex is best when there is honest communication. Sorry for the long post, I just sincerely wanted to express what I've learned so far in my life in hopes it will help someone make a better decision down the road.
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21 / M / Michigan
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Yes! I still got my purity band on my finger! Rough battle but well worth the wait!
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23 / F / Sexual Chocolate
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Do technical virgins count? Because according to this one dude I used to know girl on girl doesn't count.

I ask because virgin women are supposedly the only ones capable of taming unicorns and i'd really like to own a unicorn.
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25 / M / Michigan
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sex is where its at idk how anyone can pass that up lol
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I waited for my wife.... my wife didn't wait for me. Given the voracious appetite that I had/have for it I was surprised I did wait. I think I utilized some justification that I couldn't see myself and my life's situation to be good in the long run for any relationship so I abstained from a lot when others partook.

I can tell you this far that I would have liked to have done more looking back now having kids and not getting to explore my appetite and nothing is on the menu unless you force yourself to on both accounts. I received no golden reward for waiting so from a make it special stance it is all idealism and in your head. What I can tell you is that I can wonder what the other person(s) where like that my counterpart had. You can justify anything anyway you want in life.

We live in a Godless world even within the faithful. Everyone is an alternate shade of gray. You must just make educated decisions with well weighed out outcomes as you will do the rest of your life in all things. Don't take the byproducts of your decisions lightly the moment you start to make a decision like participating in a sexual relationship you have truly stepped into the treacherous world of adulthood with no full appreciation of what that means until well after the fact no matter what you think.
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Posted 12/9/12
No one is proud to be a virgin. We're all horny mofos and we'd all like to feel like an adult.
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Im a virgin and IM DAMN PROUD LOL
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Virgin?

Yes.

Proud?

...Uh...Yes?

Why?

It's a testimony to how I am the best man repellent to be born.


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Posted 12/9/12

SatinChic wrote:

Virgin?

Yes.

Proud?

...Uh...Yes?

Why?

It's a testimony to how I am the best man repellent to be born.




What makes you think that? I find your personality and looks to be attractive.

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Posted 12/9/12
Im not but what are you guys seriously hoping to gain by staying virigns? Also, not to be offensive but is it a personal choice or just something you had to accept due to you not being able to get any o__o?
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Obviously not a virgin by my age.

If you're a girl and you still are then GJ. No need to rush anything.

As for the guys, it's way overblown. And I hate to say it, society tend to judge you if you are, especially if you're male.
But honestly from experience it's way overblown. Just do what you feel is right and ignore the rest.

I didn't feel any differently before losing vs after. It's whatever to me.
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Posted 12/9/12

cynic09 wrote:

Obviously not a virgin by my age.

If you're a girl and you still are then GJ. No need to rush anything.

As for the guys, it's way overblown. And I hate to say it, society tend to judge you if you are, especially if you're male.
But honestly from experience it's way overblown. Just do what you feel is right and ignore the rest.

I didn't feel any differently before losing vs after. It's whatever to me.


I agree.

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