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Why do girls love to have Boy "Friends"?
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cus they dont gossip as much as girls do?
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I seem to be a sucker when it comes to women with problems ... typically guy problems

They just gravitate towards me (or vice versa) and I just can't walk away.

Problem is I know when i do it I'm cutting my own throat when it comes to dating and I cant help but continue to do it ... girls are interested in masculine guys, and listening to girl problems isn't that masculine.

So I "Oh, its nice to talk to a nice sensitive guy who can answer honestly and keep secrets, but that dude on the motorcycle looks really hot although hes a complete douche"

Im tired of secrets ... my brain is packed full of secrets that i have kept for years ...

I've even had a girl who was a complete stranger approach me once when I was walking back from classes, asking if I thought her boyfriend might be gay. (I guess she could have been hitting on me in some weird way ... womanly input would be welcome ... its a lengthy story though)

lengthy somewhat relevant story that pretty much sums up my luck with women:



TL;DR: Girls see nice guys as "girls with penises" and douche bag guys as "unbridled masculinity that needs to be mounted". So my advise to guys is every time a girl wants to talk to you, turn her down semi rudely and go do something stereotypically masculine.

(girls don't deny it ... I've brushed off women before using this theory and it sadly works like a charm :blink:. I done this on two separate occasions, once was an accident, and the second was an intentional experment and shined an unexpected light on the first.

I basically targeted an "attention seeker" type of girl who was popular with the guys and passively not acknowledge her as a really hot chick ... or even as a regular person. Eventually she started to hang around me more and would even tag along with me when i went to eat in the cafeteria. I didn't really have any intent of wanting to date her or anything, although its not like i could ... im not sure how a relationship could evolve out of a somewhat sadistic and masochistic relationship like that.)
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Females are fragile creatures, they need comfort and security.
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Boys can keep secrets. =)
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Posted 3/15/11
I have a lot of friends like that too. But we don't have as much guy friends, so we just turn to each other. Honestly I've discovered my friends feelings and I get worried because of it. My friends have had a boyfriend before and that is the start of their problem, I'm not saying they should not have had boyfriends it's just the feeling of being comforted by someone (especially the opposite gender) is really a great feeling. So if a break up is about to occur my friends supposedly go looking for comfort, in your case another guy, or a friend. But once a girl gets a boyfriend you know they'll probably always want a boyfriend. I'm not sure if this is what your asking but I thought it was something from experience.
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Hmm. They're fun to be with. I don't know why but I sometimes feel comfortable when I'm with them.
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Posted 4/2/11
we are good at keeping secrets i guess and i have alot of friends who are girls
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Posted 4/2/11
I actually find girls kind of annoying, so I just prefer guy friends in general.
Posted 5/9/11 , edited 5/9/11
I have guy friends because they're cool to hang out with and I can talk manly with them if I must. Noevertheless, I somewhat can relate Kuhle. Kind of vice versa to be honest; I don't tell my guy friends things, they tell me things.

Edit: I meant, "nevertheless". Dang, I hate typos! Okay...
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Posted 5/9/11
They're a lot funnier. D: And they're a lot easier to make fun of.
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I prefer female friends vs. male friends. In the end my male friends would always try to compete with me or try to establish who the "alpha" was, and I think that's freakin' tiring and retarded.

With the girls I never had that problem. Aside from the internet I was only friends with girls who actually treat you like a friend. That only talking to you for male comfort after they get dumped crap wouldn't fly with me, if it turns out that's the only time I get a call to hang out we will no longer be friends.
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Posted 5/9/11

-ohhhgawwd wrote:

cus they dont gossip as much as girls do?


TRUE <3
haha.
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hahaha.
that's kind of one point...
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Posted 5/9/11
Diversity is a good thing.
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Posted 5/11/11 , edited 5/11/11

kamimusume wrote:


-ohhhgawwd wrote:

cus they dont gossip as much as girls do?


TRUE <3
haha.


yess very much

guys are less dramatic.
girls are b*tches most of the time (including myself)
i would like to have a guy friend whom i can trust
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