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pikansjos wrote:
Here's a question i got, why do girls still flirt with their guy friends? I mean, you give us sooooo much info about yourselves to us, feel better when we give you attention and make you feel better, and then are like "Okay, done with you, i'm gonna go and try to hook up with the guy whose gonna treat me like crap, see ya."
i know exactly what you mean, and then after it ends they come back and say something like " why can´t i find a guy more like you?"
I have had more then my share of this. its not worth it to say "im right here". I dont understand why they keep coming back to me in tears and never realise they have someone to care for them whenever and whatever. I am one of the few who is fine with just being the "comforter" but I do hate to see my friends in such pain.
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hmm.. i guess there's sides to a person where only my guy friends can understand, like my obsession with anything japanese or video games or something like that...my girl friends really back out on me when it comes to subjects like that and i have to rely on my guy friends to keep me interested..its really fun  |
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to have someone to talk with, other than her same sex friends
its nice to have boy"friends" as a friend
well, i know bcuz i have a friend who happens to be a girl, and she shares some of her heartaches and etc.
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pikansjos wrote:
Here's a question i got, why do girls still flirt with their guy friends? I mean, you give us sooooo much info about yourselves to us, feel better when we give you attention and make you feel better, and then are like "Okay, done with you, i'm gonna go and try to hook up with the guy whose gonna treat me like crap, see ya."
i know exactly what you mean, and then after it ends they come back and say something like " why can´t i find a guy more like you?"
To girls, attention is like air. The only times they're thinking about getting it is when they're not getting any. Flirting is a great way to get it from guy friends.
I consider "Why can't I find a guy more like you?" to be the opposite to a compliment. It's sort of like a wake up call.
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If I remember correctly pikansjos said in another thread that he's the go to guy for the girls to vent their frustrations on. What I took is they'll talk to him about "things" then go back to their boyfriends. What I was reading from the other post and please correct me if I'm wrong, but is it that you want them to look to you for more than friendship? I can understand if they go to you and tell you everything, but you're not a therapist and end up in a situation where you're their "friend" and nothing more. That is frustrating in itself, and what can you really do about it?
If they break out with why can't I find a guy like you? That one's easy, grab their hand and say gently "here I am"
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well i'm a girl u know and I find it more easier n much more fun to talk to guys but I liked to talk to girls too so i guess gender doesn't matter
in applied to friends~
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It might involve personality. Some of my friends that are girls hang out with me to play video games and watch anime, while others only look for me when they have emotional problems... It might have something to do with what you talk about most the first few times you meet
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Guys don't care.
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LosingOrbit wrote:
Because girls have big mouths and like to gossip a lot. I guess guys are easier to talk to.
heh.. actually, guys gossip a lot. we just don't like to call it gossip coz' gossip's girly. either way it's practically the same as girl gossip but with beer/mt. dew + videogames, cards, or other forms of entertainment.. :)
so my advice to you is: don't spill everything.. just coz' he doesn't talk much around you, doesn't mean he doesn't talk much around his posse
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I as a girl feel I can trust a guy more than a girl... I feel less judge, and I feel like He would just take things as they are and be sincere at me.
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I just get along better with guys.
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Lol at those who thinks boys dun gossip xD
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I like talking to guys cause they always listen to you LOL. Well at least they pretend like they do. <_<"
I think girl and guy friends should be treated equally lol.. they're both friends.
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If I remember correctly pikansjos said in another thread that he's the go to guy for the girls to vent their frustrations on. What I took is they'll talk to him about "things" then go back to their boyfriends. What I was reading from the other post and please correct me if I'm wrong, but is it that you want them to look to you for more than friendship? I can understand if they go to you and tell you everything, but you're not a therapist and end up in a situation where you're their "friend" and nothing more. That is frustrating in itself, and what can you really do about it?
If they break out with why can't I find a guy like you? That one's easy, grab their hand and say gently "here I am"
well i have had that situation with one of the girls, where i would like to be more for them than just a friend, i asked her out a few days later and she turned me down.
so its nothing regular i just dont get why they keep going back to their "boyfriends" if they constantly need to talk with someone else about their problems, or the problems they have in their relationships.
but as far as i can see from the replies in the forum, it seems we are just less possible to gossip about it, or easier to talk to on certain subjects.
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I also notice some of my friends (male) will act like they care about her feelings more then they really do just so they can have a shot at being with her. It makes me a little upset my friends would do that. Perhaps my friends (girls) dont notice or dont care? They seem to go to the same guys (myself included) for everything
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