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The Best Way to Confess
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Either you confess straight out. This might work if:

a) You know what to do afterwards
b) You don't know what to do afterwards, but he/she does
or c) He/she is already interested in you

OR, you ask him/her out to do something. You should, preferrably, be properly introduced at the very least when you do this. This is probably the safest bet, since not everyone know how to respond to confessions. Take him/her to a movie, dinner at your place/resturaunt, some local festivity etc. When you spend time together you will probably notice if your date is interested in you, and you might want to try a kiss at the end of the date.

Method number two opens up for the possibility of a sexual relationship even if the crush is not mutual. Good luck mate!
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Posted 8/4/10 , edited 8/4/10
an indirect way to confess for shy people
I would do that if I see someone I'm interest in ( i haven't found anyone to ask those question yet)
***if the girl didn't answer my question the way i want or similar, I'll stop the conversation by saying : sorry to disturb you
B: do you have a boyfriend?<-----------stage 1
G: I don't
B:do I have a chance?<--------------stage 2
G: hmmmm
B: not even 0.001%?<-----------------stage 3
G: well maybe 1 %
B: do you mind if I add more %? while keeping a friend relationship with you? <----------------stage 4
G:ok...
B: but I have to inform you, I am interested in you. <---------the real confession is right here

not pushy at all?right? what do you think ?
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Okay Kids, if your gonna confess to a girl only do it when your in your teens younger girls don't know any better so you can get away with alot of stuff you normally wouldn't.

When your in your twenty's DO NOT "CONFESS" you have to move on to a grown man's game. I suggest you reading a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss (yes i know book is lame and old ya da ya da ya da) but you have to understand girls are smarter then guys when it comes to relationship so you gotta know how to play your cards.

But for guys best time to confess is when a girl is tired, usually late at night over the phone or in person. The reason why you want to confess late when they are tired is because it's easier to catch them off guard hence they will think less about it and the chances of success is that much higher also there is a really good chance if you do it in person that you may end up in bed with them.

Good luck boys!
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Give the girl a fish.
Posted 8/4/10
For me becoming friends with a guy and determining whether he is a guy I would want to date or not and when I find this out I ask bluntly if he want's to go out with me. Well this worked for me. And now I'm married with the guy I wanted to date after I became friends with him.
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its all about the moment
and timing

lock ur eyes.
show emotions in em.
and beautify ur voice.
and just say,
" ..."Name", i fell in love with u.."
Posted 8/4/10 , edited 8/4/10
I have recently discovered that the best thing is to just say it like, "Look, I really like you and every time I think of you my heart skips a beat and I was wondering if maybe you wanted to go see a movie or something unless you're already taken..." People (especially girls) tend to find it cute when the person is going on and on. It makes them seem nervous and tells them how much you really like them

Record time for confessing: 15 min.
How?: I stayed confident, wore a smile and flirted from the start, then said jokingly," You know, I kinda like you." the entire time the look in my eyes said I love you although my true emotions were not as strong. She gave me her number and we were dating within the hour
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confess lool its like admitting to a crime
i like to call it "telling them you like them"
erm the last person i told i liked them was just straight up, i dont like beating around the bushes =]
"i like you, ya know =]" and they was like "oh =] " and yadda yadda yadda we are still going out
its not that hard!
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TsanGwanWai wrote:

Give the girl a fish.


ahahahaha ill try that one
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animemusiklover wrote:

i just imagined this when i read the first post xD


person a: "I like you" :D
person b: :0
person a: D:
person b: lol



Epic FAIL, epic.......=P
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i also think letting it out is best because even if you think you're sure they are the right one or not you just gotta say it
from this there are only 2 choice for the other party to respond and its either yes or no
the answer pretty much depends on your actions and words before you confessed.
Posted 8/6/10

kairiUkofu wrote:

When I was younger a boy once sayed he liked me in a cute way^^ I droped a pen he picked it up and put a note on the clip and gave it back. It said i really like me, want to go out. I still have the note too. Kinda a weird way for a 17 year old to ask me out haha.


Oh my, that's the cutest thing ever
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Posted 8/6/10 , edited 8/6/10
confess while going down on a roller coaster with him/her
they would be so hyped up to even worry

sry just a random thought ...
Posted 8/6/10 , edited 8/10/10
with a blindfold

Posted 8/6/10
Just tell them face to face.
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