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Sleeping with random people
Posted 7/10/10
STD and morals aside, there's no guarantee this stranger is competent enough to get you off.
Posted 7/11/10
Yeah.....not a good Idea.....-_-
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Posted 7/11/10
I wish i could like all my other friends but i just can't seem to do it. Maybe if i was really drunk i don't think i would have much of a problem.
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Posted 7/11/10
not worth it
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Posted 7/11/10
I know somebody that lost their virginity to a random person at a party, she definitely wasn't a whore but was simply lonely. I doubt she's the only person who has ever done that.
I've slept next to random people (girls and guys), but nothing happened. It happens sometimes when you're trying to find roomies to split the bill at cons, or at parties where people are not fit to drive home. Even while drunk I still respect myself too much to take it further. But I say do what you want as long as its safe, I won't judge but just know what you're doing and USE condoms.
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Posted 7/11/10 , edited 7/11/10

chocuqueen wrote:

Sleeping with them should be okay...but like doing IT with them, not a good idea.


I'm pretty sure the thread starter meant the latter.


But yeah, those people who freak out about STDs and what not; it's fairly difficult to catch a STD unless you're stupid. Use protection and if the girl has a coldsore on her lip, don't even touch her.

I slept around my fair share, and after multiple STD screenings, I've always been clean. Intelligence beats paranoia (plus targeting innocent girls).
Posted 7/11/10
been there done that its all good its a personal choice so dont knock it till ya try it is all i gota say
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Posted 7/11/10
I think it's fine, as long as you're out of high school. Just be safe.
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Posted 7/11/10

thefinalword wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Bleh. Everyone here's so negative with their "pregnancy" and "STDs" and "people who do it are whores." Loosen up, enjoy life a little more. There's a such thing as protection you know, and despite all the horror stories and other bullshit you read online, condoms are pretty damn effective. Don't judge others just cause you're missing out.


Missing out?

Why because you randomly hook up with people.... that kind of behavior makes you a hoe.. man or woman.
And if you're proud to be that.. then well that's on you.

That mentality is just retarded... stupid behavior will just end badly.


And this is what I call an example of the stupidity of the morals that society preaches.

There's nothing "dirty" about sex. It's natural, healthy, and feels pretty fucking good. "Hoe" is such a dirty word. There's nothing wrong with having sex, and it doesn't matter who with as long as it's legal and consensual. Just be safe. The positives to sex so outweigh the negatives, especially since the negatives can easily be prevented by using a condom. That leaves the only negative being "people judging you" which is bullshit because they're all brainwashed to think it's immoral as well.
Posted 7/11/10 , edited 7/11/10

touchzanaflexpens wrote:


thefinalword wrote:


touchzanaflexpens wrote:

Bleh. Everyone here's so negative with their "pregnancy" and "STDs" and "people who do it are whores." Loosen up, enjoy life a little more. There's a such thing as protection you know, and despite all the horror stories and other bullshit you read online, condoms are pretty damn effective. Don't judge others just cause you're missing out.


Missing out?

Why because you randomly hook up with people.... that kind of behavior makes you a hoe.. man or woman.
And if you're proud to be that.. then well that's on you.

That mentality is just retarded... stupid behavior will just end badly.


And this is what I call an example of the stupidity of the morals that society preaches.

There's nothing "dirty" about sex. It's natural, healthy, and feels pretty fucking good. "Hoe" is such a dirty word. There's nothing wrong with having sex, and it doesn't matter who with as long as it's legal and consensual. Just be safe. The positives to sex so outweigh the negatives, especially since the negatives can easily be prevented by using a condom. That leaves the only negative being "people judging you" which is bullshit because they're all brainwashed to think it's immoral as well.


I never said there's anything wrong with SEX itself. As for Morality... I dont care about what society says..
SEX is fun.
It should be enjoyed BUT it should also be done within your control.

You say " Just be safe. "

But bottomline is.. if you're sleeping around with RANDOM people you dont know.. you run the risks of things happening to you that are out of your control. THAT is not being safe.

And do your homework.. STD's can still be transmitted even if SEX isn't involved.

Also

There are other things besides STD's..... the stupidest decision you can make is becoming too trusting of a stranger you hardly know.
It's that kind of thinking that might land in you dead in the gutter after your "fling"

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Posted 7/11/10 , edited 7/11/10
as long as there's protection, why not? we're young and free. have fun
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Posted 7/11/10
i really have no problems with this given that it feels right with said person at said time..
so if you're sure you'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror the day after without any feelings of regrets/disgust/whatever...
then it's all fine by me... good tip is to never make such descicions while intoxicated though XD
also under the condition that it's safe sex we're talking about of course ^^
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Posted 7/11/10
Ew. Maybe if they aren't so "random."
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Posted 7/11/10
...I feel I have to say this in all caps so excuse me for a moment:

CONDOMS DO NOT PROVIDE COMPLETE PROTECTION

I don't really care if people sleep around or whatever, I just think they should know the risk associated with it. Condoms do not protect from all forms of STDs and for the other STDs it often only decreases the chance, not eliminate it. Also, the whole "she doesn't have a cold sore" thing is bullshit, often people are asymptomatic(meaning they show no signs of having the disease) but they can still pass it on.
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Posted 7/11/10

iiAtetheCakez wrote:

Why not?

I've done that many time.
Just use a condom.


what kind??
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