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Bullying in my old school..
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Posted 7/16/10

Harubi wrote:


Eternal_Devotion wrote:

One thing you might notice about bullies is that they can't do shit alone, they always have to be in groups or else they don't have the courage to do anything, so that makes them pathetic cowards.


Thats why the one getting bullied needs to get the guy alone, away from the group...

What worked for me was when i used to get bullied in grade school, i eventually walked straight for the kid who had a whole group around him, grabbed him by his collar and started whailing on him... Nobody around him did anything.
They just watch.


Good job. Take out the leader and the rest will back off. Unless they're grade 12s in which case you let them talk their shit and crap and let them walk away. It happened to me once and it was sad. One guy(me) was surrounded by like 20 people. Like 10 grade 9s, 5 grade 10s, and a couple grade 11 and 12s.
Posted 7/16/10
The first and last time I was bullied was when a girl approached me outside of school grabbed my neck and shoved me against the wall and asked me to go into a shop to buy cigarettes for her and her gang. I was like "Well maybe if you asked me nicely" and she tightened her grip. I grabbed her wrist, twisted it so much that she screamed and then I flipped her over so she was in a daze on the ground. I got some money out of my pocket and dropped it on her as she laid there and walked away. Her friends did NOTHING which goes to prove that they are just there for decoration

You never ever back down!! Nobody has the right to treat you like that and you should fight back there and then and screw the consequences.

Don't hesitate to help someone else either who is getting bullied.


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Posted 7/16/10 , edited 7/16/10

zombehs wrote:


Harubi wrote:


Eternal_Devotion wrote:

One thing you might notice about bullies is that they can't do shit alone, they always have to be in groups or else they don't have the courage to do anything, so that makes them pathetic cowards.


Thats why the one getting bullied needs to get the guy alone, away from the group...

What worked for me was when i used to get bullied in grade school, i eventually walked straight for the kid who had a whole group around him, grabbed him by his collar and started whailing on him... Nobody around him did anything.
They just watch.


Good job. Take out the leader and the rest will back off. Unless they're grade 12s in which case you let them talk their shit and crap and let them walk away. It happened to me once and it was sad. One guy(me) was surrounded by like 20 people. Like 10 grade 9s, 5 grade 10s, and a couple grade 11 and 12s.



Yeah... i dunno... i have my pride... nobody wants to get beat up.. but i'd probably be stupid enough to actually talk back when they would start talking shit to me.. in which case i would probably get beat up.. But i would definitely not just stand there and let them talk crap about me.
In the end, afterwards you'd feel better, knowing that you stood up for yourself...Ofcourse at the cost of a black eye or two and some bruised bones..

It usually depends who you're dealing with really.. i always laugh when i look at that gangster kid getting in a fight with a geek guy who's doing ninja moves... Most guys carry alot of talk but they don't back it up. Nobody wants to get hurt, after all.



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The first and last time I was bullied was when a girl approached me outside of school grabbed my neck and shoved me against the wall and asked me to go into a shop to buy cigarettes for her and her gang. I was like "Well maybe if you asked me nicely" and she tightened her grip. I grabbed her wrist, twisted it so much that she screamed and then I flipped her over so she was in a daze on the ground. I got some money out of my pocket and dropped it on her as she laid there and walked away. Her friends did NOTHING which goes to prove that they are just there for decoration

You never ever back down!! Nobody has the right to treat you like that and you should fight back there and then and screw the consequences.

Don't hesitate to help someone else either who is getting bullied.




Well said, you did the right thing and i agree.. never hesitate to jump in and help someone out...
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Posted 7/16/10

Harubi wrote:




Chained_Angel wrote:

The first and last time I was bullied was when a girl approached me outside of school grabbed my neck and shoved me against the wall and asked me to go into a shop to buy cigarettes for her and her gang. I was like "Well maybe if you asked me nicely" and she tightened her grip. I grabbed her wrist, twisted it so much that she screamed and then I flipped her over so she was in a daze on the ground. I got some money out of my pocket and dropped it on her as she laid there and walked away. Her friends did NOTHING which goes to prove that they are just there for decoration

You never ever back down!! Nobody has the right to treat you like that and you should fight back there and then and screw the consequences.

Don't hesitate to help someone else either who is getting bullied.




Well said, you did the right thing and i agree.. never hesitate to jump in and help someone out...


Question why'd you drop money on her.....
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Bullies are just cowards who always feel that they're alone.

I don't know whether I was necessarily bullied but do guys who try to pretend they know you by saying some lies mean it? Happens in school with me, though because I guess it makes them look cooler.

Who cares? They're just insecure little bitches and bastards. Just stand up against them. Yeah its not easy but it will be the best decision you have ever made when it comes to bullying. x
Posted 7/16/10
WAYYYYYYYY back in the eighties, when i was in elementary school in the Detroit area , I didnt get bullied . I got daily beatings from large groups of my peers. They would search me out , slam my head against the sidewalk , pummel me while i was on the ground and laugh about it . There was no name calling , no insults, just beatings .

I never understood why they did it either .

Eventually , i found that the beatings didn't hurt so much ( well there was that time they slammed one of those heavy concrete swing seats into my head ) . In fact, I foind out that i could not only take it , but I could dish it out as well . Never forget the site of 10 other children running away bleeding from the guy they had decided to beat on.
Posted 7/16/10

Chained_Angel wrote:

The first and last time I was bullied was when a girl approached me outside of school grabbed my neck and shoved me against the wall and asked me to go into a shop to buy cigarettes for her and her gang. I was like "Well maybe if you asked me nicely" and she tightened her grip. I grabbed her wrist, twisted it so much that she screamed and then I flipped her over so she was in a daze on the ground. I got some money out of my pocket and dropped it on her as she laid there and walked away. Her friends did NOTHING which goes to prove that they are just there for decoration

You never ever back down!! Nobody has the right to treat you like that and you should fight back there and then and screw the consequences.

Don't hesitate to help someone else either who is getting bullied.




Ohhhhhoooo NICE I'd kill to see that!! Good girl especially the dropping money part its like saying "I feel sorry for you" to them but actions speak louder than words.
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I'm probably am~it's either bullying or get made fun of...either way it's somewhat the same. Well, I'm glad I don't have to see that guy(s) again until another month. At first it was verbally, then somewhat physically. That person makes fun of my physical appearance sometimes. I'm kind of shy to do something. At least I hit him like...twice I think. It bothers me alot that sometimes I have very violent thoughts. Also, I ended up crying because of him twice...during school. I know you'd say ignore them, but no matter how hard I try to ignore them, they start stealing my stuff that's on my desk.
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Bullying really is wrong but fortunatly i havent gone through it
i think that bullying happens because the target is easy
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Posted 7/16/10
It's stuff like this that causes incidents where a student shows up to school with a gun and kills everybody.

It sucks that the teachers aren't doing anything about it. I think that the students need take things into their own hands in cases like this. Bullies are usually quite weak...which was a surprise to me.

I remember in grade 7, I was put against one of the bullies in a wrestling match for P.E. I wrecked him...with ease and he was a lot bigger than me. I was never bullied, but it felt good to show everyone else how weak he was and that no one needed to be afraid.

Or this other time where one of my friends got fed up with this one guy that picked on him. The bully was in gr 12 and he was in grade 10, the fight was completely one sided. The bully was grounded in an instant and pounded until he begged for mercy, we let it go on for a little longer until we pulled him away.

Another one of my friends pulled a similar fight. None of us were big...we were quite small, but it just goes to show that you should never underestimate your own power to stand up for yourself.
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teachers are difficult
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When I was in the ninth grade (last year....well like 2 months ago) I had this one class where we did whatever we wanted. There were these two kids who were always fighting with each other. One day we were watching a movie and one of the guys just snapped cus the other guy kept bothering him so he smacked him in the head with his big ass binder's edge. The kid ended up with a bruise (and he cried btw) and the one who did the act got suspended. When he came back the teacher put them on the complete other side of the room from each other. After the incident people were like shit this dude is crazy and all that crap.
Now these two kids were always bothered in that class verbally cus they are VERY nerdy/geeky. And the teacher would just fucking stand there listening to the bullying and smile or laugh at the abuse!! It's kinda scary thinking about what will happen if this kid continues getting bullied. After the incident I would tell people to stop bothering them cus what if something happens you know? *cough*school shooting *cough* You already know that if driven to it this kid will snap!
Really I blame the teacher for encouraging this kind of behavior. She plays around too much when her job is not to be our friend but to teach us. She made it seem okay to get physical with others because she would play around with the students and sometimes hit them! YESS HIT THEM!! Sure it was playfully but thats still too much. Nobody says anything cus they think she is "a cool teacher" ,though.
I used to try and talk to this kid and he would look at me with a serious face and not say anything. CHECK! Another "Has A Problem" sign. He really looks like the kind to do something crazy.. its unsettling.
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One time something like that happened to me, I was in grade 5. And some guys I fought with and bloodied up got together and ambushed me in the washroom at school, while I was on the toilet, they grabbed me with my pants down and smashed my head repeated against the toilet bowl.

When I got my stitches in, cracked ribs wrapped, and my mom called the principal; he said: "Boys will be boys."
Now that is BS, it is not BWBB, not that I was an innocent person, but it's abuse if someone is beaten, or even if they're harrassed, teased, pushed around, and insulted. It is not the proper use of words, or hands, and you'd THINK someone who dedicated their 50yr old lives to students would know that.

But I won't tell you that no one will help. Because that's a lie, there are even good teachers, as well as crappy ones. People do care, and sometimes, just sometimes those people who care actually have enough balls to get over to your side and bring you back up.

In the end, all lives have a value to me, so I think it's just as wrong to stand by and let someone get abused or bullied as it would be to just walk past a car accident when you know first aid, ignore someone being assaulted on a subway, or to let a newborn babe die in a house fire.
It's just as wrong to see any injustice and do nothing as it is to have been the one to commit it.

That's my core belief.
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Posted 7/17/10
i was bullied before. not physically, but verbally....he's a good friend but a bad enemy..
i got used to it..didnt take it by heart..
anyway he's a funny person..i laugh when he says jokes, though i know he's angry..lol
we became friends after 7 months
he prolly noticed he cant pull me down.
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at my school, no ones a bully, but our principal is.
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