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What do you think of shy and quiet people?
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I say, im a bit mature for my age, and i cant relate that much with teenage stuffs. I prefer being alone: playing guitar, reading, drawing,computer, thinking, writing and etc. I have so many interests!!! At first, i thought being introverted is bad, but i realized that i have to stay this way to keep up with my interests and nurture my creativity.
Besides, i get bored, most of the time, when with people...but I get high when i do my interests.
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you'll learn that they have a lot of good qualities in them if you try to understand them better..
most quiet shy people in class just like to be hardworking at school so they tend to avoid social situations or going to parties etccc
and maybe it's of their hobbies, like Drawing you do it alone.

n if they are not talking, it doesn't mean they are not nice and sweet. we are just very focus on everything we do.
if you are their friend they are very loyal and will help you
(yea i'm talking about myself lol)
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I dont really act any different to people who are quiet.
I just usaully talk to them like I would to any other person and try to find their intrests so i can talk to them about it(;
Honestly i think that quiet poeple are pushed aside and ignored, so i try to befriend them so they dont feel lonely(; I guess thats treating them differently but I think it would be lonely to have no one as your friend in life...
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I am shy and quiet. But I am pretty dumb :3. I believe most quiet people are the coolest people.
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I'm not the most outgoing type of person around strangers, but i am when im with my friends. I'm not really shy, just that I dont like talking to people I dont know. I'm not a fan of small talk, but i do understand that its necessary to start a friendship. In my forensic science class I dont talk at all except when there's a group work then Im really cooperative, but people there are just so damn loud so i stay quiet. The whole class thinks I'm either really smart or a snob... it's amusing, really.
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Too much questions....
No, they are not depressing, nor weird, etc... I think they are cute, and makes me want to tease them >< I act towards them normally, I don't see much difference.
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What do you think of shy and quiet people? - I'm intrigued by them... I usually try to figure out who they are hiding inside all that silence ;-)
How do act act toward them? I try to find ways to get to know them better
Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you? In my experience stuck up people are usually full of snide remarks, I havent' really met any stuck up people who were actually quiet.
Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else? - No I don't think there's any correlation between how loud someone is and how smart they are.
Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy? Sometimes they're a bit weird by most of societies standards but for me weird is good and normal ..... well it's pretty boring :-p
Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different? - No, I'm me and me I will be
Do you feel bad for them? - only when they clearly want to do something more outgoing and can't make themselves overcome their shyness to do what they want.
Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them? - No I will go sit with them just for moral support if something has happened that I know must have hurt them.
Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet? - I don't judge them harder but I think about every human being I meet differently. No two people are exactly alike.... I really love that about people.
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I'm like the shy and quiet person in school as well. In classes I never say a word, not even to answer the teacher's question unless called to answer more like everyone else. In fact,on the teacher's comments in my report cards, all through the school years even now my teachers say to "Speak up more" Then there's this whole different person when I'm around my friends. It's random and kinda loud, only around my close friends. Until then not a peep shall be heard
Posted 8/1/10
I don't have a problem with shy people, but they aren't the type of people I usually hang out with.

Because two quiet people together usually = awkwardness
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im shy and quiet but that just in front of ppl who i dont knw or just cant relate. i think i have a different way of thinking than others that its hard to actually mingle.anyway i talk if ppl talk with me so im not really stuck up or anything just cant relate..im one of those ppl with 4D jokes or talks..its like coded
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I feel the same exact way. I let my actions speak for me and if I do not speak it is because I have nothing good to say. I let everyone do their own thing and I dont care. It is simple I do not care about anything that anyone else does. Why? You obviously already know the answer to that question.
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What do you think of shy and quiet people?

Being shy and quiet myself, I haven't formed a general opinion on us yet.

How do act act toward them? Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you?

I like shy and quiet people, I tend to gravitate towards them, cause we tend to be similar. And no I don't think that they are stuck up either. Stuck up people act stuck up.

Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else? Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy?

I find that most shy and quiet people are usually pretty smart.
I don't think that people are automatically crazy for being shy and quiet.

Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different?

No, I just act like myself.

Do you feel bad for them? Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them?

Why would I feel back for them ?

Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet?

No, why would I ?
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I'm shy but not the quiet type when I have friends to talk to
I'm more like a passive type just like a mirror, I'll treat the same way you treat me
most of my friends are the "don't mind type" so I can start a conversation easyly
but many of my classmate give me a weird face when I talk to them so I become shy and quiet in that case
if there are only "don't mind type" classmates, I don't think I'll be shy and quiet at all
When I face shy and quiet people, I tend to try talk to them and check out what kind of facial expression they give to me before I start a further conversation~~~ I don't want to bother them too much because sometime I do want to be alone (while drawing) so I understand their feeling as well
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Posted 8/1/10

Sai2510 wrote:


TheModernDayZombie wrote:

What do you think of shy and quiet people?

I think shy and quiet ppl have a lot of things bottled up in their minds =/

How do act act toward them? Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you?


I act like i normally do 2 ppl... if they talk 2 me i talk 2 them, if they don't then i rly don't mind

Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else?

Hmm sometimes... becuz when i have a friends in one of my classes i kinda do bad, but when they transferred 2 another class 4 sum reason i do very good (less distractions)... other then tht no becuz they might be a average type of person and they're unsure whether the ppl in the class are mean or nice or they might feel tht they're different (foreigner)

Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy?

Sometimes again... becuz of all the quiet and shy ppl i talk 2, i got 2 admit they're pretty depressed, weird, or crazy (but tht's wat i like about them)... but again it could be tht unsure average person or he/she is an anti-social person

Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different?

Not rly.. I treat every1 the same.. if they're respectful and nice 2 me, then i return the favor... if they bother me then i be mean 2 them

Do you feel bad for them? Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them?

Not rly... if they want 2 talk, they talk.. if they want 2 stay quiet it's there choice

Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet?

I honestly don't think much of people in general

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I'm a shy and quiet guy but there are sum ppl i just prefer 2 associate with


Same here.


me too...
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Posted 8/1/10
Someone told me shy people are cute :3
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