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What do you think of shy and quiet people?
Posted 8/1/10
maybe they just have no courage enough to start talking with someone else
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Posted 8/1/10
they're my friends
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Posted 8/1/10
they can be frustrating sometimes because i feel like im the only one making an effort to start conversations. its very awkward.
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What do you think of shy and quiet people?
-They're cool. I value silence over worthless blabbering any day.

How do act act toward them? Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you?
-No, they just don't feel like talking. I would know because I can be like that.

Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else? Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy?
-The quieter ones tend to be smarter, from what I've noticed. They spend more time listening than talking.

Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different?
-Depends on the person.

Do you feel bad for them? Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them?
-No, but I am like that, so I notice many who speak to me because I am quiet.

Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet?
-No.
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Posted 8/1/10
Why do any of you even really care?
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Posted 8/1/10
What do you think of shy and quiet people?
- I like them. I'd rather not speak than shout out everything about my life.

How do act act toward them? Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you?
- Quiet and.. I don't know, gentle maybe. No, of course not! And I don't like when people think that. I'm shy and quiet too, and sometimes I just wouldn't know what to say to another person. I also sometimes don't feel like talking.

Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else? Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy?
- Well, usually. It's because they, sometimes, take the time to listen in class. Though some are just quiet because they're thinking about something else. No, I don't think they're depressing, weird, or crazy.

Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different?
- They're not different. Well, in my opinion, anyway.

Do you feel bad for them? Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them?
- No. And I don't try to talk to them because I feel bad for them; I'll try to talk to them because I feel they're more interesting than the loudmouths that chatter nonstop.

Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet?
- No.


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I myself could be counted as one of those 'shy and quiet' people. But I'm quiet because I find no need to answer the ridiculous questions some people ask me. And plus, I don't know what to say at times.
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Posted 8/1/10
Shy people are just normal people. I don't think i've formed any particular opinions about shy people. (atleast not a bad opinion when i think about it) Some times hanging out with a shy person is great cause although I myself can be pretty talkative (only around people i know) sometimes silence is nice. You don't really have to talk to much to understand a person. My boyfriend is actually extremely quiet and shy even when you get to know him, he's never been a big talker since i've known him for a lil over a year now. He's cute the way he is, shyness included :P
To be completely honest I moved alot when i was younger, over 5 times, and whenever i got to a new school i was shy and quiet for a month or so. Alot of people assumed that i was stuck up cause of it but i just tend to keep my mouth shut till i am comfortable with my surroundings. Once people got to know me i talked alot more and became alot more open around them.
Just try to get to know the quiet and shy people you meet, some of them will open up to you some will continue to still be quiet and shy but that's just the way people are.
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Posted 8/2/10
I'm actually a big fan of quiet people. Shy people can be a little buggy sometimes but thats cool. I personally am rather opposed to people in general... so... yeah. I likes my quiet.
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Posted 8/2/10
o-o.
Oh.
Thats me.
Especially in the classrooms..
But outiside..

I also really hate when people are constantly asking me why I'm so quite. Asking me 50 million times doesn't mean I'm going to answer. And then everyone has to comment on how I'm so shy or quite for 5 minutes. Yes I know I'm shy and don't talk to people, but do you really have to tell me any chance you get? Does anyone else feel like this?


TRUE THAT!
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Posted 8/2/10

Morbidhanson wrote:

What do you think of shy and quiet people?
-They're cool. I value silence over worthless blabbering any day.

How do act act toward them? Do you think they are stuck up, because they don't talk to you?
-No, they just don't feel like talking. I would know because I can be like that.

Do you think they are smart or smarter because they are quiet in class, unlike almost everyone else? Do you think they are depressing or weird or even crazy?
-The quieter ones tend to be smarter, from what I've noticed. They spend more time listening than talking.

Do you feel like you have to act differently around them because they're different?
-Depends on the person.

Do you feel bad for them? Do you try to talk to them because you feel bad for them?
-No, but I am like that, so I notice many who speak to me because I am quiet.

Do you judge them harder or think about them differently because they are shy or quiet?
-No.


You have answered everything in my mind.
Thank you.
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Posted 8/2/10
I'm a really shy girl but I have taken a few leaps these past few years just to experience new things outside my comfort zone. It has let others see who I am. Many often come to me to talk about their problems or need help with school. Some just like to come socialize about whatever. Being an observer - I can relate to many different people from all the things I have seen.

In conversations, I only speak when I find it necessary to. Most of the time, people talk and I listen. I remember a statement that my friend said to me, "How can you be so nice to everyone? I would have gone insane if he/she talked to me like that by now." And I replied, "I like everyone with their flaws. Everyone has a different personality and it's rather remarkable to interact with so many characters. Another reason I may be nice to everyone is that... I give everyone a benefit of the doubt without judging them by their past or by their appearance."

From all the people I've interacted with - they find quiet people to be really trustworthy and easy to get along with. They kind of look up to them.
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Posted 8/2/10 , edited 8/2/10
oh man i guess people can call me shy but the truth is i that i have a low voice and i pretty much fail trying to project my voice
I hate it when i repeat stuff alot but w/e i guess thats why i use hand gestures and such to help the communication process

its so much easier to type then talk no lies


like you dont have to worry as much typing stuff
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Posted 8/2/10
The shy and the quiet? They are probably late-bloomers and someday, they'll shine too
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Posted 8/2/10
shy people annoy me
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Posted 8/2/10
I've been shy ever since at least 1st grade.:\
But, thats how I like it. Whats funny is, around my friends I'm loud and funny and hyper. As soon as I get into a classroom or around non-friends, I never open my mouth unless I'm spoken too. Although I rlly like to be alone with my thoughts. I do solitary things most of the time like: Draw, Write stories, Litsen to Music, Watch Anime, get on the computer e.t.c
BUT I always also get those annoying questions:
'' Why do u never talk?''
''why so quiet?''
''Whats wrong?''
it happens alot but I just shrug and say thats just how I am.:] but ppl do talk to me somtimes like im somthing interesting they want to figure out randomly then as soon as I rlly start to speak up, they'll leave like there job is done.>_> Also i too always get report cards saying I need to: ''Speak Up'' and even once back when I was in 7th grade:
''Seems painfully shy, should maybe take extra classes during summer for help''
That was from a math teacher. Made me rlly pissed xd but I am kinda sensitive..I dont rlly cry but I blush ALL THE TIME. for some reason I do cry when I get angry..very annoying. Im not weird tho, just like everyone else, just not running around loud and volunteering to do a speech or anything :]
a little thing ive noticed is:
All my friends are really outgoing. Outgoing people are attracted to me like freakin' magnets. -.-'' dunno why.
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