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Proud to be mean?
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Posted 1/6/08 , edited 1/6/08
I searched around the forum, and haven't find this topic being discussed yet. I just want to get people's opinion on this...

Ok, thing is.. These days, I see people that are mean, and... for some weird reason they are proud for being that way. I just really can't understand why anybody would think it's cool to be an unlikable person. You know? the ones that says nasty things and then have a 'i'm-a-bad-ass' smirk after. They even make t-shirts that says i'm a bitch It makes me kinda wonder.. Is that a new trend these days? that the more of an asshole you are the cooler you get?

I want to know what you guys think... Is it actually cool being a bad person? Do you view those people and actually respect them? For me they really come across as bunch of try hards. It's not even cool, and people just won't like and trust you.
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maybe because it makes you look much cooler if you are mean. and they think that they are gaining respect. leaders use the iron-hand tactic to make their followers scared and wont do anything wrong against them.
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Well let me tell you, there are two types of ass holes.

Asshole #1: These are assholes like me, whose Shenanigans are cheeky and fun.

Asshole #2: These are assholes like BasaouKazuma, whose Shenanigans are cruel and mean.

There is your answer, hope it helped ^^
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i don't really get this attitude either. for the most part i'm an open and pleasant person so i hate it when you go out and people are just plain pain in the asses with their "everybody sucks but me" attitude

sociologists directly link it to being insrcure and this attitude gives them a safety net if they are ever hurt or rejected
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for some reason i feel like this is directed towards me
haha. because I AM MEAN! =P

being mean doesn't neccessarily means you're a bad person
it just means you're a bitch. >:]

as for myself, being a bitch is not a trend
it's my individuality. my personality. ME :]

my bitchy-ness do have it's limits though.
i'm only mean and bitchy to stupid ppl
i don't hate them. i just can't stand them
you know...the obvious stupidity
i'm not the smartest one.
& i can be an idiot sometimes..maybe i don't realize it
but i just can't stand ovbvious stupidity
like blondes..no offense
most are morons. they say stupid stuff


i am mean regardless of what ppl think of me
i dont try my best to be nice to everyone just to fit in
not my way of life. i choose to be myself and i will be myself

im usually mean in my comments
im very honest when it comes to giving ppl comments
because..if you ask for it...then expect both positivity & negativity
if you dont like it...shouldn't even bother asking


i'm not proud of it. and im cetainly not ashamed of it either :)
if you post in a public forum asking for attention or comment, people will give it to you, positive or negative, and such is life .


come to think of it. im not being mean. im being realistic :]
most of the times....lol

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hmmmm i like being evil...it doesn't make u cool....i fact it keep most people away un less they are the select few i actuly like i can play nice...but...... u need to ern my respect other wise don't expect me to like or be nice to u...ps i will most alway be nice to some one first shot after that ......i will be an ass if that is my wish...... and i like it that why to many people out to stabu u in the back....i prefer to keep them at a distance......and thouse who just act like and ass to be cool r retards...or lably them sevs as so.... like with shirs....neeed to learn it keep people at a distance and does not make them like u....
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i used to bully people a lot, and i felt really empowered whenever i pushed someone around. i've even mugged a kid once. ONCE. but after awhile i started to get a sense of honor and dignity about my actions, and i couldn't do it anymore.

i totally understand why kids might bully others and be an asshole. you feel really powerful when you are able to enforce your will upon someone. to someone that doesn't feel like they have any power or importance at home, it could can be their substitute for what they feel they don't have.

do i have respect for tough, bad-ass dudes? yes. do i like them? no.
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I do understand why people like to be mean and I agree with what applexshampoo is saying about mean people being insecure people.
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piratecake wrote:

I do understand why people like to be mean and I agree with what applexshampoo is saying about mean people being insecure people.



I DISAGREE =]
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lazypower wrote:

no, they're just stupid little kids.
I'm a nice person.


not to nice to be calling people stupid :/
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Posted 1/6/08 , edited 4/18/08

Kieutie wrote:


piratecake wrote:

I do understand why people like to be mean and I agree with what applexshampoo is saying about mean people being insecure people.



I DISAGREE =]


That's fine
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26 / F / Corner of No and...
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I don't understand the attitude either. But I wouldn't judge them for being like that. Everybody has their own reasons for being the way they are. Wow that didn't make any sense at all. Ignore me I'm sleep depraved.
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I'm mean to those piss me off. But I don't like it. So their some out who I was rude to and I'm sorry.

sheighton
wolzen
Unrefined-Nemesis
lazypower
ShadowGryphon
Your_Typical_Friend
n_n303
projectcedric
magnus102
Gaburiera-chan


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Sometimes you need to be mean to get things done.
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Some people are always "mean" to each other so they can show that their e-penis is larger.



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