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Posted 8/5/10
I would like to get some feed back and insight from the community about this topic. I noticed back around 2000's it was trendy for a Asian girl to date a white guy and a Asian Guy to date a White girl. So fast forward a decade and I've noticed now a days it is like the way of life for many Asian girls to refuse to date Asian guys. While on the other hand I've notice White girls are more accepting of Asian guys but at the same time they are not as hardcore about the Asian girls that date white guys only.

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Posted 8/5/10
Makes me think of the old thread white girl/asian guy or asian girl/white guy thread, which could make this a duplicate.
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I don't really care since I don't focus on something like this. There are various reasons why Women of Asian descent date guys of European descent or other.
Posted 8/5/10
I didn't know skin colour was "fashionable" in dating.

If I like them, I date them. If they happen to be Asian then whatever. Am dating because I like them not because they are Asian.

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Posted 8/5/10
...not suuure.

Oh one thing for sure, they will have adorable babies!
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Posted 8/5/10
When I was in Japan, I noticed a lot of Japanese women were dating a lot of the military guys...always saw them on base a lot, since they signed them onto base for visits...if they love them, they love them, I guess...never gave it much thought since I'm married myself, but it probably would've bugged me more if I were single I think, 'cause I'M trying to get a guy then!!
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(no racism) i'm speaking from a scientific point of view. Interbreeding between the races is bad because of natural selection. In nature, there has to be variation in a species. this ensure evolution and natural selection occurs and members with a certain variation that somehow helps them survive, live. Interbreeding breaks down variation and this natural cycle.
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It seems odd to me, the reason why I brought it up from my own personal experience alot of my friend's sister (asian) all married white guys more so then Asian almost 2 to 1 (kid you not) even my own sister married a white guy. To me its very mind boggling to me where its to a point where when I was in China girls would come up and ask me since I was from the US if I had any white friends with me....
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Yohannbear wrote:

It seems odd to me, the reason why I brought it up from my own personal experience alot of my friend's sister (asian) all married white guys more so then Asian almost 2 to 1 (kid you not) even my own sister married a white guy. To me its very mind boggling to me where its to a point where when I was in China girls would come up and ask me since I was from the US if I had any white friends with me....


sucks to be you :/ huh..
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Posted 8/5/10

Shohee wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:

It seems odd to me, the reason why I brought it up from my own personal experience alot of my friend's sister (asian) all married white guys more so then Asian almost 2 to 1 (kid you not) even my own sister married a white guy. To me its very mind boggling to me where its to a point where when I was in China girls would come up and ask me since I was from the US if I had any white friends with me....


sucks to be you :/ huh..


Heck yea! My parents always like you should date other chinese girls and im like mom chinese girls wants a white guy! and shes like WHAT? and im like look at your daughter!! (argument ensues....) Lol
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Posted 8/5/10 , edited 8/5/10
Well, from personal experience, I married a Chinese girl (who lived in Beijing until college graduation), and I don't think our cultural differences caused any particular friction in our marriage. Although it did take me a while of Chinese language study to realize some of the things she says to me are not quite as cute as I once thought they were... "讨厌!" is kind of cutesy when one's wife says it in a girly tone, "滚开!" strikes me as rather less so.

On the other hand, we only started dating as educated professionals in our mid-20s when we were both finishing grad school in the US so it's not like I was grabbed by a gold-digging peasant girl just off the field.

And, Alex724, you might be kind of right from a global perspective, but it's much better for individual children to come from mixed racial backgrounds. Even among human populations, there are a number of genetically-influenced diseases which occur in close populations but are less likely to result from breeding a little further away from one's local gene pool (Tay-Sachs and sickle-cell anemia come to mind, although, of course, neither of those are prevalent in East Asian populations, afaik). There are far more examples in closely directionally bred animal populations, such as the spread of hip dysplasia in several dog breeds like Labrador retrievers. Mutts tend to be healthier -- if one's kids don't mind being called "halfie" or whatever when they're young!.
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Posted 8/5/10

Yohannbear wrote:

It seems odd to me, the reason why I brought it up from my own personal experience alot of my friend's sister (asian) all married white guys more so then Asian almost 2 to 1 (kid you not) even my own sister married a white guy. To me its very mind boggling to me where its to a point where when I was in China girls would come up and ask me since I was from the US if I had any white friends with me....


Wow...are you serious?
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Posted 8/5/10
Could be your deodorant...change it and I'm sure you'll score big.
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Posted 8/5/10

Akira-I wrote:


Yohannbear wrote:

It seems odd to me, the reason why I brought it up from my own personal experience alot of my friend's sister (asian) all married white guys more so then Asian almost 2 to 1 (kid you not) even my own sister married a white guy. To me its very mind boggling to me where its to a point where when I was in China girls would come up and ask me since I was from the US if I had any white friends with me....


Wow...are you serious?


I am dead serious.... if your white you should go asia you get so much girls.... even if your ulgy and fat you still get girls....
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Posted 8/5/10
There's also the whole socioeconomic thing of girls always trying to "marry up" to get a wealthier guy and guys "marrying down" to get a more traditional girl (which is horribly misplaced and biased of people but it seems to happen), which explains a lot of dating and marriages, i.e. Chinese girls marrying whites, Chinese men importing Vietnamese or smuggled North Korean girls, etc.

According to this theory, as soon as the American and European economies finish collapsing in a decade or two, white women will be dating Asian men in droves, since only they will have jobs, and we white men aren't getting anything except more hours in the fields or coal mines.
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Posted 8/5/10

Yohannbear wrote:

I am dead serious.... if your white you should go asia you get so much girls.... even if your ulgy and fat you still get girls....


I highly doubt that but then again I'm only going on from what I've seen in korea.

Where exactly do you live again?
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