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Posted 8/10/10 , edited 8/10/10

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gosh mannnnnn!!!!
I've learned a lot reading some of these comments... when u date someone u don't date them because of what race the are lol...
i thought when ur going out with someone your supposed to like them for who they are as a person.. where does race come into it???
well that how it is for me anyway...
i would hate for someone to date be because of my race.. im a mix anyway lol
dad - south African
mother - French Caribbean
grandma - Caribbean


That's something that they tell people to make them feel better. Not many people actually date others that they like as a person - they become friends with them.


buts thats just sad!!! i think it would be amazing if i fell for someone who was my friend first, i'd feel safe with them, they would already know the true me...sadly love does not work like that ..you can't control who you fall in love with...and so life goes on..
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Posted 8/10/10

gabsgobygab wrote:


angrierchick wrote:


gabsgobygab wrote:

gosh mannnnnn!!!!
I've learned a lot reading some of these comments... when u date someone u don't date them because of what race the are lol...
i thought when ur going out with someone your supposed to like them for who they are as a person.. where does race come into it???
well that how it is for me anyway...
i would hate for someone to date be because of my race.. im a mix anyway lol
dad - south African
mother - French Caribbean
grandma - Caribbean


That's something that they tell people to make them feel better. Not many people actually date others that they like as a person - they become friends with them.


buts thats just sad!!! i think it would be amazing if i feel for someone who was my friend first, i'd feel safe with them, they would already know the true me...sadly love does not work that that you can't control who you fall in love with...and so life goes on..


I usually date my friends. My friends = my dating pool.

Not everyone does this, however. There are some good people that end up relegated to being 'just friends' because they weren't pale enough or weren't Asian and they can't possibly be worthy of being dated.
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I usually date my friends. My friends = my dating pool.

Not everyone does this, however. There are some good people that end up relegated to being 'just friends' because they weren't pale enough or weren't Asian and they can't possibly be worthy of being dated.


thats just silly!!! lol its there loss then!!!
Posted 8/10/10
does it matter? inter racial dating and marriage happen all the time
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Posted 8/10/10
I dont see anything wrong with it (see my profile pic), I'm white and my boyfriend is asian and we're perfectly happy together. I really had no preference as far as race, I just so happened to fall in love with him. He doesn't have much of a "preference" per se, but most of the girls he's ever liked have been white. I actually thought we were gonna get a lot of hell for it in school since race is such a big freaking deal here -.- But surprisinglly we dont. The worst is this one guy tried to convince my boyfriend that since he's asian he's allowed to have more than one girlfriend -.- But he's an asshole anyway.
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Posted 8/12/10 , edited 8/12/10
No way. My friends and I am attracted to men of all races. And I kind of find it ironic that I ended up with a white guy because people just think that's all I go for...but it's not the case at all.

if anything, more and more I see girls and guys finding men/women of other races more attractive because they're more exposed to them, and therefore the hot members of their race...and not just white girls going for asian guys and asian girls just going for white guys...or whatever
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Posted 8/12/10
I don't even see a white girl/asian guy that much, but I do see white guy/ asian girl a lot. I don't know if it's only me but I see a white guy/asian girl couple way more than an asian guy/asian girl couple. I smell the extinction of the asian race in a few million years.
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Loofie7 wrote:

I don't even see a white girl/asian guy that much, but I do see white guy/ asian girl a lot. I don't know if it's only me but I see a white guy/asian girl couple way more than an asian guy/asian girl couple. I smell the extinction of the asian race in a few million years.


I wouldn't say that. Consider that, numerically, there are more Asians in the world than anyone, and a lot of Asian countries tend to be heavily populated. I think it just means that there are going to be a lot more kids out there that are biracial (Asian and White) as opposed to a race being diluted. There will always be those that will only date their own.

If anything, it will be Western cultures like The US that will have a greater incidence of multiracial children.
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The thing is with this is that the parents from the asian side will most likely not approve of the relationship, because even though it sounds discriminative, most asian families prefer their sons/daughters to marry other asians.
I recently went to my cousin's wedding (we're Chinese :)) and she was marrying an English guy and he was lovely and everything, but i don't think her parent's were too happy with it, and my dad was a bit iffy about it all too, but i don't really know why because ethnicity should have nothing to do with anything.
Also, my other cousin on the other side of the family has 2 babies with a German woman, but they're not married, just living together, and i'm pretty sure my uncle isn't too proud of that but still accepts her into our family.

For me and my sisters, my dad would prefer for us to marry other males of chinese ethnicity but to not do so would be our choice and our dad respects that. But he would only PREFER that and to be honest, i prefer chinese guys too
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Posted 8/12/10

Loofie7 wrote:

I don't even see a white girl/asian guy that much, but I do see white guy/ asian girl a lot. I don't know if it's only me but I see a white guy/asian girl couple way more than an asian guy/asian girl couple. I smell the extinction of the asian race in a few million years.


If anything, it would be the other way around, whites blending into extinction with asians, lol.
Great asian master plan to take over the world
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I completely agree with you.
Has anybody ever read the Stuff White People Like book? It talks about why it's trendy for a white guy to date an asian woman. It says that White/European men like Asian women for the trophy wife purpose and because they tend to retain their looks for longer than European women do.

I don't think that trendy is the right word though. I think all types of relationships are becoming more accepted in the world, with the gay rights movement and all, so people aren't as worried about dating out of their race as much as they used to be.
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Posted 8/12/10

thesofa wrote:

I completely agree with you.
Has anybody ever read the Stuff White People Like book? It talks about why it's trendy for a white guy to date an asian woman. It says that White/European men like Asian women for the trophy wife purpose and because they tend to retain their looks for longer than European women do.

I don't think that trendy is the right word though. I think all types of relationships are becoming more accepted in the world, with the gay rights movement and all, so people aren't as worried about dating out of their race as much as they used to be.


Trendy is totally the correct word. Certain types of relationships are becoming more accepted in the world, though certainly not all.
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Posted 8/14/10
To be honest I want an Italian...the really myserious, good-looking ones you seem to hear about in fantasies
I'm an Asian...and I don't want to be with an Asian guy. Contradiction huh
Posted 8/14/10
Technically we are the same color as most east asians, the only difference is eyes, and whites have multiple hair colors.
Posted 8/14/10

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To be honest I want an Italian...the really myserious, good-looking ones you seem to hear about in fantasies
I'm an Asian...and I don't want to be with an Asian guy. Contradiction huh


they arent all as good looking as made out to be. in fact your lucky to find a sexy one.
but thats the same for all nationalities.
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Posted 8/14/10
I find it totally normal, i'm asian. I've liked many different kind of guys
I've liked Australian guy before.
And like asians.
I don't see much difference between them |:
Maybe different cultures. But we all like Mc Donalds and Kfc.
SO LOLS. It's kools (:
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