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Posted 6/21/08
Run from your problems and they'll find you. I learned that the hard way. Just deal with it when you can as soon as you can.
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Posted 6/23/08

11opium11 wrote:

Yeah problems are my biggest problem >.<
First of all a little story of ..chrm ...someone:

You know when I was a child I didn`t think much about problems or their consequences ( or I didn`t notice them).
I just lived my through my childhood without many thoughts. But to face problems is a very important thing to grow older and realize many things which where covered in the early days. You can say at that time my problems weren`t problems but something that was totally normally for me to solve.xD ( I know it sounds kinda weird)

But when I reached the age where human not only accepts things they are but also understands and follow them it became difficult.
Then i became aware of myself. What person i really am. When facing a problem that cannot be ignored I often paniced. To run away. (Yeah man I am a coward ..)

"What should I do?" "Why does it always happen to me?" "Is this really that what I should do?"

But I recognized that you cannot run away from your problems your feelings....
From some (little) problems occured it became worst by trying to escape.
I was trying to forget about it but I was confronted everytime I try to forget.
I was losing myself in an own dreamworld ~my own Utopia in my mind~ losing reality. I was thinking back then:

"When my life is just consisting of this ....whats then the meaning of living?"
(No, I didn`t want to die!xD )

My answer I found was, that life is a stony (^^stone) troublesome(xD) path up to a mountain where I can find to meaning of my exsistence. Its not easy to follow the path not to give up and run away from problems.
But finally after realizing that little matter it wasn`t that easy to say :

"Yeah I get it! Let`s try not to run away anymore!"
However I got out of that dreamy land (loong ago !) and get a little more confidence.
So nowadays I take out my problems with more thoughts and more calmly although I still try to get away frm it if possible ( still a little coward xD).

So my conclusion: If I have to face a problem try NOT to run away( above all try not to run away frm big probs or they get worse!)

But if you have to use your cowardice to calm yourself and try again.

That`s what I do;)

Holy Crap (just looked at the other posts) I think I got a little carried away ...(perhaps offtopic? damn it) ......(Nevermind)....ehm you neeedn`t read my post

Sorry for writen these (perhaps unnecessary words) and for my bad english.
(Pls don`t pick on me for this xD)


I'm a lot like you, I had originally had a lame plan to "run away from problems". But I realized running away isn't going to solve those huge problems, and if I didn't do something I'd never be able to step forward. Of course I have my rebounds, and need to calm myself down by being a coward again. My problems are big, I realized that since I ignored them for so long they grew even bigger. But I'm gonna go at it with the determination and if I fail, I'll go online to my happy place and talk to my friends, listen to music which reminds me of fictional characters with a lot more courage than me. And then regain the will to fight again, though I have a feeling I'll be doing that a lot once I start offline GED classes. Oh well, it's about time I faced my fears of math and being around people.

Though I'm such a coward, haha. xD

When I was little if I got hurt I'd run away from everyone, even my parents if they wanted to help me. I was a strange child, still am. It's a bad habit of mine to run away and not face the problem or acknowledge it being there. But lately I've been trying to face problems, but not all of them. Especially family problems, I feel if I faced them head on, I'd cause a big problem in the family. I'm too much of a coward to try to face it head on while I still have to live with them.
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Posted 6/23/08
i sleep them off.
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Posted 6/23/08
i just try to face it as optimistic as i could...

but sometimes of course i can't avoid feeling helpless

but like it or not life goes on

so i just deal with it and make sure it would turn into something good...

like maybe i learn something from it...
Posted 6/23/08
i cry myself to sleep :3
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Posted 6/23/08
i try to go to sleep. then face it the next day
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Posted 6/23/08
Well first i try to think about it and then i wil try to fix it if it is possible
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Posted 6/23/08
i dont run away from it!!.....i just face it..
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Posted 6/23/08
Most of the time I try to avoid it.
I ignore it.

Then I realized it's gettin worse
and it ain't gonna solve itself, then
I acutally have to do something
about it.
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Posted 6/30/08
I always escape my problems. Almost all of my problems are so complicated that it's hard to find a solution for it. Therefore, I just choose to run away... sometimes literally... sometimes emotionally
Posted 6/30/08
face it!!

running away from problems is like procrastination

in the end you just fucked yourself up V_V
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Posted 6/30/08
it usually takes me awhile to fix my problems. if it i can't run from them (and you usually can't), then i usually go excersise for a while and then come back and face it.
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Posted 6/30/08
problems?! please! my life is so boring and plain i don't get a lot of problems
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Posted 6/30/08
i've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one

seriously though, i've always tried to escape from my problems, i think it's a normal self-defense against the stresses of life.

that's why the internet is so important these days and also why a lot of people are dependent on it. you are whoever you want to be on the internet and anything is at the touch of a keyboard. what better way to escape your shitty life eh
Posted 6/30/08
usually i deal with it straight away.
if there is no feasible solution then i run away from it?
shrugs. i'm nt sure either -.-
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