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Teenage Relationships.
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Never bothered with it in High School that's for sure, put it at this OP. Once your 18. Do what you think is best. Both of my parents met before they were 25, and have been married for almost 25 years now and are sending both their kids my Sister and I to College. Relationships are different for anyone. You just have to decide what is right and what is wrong.
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vietboy101593 wrote:

Recently now that I am nearing the age of 17 and my parents are still saying no dating until I finish college, though I break that rule anyways, I'd like to know what you think of teenage relationships.

Are they OK?
What are the pros and cons?
More importantly just write why you think it teenage relationships are good or bad.


Personally I think that teenage relationships are extremely beneficial to a teenagers life. Not only does a significant other help one vent and go through the (Insert Expletive) that life throws at you, but that significant other can help one grow more mature, responsible and much more experienced. I am speaking from experience when I say this because of the 3 relationships I've had this is how it has been.

Now according to my parents who are very much traditionally Asian (Vietnamese) they say that teenage relationships are very bad. It leads to a drop in grades according to them as one will spend more time on said significant other than school. They say it will also lead to bad behavior, and unwanted pregnancies but what makes me very frustrated is that they say that LOVE does not exist at an age younger than 25.

I on the other believe that LOVE can exist at whatever age as long as both people in the relationship are mature enough and have that special feeling/link that mere words cannot describe.

So I'd like to know whats your take on Teenage Relationships.


for sure? until you finish college? damn dude I know the reasoning behind no dating in highschool but you HAVE to date in college

well I'm not really an experienced person in relationships but from what i've experienced and have heard, raging hormones do crazy shit and a lot of the relationships is just puppylove and sex.

btw I strongly support parent's suggestions of no relationships till you go to college. It might seem like a long time but seriously time goes by so fast you don't even realize it and with all those hormones flooding in your body, its best to wait till those hormones recede cuz then you can make better and more mature decisions. From what I've seen and experienced, the drama isn't worth it
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having relationship problems? call the otogi bank they will help you

think of them as the ateam of anime
Posted 8/11/10

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Personally I think that teenage relationships are extremely beneficial to a teenagers life. Not only does a significant other help one vent and go through the (Insert Expletive) that life throws at you, but that significant other can help one grow more mature, responsible and much more experienced. I am speaking from experience when I say this because of the 3 relationships I've had this is how it has been.


This can be true, however it doesn't have to be a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you have close friends they can do the same thing in a different way.


vietboy101593 wrote:Now according to my parents who are very much traditionally Asian (Vietnamese) they say that teenage relationships are very bad. It leads to a drop in grades according to them as one will spend more time on said significant other than school. They say it will also lead to bad behavior, and unwanted pregnancies but what makes me very frustrated is that they say that LOVE does not exist at an age younger than 25.


This can be true and sadly happens far too often. The best way to prevent relationships from becoming like this is to make sure both people are mature. However it can be very hard to find out beforehand. Getting into relationships with people means you will get to see a new side of them.


vietboy101593 wrote:I on the other believe that LOVE can exist at whatever age as long as both people in the relationship are mature enough and have that special feeling/link that mere words cannot describe.


You are completely right, however you are leaving out a very important part. Teenagers are much more impulsive than adults and are more likely to be a part of unhealthy relationships.


vietboy101593 wrote:So I'd like to know whats your take on Teenage Relationships.


I believe you shouldn't think about them too much. Just let things happen naturally and don't go out looking for them. I'm honestly a little troubled that you've been in three relationships before and still don't see the downside to them yourself.


TL;DR version: If you find a boy or girl you really like, let everything happen naturally. If you rush into it, you can risk ruining your life and/or your boyfriend's or girlfriend's life.

Posted 8/11/10
Dating is fine at that age. Just don't have kids and if someone suggests marriage, find another bf/gf.

If you're going to "grow up", it will happen after you finish school or not at all. The "real world" isn't anything like kids in school think it is.
Posted 8/11/10
I don't see anything wrong with teenage relationships. It's who you're having a relationship with is what is to be cautious about.
Otherwise, it's fun.
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well i don't even know what love really is yet lol ... i think i still have a lot to learn before i even think about getting
into a serious one... XD
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Romantic relationships are better for college, where everyone's more mature, and experienced with life.
Love doesn't listen to reason.
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You gotta hone your dating skills lol.

Nothing wrong with a healthy, genuine relationship during your teenage years.
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hmm, nothing i haven't encounter it yet, i dont have dating on my mind because there's no one that interest me
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Posted 8/11/10

vietboy101593 wrote:

Recently now that I am nearing the age of 17 and my parents are still saying no dating until I finish college, though I break that rule anyways, I'd like to know what you think of teenage relationships.

Are they OK?
What are the pros and cons?
More importantly just write why you think it teenage relationships are good or bad.


Personally I think that teenage relationships are extremely beneficial to a teenagers life. Not only does a significant other help one vent and go through the (Insert Expletive) that life throws at you, but that significant other can help one grow more mature, responsible and much more experienced. I am speaking from experience when I say this because of the 3 relationships I've had this is how it has been.

Now according to my parents who are very much traditionally Asian (Vietnamese) they say that teenage relationships are very bad. It leads to a drop in grades according to them as one will spend more time on said significant other than school. They say it will also lead to bad behavior, and unwanted pregnancies but what makes me very frustrated is that they say that LOVE does not exist at an age younger than 25.

I on the other believe that LOVE can exist at whatever age as long as both people in the relationship are mature enough and have that special feeling/link that mere words cannot describe.

So I'd like to know whats your take on Teenage Relationships.




Dating is fine when your in the Teens, don't take anything SERIOUS remember that! When you go to college go don't let the other person try to change your plans be your self and move forward. Put your self first and everything will fall in to place later on in life.
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Posted 8/15/10
Focus on school children JK I'm a young teenage girl 2.Getting into a relationship so young can really hurt,Its better to start when you're atleast over highschool.A great time to date because the girls and guys are more mature,and the relationship can be taken seriously.I'll wait a little longer. by then i'll be sure in what i want in a guy ^_^
Posted 8/15/10
The thought of a relationship makes me shiver. Not for me, thanks~
Maybe later, when I'm around 20, but not now, oh God. D:
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Age is just a number. It's totally irrelevant unless, of course, you happen to be a bottle of wine. Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live girl. You can't live life without making mistakes or taking chances. This might sound like your typical immature and cliche thing to say in these types of conversations but it's your life, do what you want with it and don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do.

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” - Mahatma Gandhi
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Posted 8/15/10
some goes pretty good and well, nd some well goes completely downhill
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