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Sex before Marriage?
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Posted 6/18/11
It's a personal choice. I don't think it's something that should be forced upon people. I don't think it's something people should use to look down on others because of, and I don't see why it's anyone's business what you choose. It's ridiculous to me that some individuals get so bent out of shape over it. As long as you are being safe I don't see a problem with it (and even if you aren't, then please, take care of the consenquences to follow). I also don't see the problem with waiting. Hey, if someone has chosen to wait, leave them alone too. I wish people would stop trying to push their own personal opinions on how others should be living on everyone else. You chose a path, good for you, don't try to make me follow the same steps you did, because I dance to my own tune, and if it's cool with you, then we can get along great :). For me, it's simple as that.
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Posted 6/23/11
I've already had it and im 17 so i dont know <.<
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27 / M / Illinois, United...
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Posted 6/23/11
It's more common nowadays for people to marry after having sex. Most don't want to wait so they do the deed. At least from what I've seen around me.
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20 / F / Nonya, Business
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Posted 6/25/11
i personally dont think its alrite cuz i think is linked with love plus wen u give it up u kinda linked foreva wit tht person and if they dont want to b wit u it kinda crushes ur spirit...... i mean from a girls point of view. But its a sin in my religion/lifestyle because once you have sex its like God doesnt just see you he sees you and the guy or girl you had sex wit as 1 person like your married in his eyes, even if your not in your own eyes. tehe :3
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32 / M / Toronto, Canada
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Posted 6/26/11
why does an omnipresent god care so much about the sex lives of humans struggling to survive on a planet in the remote parts of a galaxy which is close to the edge of the universe? what about people are not married? should they suffer by repressing their natural urges?
Posted 6/26/11
People often find sex is better before tying the knot, because marriage and all that entails can exhaust people to the point of not wanting to have sex, or simply make the schedules of married couples not coincide.
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Posted 6/27/11
i think that its fine, as long as its not some flimsy two week relationship.
i've always told myself, if the guy can wait at least two years.
and when i'm ready.
we can do it.
i don't know, never been a big christian.
or catholic?
i dunno.
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23 / F / UK
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Posted 6/27/11
I think it's fine to have sex before marriage if you're in a committed relationship and not just going out, getting drunk and sleeping with a different person each time. That's just stupid and bad for your health, not just immoral.
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21 / F / UK
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Posted 6/27/11
I think it's a personal choice, really. I mean, I think the main thing, if people are going to have sex before marriage is to make sure they are safe. Contraception, people! It's so easy to get a hold of these days, even if you're still in school the school nurse will have some and she, like Doctors, keep it confidential.
If you are going to make the decision to have sex, both parties need to be completely sure. Your virginity is something you cannot get back and if you waste it on someone you don't even really know you may regret in later on.
Being in a relationship first makes it a much easier process, please make sure (if your partner is not a virgin) that they have been tested for STI's. They can be with you for the rest of your life.

I don't think sex before marriage is necessarily wrong or right, it's all down to the individual.
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Posted 7/8/11
I think sex is something that helps to connect you further to the person you love.
Plus if you get married, and they completely suck on the honeymoon or turn out to be a S&M freak, you're going to have some problems.
You might just not fit each other, or find there's no spark in the bedroom, and what you thought was love is more so just friendship.

But I wouldn't have sex just for the act, I would be emotionally connected to someone, and make sure what you're doing is not something you'll regret, but cherish.
Posted 7/21/11
I believe it's fine. Personally, I won't do it before I'm married.
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Posted 7/27/11
Statistics show that in developed countries, adults are getting married at a later age and having children at a later age - significantly different from about a decade ago. In other words, there is now a larger window of time in which "pre-marital sex" can occur.

If we take the "age during first sex" and "age of engaging in consistent sex" to be a constant, regardless of marriage age, I would bet that the actual age of first-time sex doesn't vary much from a decade ago.

However, the number of "Sexual partners engaged prior to marriage" would probably be much higher than normal.
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27 / F / GDL,Mexico
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Posted 8/2/11
i just think being immature about it regardless of your age or status is bad ......
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F / Over the rainbow...
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Posted 8/2/11
I was raised conservatively (is that even a word? It is now. :P), but I don't believe in waiting for *marriage* per se, but a committed relationship is important.
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Posted 11/19/11
Strongly wrong!
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